He's gone from being an incredibly motivated, funny, caring person to being the most selfish, angry person I know.
Q. A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. When we first met I was living with my former boyfriend who was an alcoholic. It was a very unhealthy relationship to put it mildly. My current boyfriend and I met and beca...
A. 7 August 2008: Have you noticed a physical change in him? As in he is gaining a lot more bulk that you may have put down to the fact he is spending so much time at the gym with the guys? It COULD be possible that with the mood swings and anger coupled with yes... (read in full...)
I've been having sexual thoughts about my stepdad. How do I tell him and my mother?
Q. i have been haveing some sexual thoghts about my stepdad who is in his 40s, how can i approach him and my mother about this before i do somthing stupid?...
A. 7 August 2008:
How long has your stepdad been in your life?
Is your natural father still around?
Do you have a good relationship with your mother?
Sorry to ask all the questions but at the top of the page it labels your age bracket as 10-12 is this correc... (read in full...)
How can I take a restraining order out on a family member?
Q. Well let me explain my situation. I'm 16 years old and i live in a house with my dad, mom, little sister and brother. My father has verbally attacked me and has struck me. He's even blacked my eye before. He doesn't take his aggression out on my 2 yo...
A. 7 August 2008:
Have you asked your mother why? Has he always been like this with you or did it start when you became teen? it does sound to me like you love your family but are confused as to why you are being singled out. Your Mother should be doing more, I am... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 6 August 2008:
The problem with the people is if you don't do it you might be labeled fridged but if you do it for the wrong reasons you could be labelled a slut.
The only reason you should EVER have sex at any age is because you want to have sex and share yo... (read in full...)
"Should I marry my Northern Monkey?"
Q. Hey to all, I am 26 and getting married next year (apparently)! My fiance is a very good man, he is two years older than me, a sober, clean living, intelligant, funny and caring person. He of course has his negatives, stubbon, petty, bit...
A. 6 August 2008:
Of course I have faults I am human too but I can live with mine, it his that are causing me concern.
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Is it possible that someone could hack into my email...and then call my gf??
Q. Is it possible or likely that someone could hack my email and call my girlfriend? ...
A. 5 August 2008:
Yeah need more info.....
But to be honest if you have fairly standard security setting on your email yes they can. Even easier if they know your password some how.
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He want's me to have sex with others as he watches:
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. Over all it's been fantastic and unlike many of girlfriends I feel sexually I have it made! He's a great lover in "size", caring and making sure that I stay sexually satisfied. I'm so into him...
A. 5 August 2008: I think that this is clearly making you uncomfortable and that is not going to create any sort of good feeling.
You have tried it his way (which let me tell you allot of women would not do in your situation) offered to find a middle ground, ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly and alone!
Q. All of my friends have boyfriends and/or talking to someone. And no one really talks to me, i feel so ugly and alone. Alot of my friends are guys and i flirt with all of them but they would cringe to the thought of being my boyfriend. What do i do? ...
A. 5 August 2008:
You have friends and trust me that will last you allot longer than any boyfriend, especially when your young.
Boys are great, but they are normally nicer to their female friends then they are their girl friends.
Don't worry aobut what eve... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 5 August 2008: Okay, How old is the boy?
Why do you want to have sex?
I am 26 now so 13 was not exactly a million years ago for me and I honestly could not remeber once thinking aobut having sex at that age. I do know that when I started having sex when ... (read in full...)
My husband looks at other women and we have not had sex in years because, he says, I fight too much. Help!
Q. my husband is extremely interested in looking at other pretty women even in my presence. . He is very interested to listen anything about them through me.[innocently i used to say about them.] it was so apparent that he would show no interest...
A. 5 August 2008:
You need to tell him, not shout it at him what is making you angry.
I suggest writing a letter, email or going to a third person i.e a counsoller to help maintain a calm talking enviroment.
But I do question if after 8 years of no sex and ... (read in full...)
"Should I marry my Northern Monkey?"
Q. Hey to all, I am 26 and getting married next year (apparently)! My fiance is a very good man, he is two years older than me, a sober, clean living, intelligant, funny and caring person. He of course has his negatives, stubbon, petty, bit...
A. 5 August 2008: Thanks for the reply.
I am attracted to my partners mind and personality more so than he physicality. And as he has a crap attitude of late I struggeling to find the will to push through a sexless and argumentive relationship.
So why not ju... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he dislikes me talking to an ex and now I am tempted to remind him of things from the past that have bothered me.
Q. My boyfriend went away for the weekend, when he returned he admitted he had an issue with me speaking with an ex of mine ( he speaks regulary to a few of his exs, and this ex of mine is the only one ive maintained contact with we were good friends ...
A. 5 August 2008:
I think you need to talk to him about your suspicions. Even if nothing has happened you being suspicious is going to satrt to slowly wind you up.
I think he has a flat out cheek insisting upon you ending your friendship with an ex when he is s... (read in full...)
Lately hes been distant, doesn't seem to care about anything, and can have a huge attitude with me -what's going on?
Q. i am 18 ,my boyfriend is 16. weve been together 3 1/2 months. i love him alot.it was good at the beginning. i cheated on him a month ago, he choose to stay with me and said he still loves me, and he forgives me. lately hes been distant, doesnt seem ...
A. 5 August 2008:
I am sorry to say that it would seem that your boyfriend is not over your cheating!
What you have done has probably confussed him more than he can explain as he still a young man. So he appears to be lashing out in the only way he knows how.
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