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writes:I have been in a relationship for the past 16 months. we are very serious about each other, but we are both at university and he wants to have his fun, go out clubbing which i dont mind, but he hates the thought of me going on nights out as he thinks i will get hit on etc. We are planning to live together from September onwards, and we are having problems - as in there is one rule for him and one rule for me. So, fed up, i suggested a friends with benifits relationship and he agreed. What should i do, im so confused!
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reader, bluntasaspoon +, writes (10 August 2008):
 whoah hold the phone!!!! if u 2 have been together for 16 months, and he has agreed to sex with no commitments, then get the hell outa there hunny. at first it may have been lust but if u 2 are as serious as u say u are then why on earth suggest that of all things!!! u do realise that it wont only be u who he is sleeping with dont u? and usually in these situations there really is no turning back. hun just get rid of him please for your own health and mental well bieng sorry i am so blunt but sometimes being blunt is exactly what is needed
sorry again
bluntasaspoon x
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