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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:All of my friends have boyfriends and/or talking to someone. And no one really talks to me, i feel so ugly and alone. Alot of my friends are guys and i flirt with all of them but they would cringe to the thought of being my boyfriend. What do i do? I can be a good girlfriend i know i can, but no one else knows it. I'm 14 and have only had 1 bf.
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reader, Destiny28  +, writes (5 August 2008):
Darling, do things that makes you feel good...remember that the smallest of things can make the biggest difference within yourself. Try planning out your day and reward yourself once you've done them all. I am sure you are a beautiful person inside and out and nothing to worry about. Everyone at some stage feels done and sad but the most important thing is to know how to pick yourself up from it. Do not compare yourself to other people and stop putting yourself down... ask yourself this: who is telling you to think these negative thoughts? I am sure no one apart from yourself!!! SMILE n do things that makes you who you are... boys...they will always be boys...n honestly you are at a very young age to even consider them to that extent as you are... Please don't try to grow up fast unless you are forced to.
Peace and stay strong n happy!!!
Take care
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reader, bagsy81  +, writes (5 August 2008):
You have friends and trust me that will last you allot longer than any boyfriend, especially when your young.
Boys are great, but they are normally nicer to their female friends then they are their girl friends.
Don't worry aobut what everyone else has, at the moment I would get to know about you so when te right guy does show up you'll be confident and secure in yourself which will really make you ready for a great relationship in the future. XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Dont even worry about it.
you should enjoy your time being a kid, and i know its hard. but you wont regret it later.
i grew up too fast. like believe me very fast.
so just enjoy the time you can hang out with friends and live life happy without problems with the bf.
plus.
boyfriends only make you feel sad, and act like complete asshole at your age.
dont rush.
and when your ment to have a boyfriend the right guy fro you will appear and it'd be good.
but dont rush.
and if u feel ugly
maybe you should fix yourself up a bit.
wear what u feel good in.
dont let no one judge you.
coz, your probably prettier then than in anyway possible.
especally inside.
and if you still feel alone, play around a bit.
dont make yourself look completely avaliable.
but still flirt and make eye contact with hot guys.
you never know.
good luck.
and dont feel sad. you'll find someone.
;]
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