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writes:ok well i started talking to this guy on the net, we have been talking for a while and ow were going out. long distance relationship isnt really my thing but he keeps telling me his moving here soon. i do believe him but i do have my doubts. his also 18 and im 15 so im really confused and it seems like he really does care for me but i dont know.i need advice please!!!
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reader, bluntasaspoon  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 right where to start...... well ur 15 and at the moment u are being led by ur heart not ur head, trust me ive bin there lol. lemme guess????? u can talk to him about anything, u have told him some of ur deepest darkest secrets and now u feel like u 2 are meant to be. but, in ur head u have got this distance thing and age thing and is he who he really says he is, going on in ur head, but ur heart is telling u that this is the one and u love him with all ur heart and u wud do anything for him???
if that is the case then u really really need to ask urself one question..... is he like this in real life??? or is he a complete loser who has got about a million webgirls on the trot? my advice to u is to try and put ur head in front of ur heart. if u are having doubts about this whole relationship then it might be time to cool it off a bit, if u do go ahead and meet him then tell ur parents and try to get them to go with u and stay a distance away from the pair of u. then u have the security of having someone there to protect u if any thing goes wrong. i hope that this has helped
luv bluntasaspoon x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question
i have seen him on cam and that before yess.
and when we do meet ill be sure it is a public place :)
thanks heaps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): well im 15 going out with a 18 yr old who i know and we r happy together but this guy on the net who yo have never seen he could older than he sas hun
so if you do end up meeting him meet somewere public lots of people around dont go anywere quiet cos it could get real dangerous
good luk xox private message me if you have any more questions
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): You don't say whether you've actually met him yet, so I'll assume you haven't. Alarm bells the size of J. Arthur Rank's dinner gong are ringing.
He could be '18' going on 40 and might have intentions that are rather unsavoury. He could of course be totally legitimate but you need to know for absolute certain before meeting him - and when you do, make sure it's in a public place, and if possible take your father along with you. Tell this guy that's what's going to happen. If he backs off you'll know he isn't what he says he is.
Do your parents know about this guy? If not, tell them. Let them talk to him. There's more than one young lady of your age who's ended up the victim of a paedophile - make sure you're not another one.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Have you seen what this guy looks like, ie webcam? He could be some paedophile grooming for his victims. What do you know about this guy? Be very careful when talking to people online, do not agree to meet up with him, unless you take a group of friends with you.
Play it safe my dear!!
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