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... Send *igbenlondon a private message | | | *igbenlondon's profile:I'm 22, I'm from the UK and the advice I give is based on what I have picked up from other people throughout my life. I am a listener and a lot of people have turned to me for a shoulder to cry on and honest advice.
I moved to London a few years ago, a life-long dream and since then my life has come together. I'm currently in a committed relationship with a very nice man who love me deeply I can still get insecure about things - I am by no means perfect and neither is my advice. |
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A neighbour changing in view of my wife and I!!!
Q. Hi Over the past few weeks our neighbour has been putting on a show in their bed room. What I mean by this is, she get undressed and gets changed without drawing the blinds. My wife and I can see all this from our lounge room if we have our blin...
A. 30 November 2007: I think you should tell her yes! She might not be aware that anyone can see. If you can't tell her to her face you can always write a note for her.... (read in full...)
During sex..He went limp. Ideas?
Q. I've just recently started dating a guy, and the first time we had sex, it was great, it was a little short lived, but great none-the-less. But yesterday.. the house was empty.. we were having plenty of foreplay.. i.e kissing necks, chests, s...
A. 25 November 2007: Don't worry about it, these things happen. It isn't worth wondering what caused it to happen in the first place - could be anything - but chances are once it did happen he couldn't get it off his mind and so things didn't get back up to speed!... (read in full...)
We watch porn together, she admires the bigger packages, does this mean she is likely to cheat?
Q. I’ve been watching X-rated movies with my wife. More than we used to do, she's more relaxed watching it. She keeps hinting at how my penis is smaller than those guys we see on porn. Almost every time she has to make a remark like "wow, look at ...
A. 20 November 2007: I'd go along with Collaroy's advice there. Just to reassure you your size is average! The men you see in porn are almost always never average or anything like it - in the world of porn big is best, in the real world things are scaled down just a ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid the feelings of sexual desire at the age of 12?
Q. i have a b/f and we want to have sex. juss to let u no he is not pressuring me. i no that we r to young at the age of twelve and i am sure that i don't want to ruin my life by having sex. how so i get rid of the feelings that i have to have ...
A. 20 November 2007: Right well, you are both at an age when sex is going to be on your minds alot. It is good to see that you don't want to just rush ahead with sex.
Firstly I guess there is masturbation which would take care of the sexual urges. It is somethin... (read in full...)
Me and my bf want to have sex, but where do we buy condoms from and is it possible to buy them at the age of 16?
Q. Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but we need condoms. I know some friends who would give them to me but those are old and could be risky to use, so we want new ones. Where could i get some? Is it possible to get them at my age of ...
A. 20 November 2007: Well good to see you are being safe!
Well you should be able to buy condoms at 16 without any problems, there are lots of different shops that will sell them and some places have machines fitted so you can buy them discreetly - there are also web... (read in full...)
Should he tell the world he is in love or should he be sensitive to his ex's?
Q. I am recently in love. He says he loves me very much however doesnt want to say or post anything about that as he thinks it's like flaunting it in front of ex-girlfriends faces and doesnt want to hurt them. I feel he is more sensative to their ...
A. 20 November 2007: Well I think that the ex-girlfriend thing may be a bit of an excuse. He might be feeling apprehensive about telling people just yet, not that he doesnt love you but he might just need a bit of time before he feels comfortable saying anything.
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My gf's co-worker is very friendly to her, am I overreacting in being worried?
Q. My gf has co-worker (married) whom I've met. He is generous with his compliments (you look gorgeous, signs emails "XXX", your hair looks beautiful, you're boyfriend is lucky). And when talking to her, he touches her shoulder/arm often. He i...
A. 12 November 2007: Well he sounds a little bit sleezy to me.
I personally would feel that he is crossing the line, however there are people in the world who are.. shall we say naturally flirty.
Ultimately if your girlfriend is prepared to grit her teeth and an... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my fiance ease up on his sometimes jealous ways? We've set the marriage date.
Q. What can I do to make my fiance ease up on his sometimes jealous ways? I am a gay male and I'm 21 years old. My fiance is 33 years old. He's just proposed almost 2 months ago and our marriage date is scheduled for next July. I've never had ...
A. 12 November 2007: Talk to him, ask him if he has any insecurities as you prepare to go into the future and just address them honestly. When you feel insecure it can cloud your judgement - trust me i know! - this is why he seems to act jealously at times. He is jus... (read in full...)
Can you be gay and yet fancy someone of the opposite sex??
Q. Can you actually be gay (and when i say gay i'm not including bi-sexual) and yet fancy or love someone of the opposite sex?...
A. 12 November 2007: Well it depends on your definition of being "Gay" or "Straight" or "Bi" or "Curious"...... (read in full...)
Why do I still have a baby face?
Q. ok i am about a same hight as a adult but i still have a baby face why do i still have my baby face i want my adult face i am 14 ?...
A. 12 November 2007: I still have a babyface and I am nearly ten years older than you! I don't see it as a bad thing, as long as I don't dress too young I can still get into the places I want without hassle.
At 14 that shouldn't be a problem for you anyway! Just try... (read in full...)
I mastrabate too much!
Q. okay... well i masturbate a lot.. and i am a bit worried. I've been doing it since i was in 5th grade, and well I'm 17 now. i do it about 4-5 times a day, and i watch porn about 3 times day, maybe more. i am obsessed with sex. but I'm a virgin, it ...
A. 12 November 2007: Good on you for being honest!
Masturbating is only a bad thing if doing it is making you feel bad or if you think you are doing it to cover up some bad feelings.
Anyway all the practice you are putting in when it comes to sex you're going to ... (read in full...)
I can't retract my foreskin. Is this a problem?
Q. hi im 15 years old and i've only realised about a year ago that my foreskin doesnt roll over the head of my penis this is scaring me ....i dont want to go to the doctors about it because it would scare me and i would get really worried incase i had ...
A. 12 November 2007: Heya!
Don't be afraid, firstly you are not alone! I have actually known a couple of people with a similar issue - it isn't entirely uncommon. The most important thing is making sure you keep yourself as clean as possible, if you can't retract ... (read in full...)
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