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Girls do not like bi guys

Q.   My ex girlfriend made me bisexual. Now when I tell a female I am bi they are grossed out even if they are bi. Should I let them know?...

A.   16 March 2009: you shouldn't hide who you are. if a girl wants to be with you she should accept you for who you are. ... (read in full...)

Should we keep our TWINS a surprise?

Q.   My husband and I are pregnant with twins, this is our third pregnancy and it will be our last. We were thinking about keeping the TWIN part a surprise until they are born. We will be having a planned c section and were thinking that the he could ...

A.   16 March 2009: if i were a family member i would be so happy for you. i think its a nice surprise specially for grandparents. so i dont think they would be upset.... (read in full...)

Will this relationship devastate my parents?

Q.   I probably know the answer to this already but wanted to get various viewpoints (male, female, young, old) and see what you all had to say. I graduated from college three years ago. I was friends with one of my professors while I was still a stud...

A.   14 March 2009: of course its going to disturbe your parents. parents want you with someone your age not with such a great age difference. ... (read in full...)

What do you think would've happened if I'd gone through with it?

Q.   I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago) Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while...

A.   14 March 2009: you did the right thing. sex is better when it is with someone that you love and loves you back. you want to think back in the future and consider it a mistake?... (read in full...)

Stay for money or leave for love?

Q.   Hello. I just want to say Im a good man off the bat! I NEED some serious HELP! OK so Im 33 married for 4 years been with wife for 15 years. When I met her she always was messy. Never cleaning her room or her car. Ive always been some]what easy goi...

A.   12 March 2009: i think you should go with your heart. money isnt everything. ... (read in full...)

Found condom in my boyfriend's laundry

Q.   Dear cupid, All my life I've been unlucky with love until my current boyfriend and I started dating. Everything was going great and he helped me improve my sels-esteem. I was very depressed before him and I've been really happy for the past bas...

A.   12 March 2009: also go with your gut feelng. ... (read in full...)

Found condom in my boyfriend's laundry

Q.   Dear cupid, All my life I've been unlucky with love until my current boyfriend and I started dating. Everything was going great and he helped me improve my sels-esteem. I was very depressed before him and I've been really happy for the past bas...

A.   12 March 2009: yea. most likely hes cheating on you. I've been through this. jumpy phone habits is one sign, also there's no reason to lock the phone if he has nothing to hide. the depression only last a few day. you don't want to eat anything. all you want to is ... (read in full...)

Only 15 & pregnant..don't know what to do!

Q.   i'm pregnant and only 15. i'm scarred and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend is going to stay with me no matter what and i know this because he told me. i just need help on what to do when pregnant and only 15. how do i deal with it....

A.   12 March 2009: jessica i do not like your answer. having a baby does not mean your life is over. yea its going to take a little longer to achieve your goals, but what maters is that you do not give up. keep going to school and do what you have to do in order to ... (read in full...)

How do I make this natural when we have sex?

Q.   I've only ever had sex once, it was a while ago now and i was fairly drunk so it wasn't a great experience. Anyway now im seeing a guy i really like and we're going to have sex, however this time i will be sober and feeling very self conscious a...

A.   12 March 2009: just go the flow. If you are nervous let him know. ... (read in full...)

Scared of pregnancy after my first time

Q.   Oh god, and I thought I'll be safe when I do my first sex! It just happened, I wanted it to happen. I was worried because we didn't have any condom, I wasn't on pill either. Argh!!! I'm in a foreign country, and I have no health insurance, I also ...

A.   11 March 2009: You should get the morning afterpill, but you have to take it within 3 days. I just had a baby and according to the calculations I got pregnant a week after my period. So hurry up.... (read in full...)

Is what he did considered cheating/

Q.   alright, ive been going out with this great guy. we've been friends forever and about a year ago we started going out. i trusted him with my life but i dont really know anymore. recently he went to a sleepover for something at school and there ...

A.   11 March 2009: I understand how you feel but you are still young and boys come and go. If you feel that you cant trust him it's up to you to decide. But put yourself and your feelings before anyone elses.... (read in full...)

Is it okay to be friends with this married man?

Q.   This friendship is long distance, I met him in a duty mission ( GI) he did in my home town. He was stationed in Korea back then. We met two times only and it was for business. We are keeping in touch since then ( 2 years ago) non stop by email. T...

A.   11 March 2009: It's ok to be friends to a certain level. Once you fell that its going beyond a friendship i think you should stop because how would you if you were the wife?... (read in full...)

I just don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend.

Q.   I just don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend, not been big headed but everyone tells me how beautiful Iam and how well i present myself, but the trouble is it's getting me down, no man ever chats me up, is it because i look to what some say ...

A.   11 March 2009: If you think you look boring try something new with your hair. New hair cut or maybe some nice highlights. Maybe men are intimidated by you and they think you are going to reject them. It could be series of things. But don't blame yourself, because ... (read in full...)

I got my revenge on the other woman, and I didn't have to do anything!

Q.   My hubby had an affair, I found out and caused hell on earth for him, asked for a divorce, even got the papers drawn up, did the whole counselling thing, he got such a shock finding out that I was not going to tolerate his nonsense. He gave up his ...

A.   11 March 2009: My husband had an affair. the other women new he was married that i was pregnant. The truth is a women can be the perfect wife cook, clean, listen, love sex, look nice for her husband all the time and he will cheat. Men can be They'll cheat just ... (read in full...)

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