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*manda123
writes:i am 18 ,my boyfriend is 16. weve been together 3 1/2 months. i love him alot.it was good at the beginning. i cheated on him a month ago, he choose to stay with me and said he still loves me, and he forgives me. lately hes been distant, doesnt seem to care about anything, and can have a huge attitude with me but if another girl asks him something. i have asked him if its me and if so just break up with me, but he stays with me. we have lots sex when he wants to, and he keeps trying to get me to do anal. does anyone have an explanation? Reply to this Question
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reader, bagsy81  +, writes (5 August 2008):
I am sorry to say that it would seem that your boyfriend is not over your cheating!
What you have done has probably confussed him more than he can explain as he still a young man. So he appears to be lashing out in the only way he knows how.
If you truley want to make this work you need to let him get this out of his system and let him know that you care and you are willing to let him be angry at you for a bit, it was only a month ago so give him some time.
How ever if this attitude starts to get out of control or the constant insistance for anal starts to make you uncomfortable then you will need to speak to him direct about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): He is probably imagining what you would have done when you cheated on him
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