Is this synchronicity? Should I contact her or let her be?
Q. I have a few questions that I need help with. I am 40, I am attracted to woman and my husband knows. I have been waiting on a female, the right one so to speak. I found her, I think but its complicated. I have not talked with her for abou...
A. 12 May 2016: Thanks everyone, you gave me a lot to think about. I also came to the conclusion by my own naiveness. That maybe I just assumed she knew I wanted f/b. However, I can now see the word feelings can be took several different ways. I may be older, h... (read in full...)
I put my foot in it! What do I do?
Q. I work in a condominium and have gotten the chance to know a lot of really lovely people. One of them is a lady "Mary" who has the absolute cutest baby daughter. She showed a mommy's day video made for her by her partner and I stupidly asked "Did ...
A. 10 May 2016: You sound like me.. I think you should just let it go.
Just be who you are and all will work its self out.... (read in full...)
Is it him that’s off? I think how I’ve acted and the messages I’ve sent are fine!
Q. Hello, I've been single for just over a year. I have been online dating. I met a guy and he was very keen 2 dates in he was saying if we get married would you take my second name? And my daughter would be happy here at the weekends with us. He's...
A. 10 May 2016: I think this guy has issues... Normally I say watch out for the small red flags but this guy is the red flag...
Hot then Cold,then back and forth. I agree with all the ladies.
You do not want to get into a relationship like this one go find the... (read in full...)
He's a former coworker, but is he interested or not?
Q. I recently hit it off with this guy through email. We are old coworkers who reconnected, but haven't seen each other in several years. I noticed as time went on, he kept asking more personal questions, and even brought up the topics of marriage...
A. 10 May 2016: I would just ask to go out as friends.. See if there are any connections or sparks..
To early to tell why he would say that... However, kinda needy- so I hope it's test.... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance to marry? is it too late?
Q. I feel like I've missed the chance to fulfill my dream of getting married long time ago and I'm ready to throw the towel. I will turn 44 this year, still single and lonely. I know that you can find true love at any age, I also know there are lo...
A. 10 May 2016: Do you think maybe your holding on so you don't have to let go?
The idea of someone always coming back to you doesn't place you 1st it places you second or third..
I would cut the cord and move forward.
Why not do a dating agency or ask your ... (read in full...)
Is she still attracted to me?
Q. Do you think she is attracted to me? I have known my friend for close to 15 years and our relationship grew from just being friends, to close friends in a strange way. I have always been attracted to her and she knows the fact .. She let's me...
A. 31 August 2015: I agree with the other answer.
Dark waters.
I think you may end up getting hurt. She may just like the attention, knowing you like her..
Yes, she may be attracted to you, but if she really wanted more than just a feel good moment here and... (read in full...)
My husband is obese and has health issues. Should I leave him or continue to try and support him?
Q. My marriage is suffering due to my husbands excessive weight gain, should I leave him or continue to try and support him and hope that things will get better? We've been together for 11 years and have two young children. I love him dearly but ...
A. 31 August 2015: My opinion is you deserve to be happy.. I feel marriage is a bond each party gives 100% into it. If you have been giving this and he is refusing you are unevenly yolked. You both will never grow, you will probably be angry and it will move to ... (read in full...)
We have only been dating for 3 months and I am worried it is too soon to talk about spending more time together, and eventually moving in together
Q. I have been dating a wonderful guy since the first of January. I have been divorced for 5 years, he has been divorced for 10. I have never met anyone who I have been more compatible with, except for one thing: I am ready for more of a permanent ...
A. 31 March 2010: I hope you really stop and take my advice to heart, and it helps.
Ok 1st off, what happened in your 1st m-life relationship?
The reason I ask is even though this guy, seems so perfect right now your seeing all the stars and hearts. The relation... (read in full...)
Do you still like your crush while you have already got a new partner??
Q. Guys, Do you do it too? You have a crush on someone but he/she keep ignoring you. Then you maintain a romantic relationship with someone. After publishing your relationship, you avoid your crush. You can't do eye contact one day, but you...
A. 22 March 2010: You know I'm not the best with these sort of things.
However, I am there.. Right Now... So maybe I can help, or confuse you.. who knows 1 persons thought to the next!
I have a coworker (frm time we 1st met, there was a connection) I can feel the... (read in full...)
His constant sexual innuendos are making me think he is just after one thing, I just want a normal conversation with him!
Q. Hello Just wanted a bit of advice on how to take this guy ... Ok have been talking for a few months when ever I saw him, he works near me. He would always come over and speak to me whenever I saw him, we would chat for a while and he would always s...
A. 5 October 2009: Personally, This would be a guy I would mark up as creepy.. You seem so nice and it sounds like he just wants sex, and he thinks he knows how to talk/treat a woman.. Ya right! LOL - If it were I, and we all have had simler situation, I would ... (read in full...)
Torn between two men
Q. I'm torn between 2 men. One is my bf of 3 years who I'm having a LDR with for the past few months. Everything was great for the first 2 years but during the past year, I feel that I don't seem to love him the way I used to. I still love him b...
A. 5 October 2009: Number one due not feel bad. I do not think anyone could say this is really what you need to do, and be 100% right. Is this a missed oppurtunity of a lustful thought creating the issue or is there more deeply rooted... On him breaking up with his ... (read in full...)
She doesn't trust me since I lied about watching porn, how can I make it right?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a male, 20 years old. I need some serious help. I've been with my girlfriend (we got engaged recently) for almost 3.5 years now, and we have had a great relationship. I love her to death, she loves me, and everything was fine until ...
A. 18 February 2009: Ok, I can relate too this on her side - I was* married and yes my husband lied over several times on having porn on his computer- notice I said I said I am divorced..
You are suppose to love and respect one anouther, telling fibs is not either of t... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my friend's husband
Q. i am 30 in age and have a son of 7 years im a divorcee few months back came to my parents a friend of mine helped me in my establishment .she and her hubby made my standing .but somehow i started loving him she doesnt know but he is honest to her ...
A. 18 February 2009: Ok, This is my advice take it or leave it ( I am no saint)
Sometimes when people help us we develop a attraction to them, and start to feel like they are for the reason where you are today thing.. In fact what brought u to where u are now is U, s... (read in full...)
Why is he behaving like this? Does he really only want to be friends or does he need time?
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of the...
A. 3 February 2009: What about YOU*Although right now he seems like he is who you want. Really due you think you deserve, to be in a relationship (freind or more) in the place where you are sitting today. If he knew you would have a hard break up then he would have ... (read in full...)
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