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writes:Can you actually be gay (and when i say gay i'm not including bi-sexual) and yet fancy or love someone of the opposite sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, bigbenlondon  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Well it depends on your definition of being "Gay" or "Straight" or "Bi" or "Curious"...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Remember, terms like "heterosexuality", "homosexuality", and "bisexuality" are just words to give distinction in society on what you prefer, but ultimately, without those words, you are still what you are, and what you prefer sexually, even if it's a combination or a shade of what you prefer. Make sense?
No, I didn't think so.
For example, say you are bisexual and you married a woman. Your sexual preference by distinction is for men as well, but you are in love with your wife, and with her, sex is but one element in your relationship. If you take out that love and the other connective elements you have with your wife, it's simply just sex, and sex in itself is aligned to your own preferences. However, because you're married with a woman, it just means your emotions supercede's your (raw) sexual urges.
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reader, aim  +, writes (10 November 2007):
 I believe you cannot really 'love' someone of the opposite sex without being on any bisexual level, even on a small and partial scale. If love, you mean an intimate relationship where you like that girl, and not like a 'friendly' love... then NO. If you do fancy a person on an intimate level, then you're bisexual on partial level. :) hope that helped.
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