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writes:i have been haveing some sexual thoghts about my stepdad who is in his 40s, how can i approach him and my mother about this before i do somthing stupid? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): I think this is very unusual for a girl your age to have sexual thoughts about a man who is so much older than you are. Why do you have these thoughts? Is it because you think your stepdad is hot or sexy?
But I agree with the others who say don't tell your mom or stepdad about it. Maybe talk to a friend about it, but not your parents. Or if your school has psychological services available, maybe you could talk to the psychologist about it, but if you do, be sure they don't tell your parents about it.
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reader, bagsy81  +, writes (7 August 2008):
How long has your stepdad been in your life?
Is your natural father still around?
Do you have a good relationship with your mother?
Sorry to ask all the questions but at the top of the page it labels your age bracket as 10-12 is this correct?
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reader, Angle79  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Well, how about you keep a bit of distant from him. You dont have to tell him or your monther. You could talk a best friend if you've got one.
Sweetie, please don't let your feeling control your life. You are so young. Be strong and talk to friends and do not let this feeling leads you to further silly action. That will hurt you and people around you too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): Believe it or not we all have inappropriate fantasies. Be smart about it. You don’t have to confide in anybody you don’t want to. If i were you i just confide in a trusted friend or my mother, but it always depends on the situation and you know your situation the best. You might not want to tell him though, it could cause needless embarrassment for both of you. It goes without saying DO NOT ACT APON THESE FEELINGS; you'll just hurt yourself and others.
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