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... Send *luntasaspoon a private message | | | *luntasaspoon's profile:i have had quite a lot of relationships and all my mates are always asking and taking advice from me (even my dad)! i am a divorcee and have 2 kids. i have been the cheater, the one who has been cheated on, the one who has had an affair with a married amn and also the one who has had a relationship with an older and younger man.
i hate falsness and i also hate seeing people in a relationship that obviously aint right for them.
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He tells me their affair has ended, can I believe him? Why are they still talking??
Q. My husband had an affair. We have been married for almost 13 years. He has apologized and said that he would not cheat again, and that he wanted to close the door to that part of his life. He said he wants to work things out with me. For the ...
A. 10 August 2008: sorry to say this but i think that he may be still having this affair. after all who calls up an ex and asks her about a confrence at stupid o clock in the morning. i think that a councillor may be in need for u 2, and also if his ex said to ask him ... (read in full...)
Is it worth finishing a degree?!
Q. Not a relationship question sorry but a life decision question. Is it worth completing a degree? Does having one actually change people's lives that much? Just in a quandry about whether to finish it. Thanks...
A. 10 August 2008: if u have started u might as well finish it. u never know one day there will be the perfect job but u cant get it coz u dont have the degree that u are currently studing for (soz cant spell that one)... (read in full...)
Will I not enjoy it because they're big?!
Q. Hiya everyone I know this is a really random question but i would like some advice please. I have pretty big breast (34ff), and i have heard someone that the bigger they are the less feeling you will have due to nerves or something. I wa...
A. 10 August 2008: have u ever ummm explored ur breasts b4?... (read in full...)
Even though I'm in a happy relationsship I cannot stop thinking about my friend... help me forget her!
Q. Im in serious need of help/advice, im love two women. The one is my current girlfriend going on 5 years now, we have a great relationsship. The other is my friend, who ive known for about 7 years. She has never been a close/best friend but since sh...
A. 10 August 2008: ok mate u are at the five yr itch. every relationship has it and it usually goes on for about 2-3 yrs. u are now getting to the commitment stage in ur relationship and, being male, u want to go elsewhere. i have got a few mates who have been in this ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I did not feel when I squirted?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend last night - wasn't our first itme or anything but I apparently did something i've never done before. Since we've started having sex he's been determined to make me cum because I've never cum during sex - I can only cum ...
A. 10 August 2008: right here goes..... when u get aroused ur vjj squirts to help prevent rubbing and dryness, some people squirt others dribble. it is also what happens just before u cum and trust me when u cum for real it is like an explosion that ripples through ur ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is away on holiday for 2 weeks and I'm finding it hard to cope with the distance!
Q. my girlfriend has gone on holiday recently and shes gone for 2 weeks but shes only been gone for 4 days and i am finding it hard to cope i dont know what to do does any one have any suggestions? ...
A. 10 August 2008: just relax :) we all go through the same feeling and it just shows that u care. try to keep your mind busy by doing things like reading, writing, something that will keep ur head together just think of all the love and affection u can show her when ... (read in full...)
Is there a second chance if you know you've changed?
Q. I've been married to my wife for nearly two years, however 3 weeks ago she told me that she can no longer keep trying and that it is over. I pleaded with her to give me another chance, wrote her a letter, sent her flowers and went and stayed at a ...
A. 10 August 2008: i'm sorry but i disagree with the answers that have already been posted. i think that u need to take a step back and look at how u were in the past, this will help if u want to be back together. u must go gently though, only go round when u are se... (read in full...)
I can't be as rough as she needs, and I'm not into blood and vampirism. Any advice?...
Q. I've just found an amazing partner who's local to me. We're very open and communicate well. Problem is, she has a blood fettish, and is into biting my neck and having me perform oral on her on her period, as well as biting my lips, having me bite ...
A. 10 August 2008: well for starters ewwwwwwwww
but ne way u 2 communicate and ur not intoit so why are u asking us? and not telling her?
i know it might sound bad but maybe she has an iron deficiency????? i mean i like the neck biting (well actually i love it) and... (read in full...)
His girlfriend is prioritised everytime, and it shows little regard for his mates.
Q. I have this problem with people flaking on me. Especially, when it comes to their boyfriends/girlfriends wanting to meet them last minute. For instance, I arranged to meet up with my mate Sam, this is after a long speech where he made it clear how ...
A. 10 August 2008: o.k. not being funny but are u seroius? ur mate has a girlfriend. get over it. if he keeps doing this to u then why do u speak to him at all?
right enough of the lecture here is what i suggest u do
be there when it all goes south. when he star... (read in full...)
Old age, love and incest, is that so wrong?
Q. Hello...My name is Leonard I am 80 years old been carrying on a relationship with my 66 year old married sister. I to am married, but we're in love. We have had sex together and will more, when we can. We both are in unhappy marrages and we live far...
A. 10 August 2008: i think that by posting on here u are either looking for someone to tell u to stop it or are looking for acceptance. either way i wont tell u either of these things, but i will tell u how i feel about it. i think that what u 2 are doing is because... (read in full...)
How do I know if he does decide to settle with me that he'll stay faithful?
Q. Ok for a long while my cousin has tried to get me with her bf of two years' ((who I went to school with)) brother....and about a month and a half ago they introduced us. Turns out I went to school with the brother too. He had just dissappeared after ...
A. 10 August 2008: ummmmmm i recon that u 2 should carry on the way u are for a while. now this goes against almost everything i believe in but for some reason i think that he may well be falling for u. i dont know why i am telling u this but its just a feeling i got ... (read in full...)
What can I do to forget my ex boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me about five months ago, shortly before our first anniversary. He did it over text, saying that part of him wanted to break up with me while the other thought he'd regret it for the rest of his life, then eventually ...
A. 10 August 2008: ok what ur dad said is tru but try this one on for size...... if u really really want to get over him then just imagin him kissing his current girlfriend and olla y look at him and think urgh what did i ever see in him.
hope this helps
bluntas... (read in full...)
We're having problems - as in, there is one rule for him and one rule for me.
Q. I have been in a relationship for the past 16 months. we are very serious about each other, but we are both at university and he wants to have his fun, go out clubbing which i dont mind, but he hates the thought of me going on nights out as he ...
A. 10 August 2008: whoah hold the phone!!!! if u 2 have been together for 16 months, and he has agreed to sex with no commitments, then get the hell outa there hunny. at first it may have been lust but if u 2 are as serious as u say u are then why on earth suggest ... (read in full...)
I HAVE to get over my ex, but I just don't know how. Please help?
Q. Well, the problem is, I am still truly in love with my ex, but he feels nothing more for me, I think. We still remain quite close friends, but I can't help but still look at him in that way. He didn't treat me exactly great in the relationship, but ...
A. 10 August 2008: well u have taken the first step by being with someone else,but please for your own health stop sleeping with them both, if your ex is not sure about his sexuality and is freely sleeping with u.... who else is he sleeping with? man or woman? i know ... (read in full...)
I'm in love and in a relationship with a 56 year old married man. I don't want to be in love with him.
Q. Hi. im 18 and have been in a relastionship for 2 years with a 56 year old married man who ive known for 6 years. i cant have any other relastionships because im so in love with him. but i dont want 2 be in love with him. it just makes me want to ...
A. 10 August 2008: hmmmmm yup ur right this is a problem. ok here goes if u really dont want to love him anymore then it sounds like u already dont love him.. if that makes any sense. it sounds like u are at the beginning of the end, and in all honesty hun it will ... (read in full...)
I don't know what my ex is playing at. I can't be messed about like this any more, can I?
Q. I have written on here previously about my issues with my ex boyfriend. but this weekend it has all come to a head.... I had to text him on friday (6th august~) about work related issues. Then from nowhere he tells starts texting me about what he...
A. 10 August 2008: good lord!!!! stalker alert!! if i were u i would get in contact with the police and ask someone in non uniform to visit u preferably a womman. show herthe txts, tell her how u feel( like if ur scared to leave the house etc etc).
i had a simi... (read in full...)
The guy I was dating went AWOL. I'm hurt, angry, and annoyed with MYSELF.
Q. Hi there, Please help...I feel really bad. This guy I was dating went awol. This left me feelings hurt and upset. But the worse was after I tried to call him several times to no avail without a response. I sent him an insulting text. The point ...
A. 10 August 2008: o.k. the way i see it is that u have been treated like dirt and u want to get closure. i did the same thing a few yrs ago and did the rampage thing then decided that if the next bloke i went out with messed me around then i would turn gay. but ... (read in full...)
My online friend is 18 and I'm 15. It seems be really cares for me but I'm confused.
Q. ok well i started talking to this guy on the net, we have been talking for a while and ow were going out. long distance relationship isnt really my thing but he keeps telling me his moving here soon. i do believe him but i do have my doubts. his ...
A. 10 August 2008: right where to start...... well ur 15 and at the moment u are being led by ur heart not ur head, trust me ive bin there lol. lemme guess????? u can talk to him about anything, u have told him some of ur deepest darkest secrets and now u feel like u ... (read in full...)
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