17 year old virgin with no boyfriend?
Q. Is it bad to be a 17 year old virgin whose never had a boyfriend?...
A. 10 January 2010: Nooooo sweety, its not :). Trust me Im 22 and still have not had a boyfriend/sex. Just enjoy your years hopefully until after college...although college is where you will more than likely meet that guy. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so shy around the guy I really like?
Q. i met a guy and i really like him but i tend to be shy around people i like and it stops me from being myself and want to be myself because i beleive its workin against me and i dont to loose him what do i do?...
A. 14 August 2009: Does he know you like him? With me I usually wait until the guy sparks up a conversation with me...thats interesting of course. Or you can spark up a conversation with him, about ANYTHING, it can be about class, clothes or if you two share the same... (read in full...)
Guys distract me way too much from my life goals...how can I stop doing this?
Q. Every semester, I always let some sweet talking guy derail me from my goals. The main reasons is that I can not really make friends at clubs because I want to transfer soon and have to stay focused. I also get extremely lonely and just allow a guy ...
A. 10 August 2009: So there is no way to forget about him, only naturally, huh? *sigh*
Oh well, the semester starts Aug. 17th so I can definitely put "NO" to use and work on willpower, I am to nice and always consider other people's feelings, wants and needs over my o... (read in full...)
Guys distract me way too much from my life goals...how can I stop doing this?
Q. Every semester, I always let some sweet talking guy derail me from my goals. The main reasons is that I can not really make friends at clubs because I want to transfer soon and have to stay focused. I also get extremely lonely and just allow a guy ...
A. 9 August 2009: Thanks, but I seriously want to 4get about them. I am still in the "boy-crazy" phase, if I do meet some who are only worried about grades and their interests yes, I will definitely become friends with them because I do not want to like anyone or ... (read in full...)
Should I stay friends or ask him about us?
Q. I have a question to ask you, I am 22 years old and there is a certain someone at my school that I am into. He is confident, outgoing, nice to everyone and very talented. I really want to get to know this guy, the only way I can get in touch wit...
A. 9 August 2009: Okay thanks anonumous :-), I know I am late, but I try to thank anyone who replies... (read in full...)
I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?
Q. Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he ...
A. 9 August 2009: Thamks for the advice! I realize that my dad does not want me to really deal with ANY guys. He said that no guy is good enough for his daughter, lol.... (read in full...)
I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?
Q. Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he ...
A. 27 July 2009: Lol, that is funny that you asked me that. I asked him what grade he got in class a few weeks ago and he said he hardly checks his school email....and told me he got a "B"... (read in full...)
I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?
Q. Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he ...
A. 26 July 2009: Lol, cool I emailed him once during the semester...and then agian a few days ago. ... (read in full...)
I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?
Q. Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he ...
A. 26 July 2009: Hello Sincerly Yours,
Thanks for responding. No it is not every week, it is usually every month or couple of weeks. If I am dealing with someone I try not to deal with the next guy until I get over my feelings for the one I truly want. Like this... (read in full...)
I'm a 29 year old virgin that doesn't want to wait anymore
Q. I'm a 29yr old virgin, and while I know that's 'okay', I really would like to have a (few) sexual experience(s) before I turn thirty. (And please don't give me self-esteem advice or wait-for-fate advice. I just really want to try this, in case I ...
A. 22 July 2009: The fifth paragraph, the part where you said "sites are geared towards men trolling for women" is so true. I can not search for shy women getting men because there are always articles, vides, forums, etc. that help out mean...even the adult website ... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?
Q. This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...
A. 20 July 2009: Lol, okay I do apologize for that @ BeingBlack and anyone else. The personal message sent to me was just a bit rude. Okay, here is the WHOLE story :)
I am 22 years old and there is a certain someone at my school that
I am into. He is confident... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?
Q. This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...
A. 19 July 2009: To is to the person (and they know who they are) who wanted to write me a personal message. I am not conceited or shallow...yes, I do HAVE to think of myself highly BECAUSE I have never been a serious relationship before and that is all I want. N... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?
Q. This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...
A. 19 July 2009: Btw, there was a girl who he did ask for her phone number and I do not have anything against any other girl...but she was "fat" and wore tonnes of make up in comparison than me. And we were conversing on the last day of the semester and we were ... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?
Q. This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...
A. 19 July 2009: Maybe he was not attracted to me? He complimented me on my hair...and he didnt talk to me until he realized that we were the only two in class. Sigh, I mine as well be a gay or a nun.... (read in full...)
Why do guys like you after you've moved on?
Q. There is this guy named Andrew that I had a huge crush on. He never ever noticed or even spoke to me in class. I would even sit next to him on purpose or ask him a question about something just to get his attn. One time he completely ignored me and ...
A. 15 July 2009: Thanks JasonX.
Lol, yes I have been frustrated since I can remember...let's see I've been guy-crazed for about ten years now and I feel I should have been experienced a lot more than I have. I just hope when I find the right guy I know what Im doin... (read in full...)
Why do guys like you after you've moved on?
Q. There is this guy named Andrew that I had a huge crush on. He never ever noticed or even spoke to me in class. I would even sit next to him on purpose or ask him a question about something just to get his attn. One time he completely ignored me and ...
A. 15 July 2009: How long am I supposed to wait to see eye to eye with a guy? Is this going to go on forever? I just want to be with someone I really like, I really liked Andrew and just wanted to move on.... (read in full...)
Why do guys like you after you've moved on?
Q. There is this guy named Andrew that I had a huge crush on. He never ever noticed or even spoke to me in class. I would even sit next to him on purpose or ask him a question about something just to get his attn. One time he completely ignored me and ...
A. 15 July 2009: Hello Libra1963 and dearkelja,
I have another question to ask you two, how long is this suppose to go on? When the right guy comes along is he going to do the same thing to me?
This happens to me often and now that the Andrew guy (and the guy ... (read in full...)
Why do guys only want me sexually?
Q. Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...
A. 3 July 2009: Thanks tux,
I am still a bit clueless about this one guy I really like at my school though. He is a really nice person...and I can not see him over the summer because I am not taking a semester until the fall(next month).
I keep on writing ... (read in full...)
Why do guys only want me sexually?
Q. Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...
A. 2 July 2009: Are you serious, women should be more outgoing? Lol, do you mean approach you guys more often or as a general personality trait? Lol, omg, that is not in my personality and I know I can not fake that trait...I get anxiety attacks when I walk in room ... (read in full...)
Do you really think they like me or are they just being jerks?
Q. i've been through a lot this summer and its hard to be happy with all the dramma. pertty much i was dumped by my bf and almost everyong(literally) on facebook hate me. i dont kno y, but lots of ppl tend to call me a transexual? these guys from my ...
A. 2 July 2009: Since you are still young and at that "age" I think they may like you. Guys (and girls) tend to pick on each other when they like you, please do not cry about it. I have been down that road before and once I realized why they treated me so badly in ... (read in full...)
I want to lose about a stone. Any suggestions?
Q. hey ! :D i am a really insecure person and i know i need to loose weight but i dont know how ? i want to loose about a stone? is that possible but the things is i want to loose it fast?? no rude comments please just your feedback ! thanks ...
A. 2 July 2009: Hello,
I was wondering, what do you mean by a "stone"? I think the best way you can lose it SAFELY and quickly is if you...
Eat fruits for breakfast (like fruitsalad), drink black coffee or juice with it.
If you get hungry between any of your ... (read in full...)
Why do guys only want me sexually?
Q. Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...
A. 2 July 2009: Hello Tux,
I thought guys were more physical? And women more emotional? ... (read in full...)
Why do guys only want me sexually?
Q. Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...
A. 2 July 2009: Hello LazyGuy,
Well I am an extremely shy person so when I have to make the effort to get to know someone, I am not sure if I am wasting my time with the person or not. I am probably to hard on myself but I do ask myself a lot of questions befo... (read in full...)
He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?
Q. My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...
A. 2 July 2009: No, I think he just wants to get a threesome before you guys decide to break up. If you really do not want to do it, do not do it!!!... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!
Q. Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...
A. 2 July 2009: Do not feel bad, I am 22 yo and I have not gone through with it yet. I have been in situations when I could have, I KNOW that its not going to feel good until you are with someone your are married to or in love with :)... (read in full...)
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