I've been waiting for him to get the divorce and get a mortgage with me, and now that he says he will, I'm not as excited as I thought I would be!
Q. You may know from previous posts I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have just had a weeks break as I could not cope anymore with only seeing him once a week. I have taken up Ho vies and made new friends but at the end of he day I still ...
A. 1 July 2014: Hi guys update as follows. My guy has his divorce then while we were on a break advice mentioned in my last post, he proposed to me with the most beautiful ring. He told me he loved me and couldn't Imagine life without me and we would sort our livi... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for him to get the divorce and get a mortgage with me, and now that he says he will, I'm not as excited as I thought I would be!
Q. You may know from previous posts I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have just had a weeks break as I could not cope anymore with only seeing him once a week. I have taken up Ho vies and made new friends but at the end of he day I still ...
A. 6 June 2014: Hi guys. Just thought I would give You An update. My boyfriend came back from a weekend away saying he would get a divorce and we need to get a house and be a family after 5 years. He has Completed the divorce bit which was great but last week he ... (read in full...)
After five years is asking for a commitment too much?
Q. I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...
A. 16 November 2013: Update guys. He got in touch by text to say he loves and misses me. I have explained I can't go back to the way things were and I need more commitment. He keeps asking what exactly I want but I shouldn't have to spell it out x ... (read in full...)
After five years is asking for a commitment too much?
Q. I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...
A. 14 November 2013: Thanks guys. Youvhave been really helpful and I keep referring back to your advice. I feel so sad tonight. I've come to bed for a good cry. Part of me wants him to miss me and contact me soon but I wouldn't know what to say if he did........... (read in full...)
After five years is asking for a commitment too much?
Q. I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...
A. 13 November 2013: Hi guys. Just an update. It's been 4 days since I text him to.say he needs to thinks about if he really wants to commit because I dont like the way I am behaving around him and this is ruining our relationship. Have I heard from him? NO! Not one ... (read in full...)
After five years is asking for a commitment too much?
Q. I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...
A. 11 November 2013: Thanks Tisha-1. I have ordered the book. I have deleted his number to give him space. I know he should be showing more commitment after all this time but he doesn't deserve my nagging every time I see him. I don't like the person I have become ... (read in full...)
After five years is asking for a commitment too much?
Q. I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...
A. 10 November 2013: Hi guys. Thanks for all your advice. I understand what you are saying. I love my boyfriend so much but am starting to get really argumentative when I see him because I am frustrated with situation. O am always going on about it to him and he is ... (read in full...)
My bf told me to give him the ultimatum in August, but now one of my friends has confessed his feelings for me. Help?
Q. Hi guys I would like advice please as you have all been really helpful to me in the past. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years now. Those of you who have seen my past posts will remember I have been divorced for 7 and a half years...
A. 9 July 2013: Thanks for your advice and honesty. DV1- my bfs daughter loves me to bits and always wants me around. Yes, I do know all about marriage I was married for 12 years and stayed with my violent husband until he left me christmas day 2005. I have put... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi guys. I thought i would update u all with the goings on in my relationship. We still see each other once or twice a week and i have recently been bringing up the subject about where we are in our relationship and where we are going. Usually ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 28 April 2011: Hi all
Well it's 9 months since my last post and I must say that the relationship has been going mostly ok since then.
My boyfriend has a couple of times pushed me away and ignored me for a few days then asked me to forgive him saying he just fee... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 28 April 2011: Hi all
Well it's 9 months since my last post and I must say that the relationship has been going mostly ok since then.
My boyfriend has a couple of times pushed me away and ignored me for a few days then asked me to forgive him saying he just fee... (read in full...)
Is she "double" cheating now?
Q. So I have met this girl. I actually knew her before but we ran into each other and we were instantly attracted to one another. When i was checking my phone she grabbed it from me and put her number in it. So we started talking. I found that she h...
A. 13 July 2010: Hey there.
To be honest, you should tell her its over. You do not deserve to be treat like that. If she really cares for you then she will find the stregnth to end it with this guy.... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 13 July 2010: Hey there guys, thanks for the advice!
we spent a week on holiday together and since we came back he said he has turned a corner. He says he loves me and I am the one. I just have to get used to only seeing him a couple of times a week as at the ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 31 May 2010: Hi Thanks for your advice guys. Just thought I would update you.
Things were going ok until today.
Its been a glorious bank holiday and i thought i would be spending it with my boyfriend as neither of us had our children today. However, my boyfr... (read in full...)
He has been unfaithful and violent but I still love him
Q. Just to fill you out on the background first: Me and my boyfriend started courting at the slightly young age of thirteen, and now we're fifteen, so we've basically been going out for two years. The first three months of our relationship were no...
A. 10 January 2010: My boyfriend started hitting me when I was 18 and I stayed with him for another 13 years, hoping it would stop, but it didnt. Please get out of the relationship. You deserve so much better. You need to concentrate on you and your sekf esteem ... (read in full...)
We are both divorced, I don't know if I am rushing things with my boyfriend of 6 months?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I have been divorced 2 years and have 2 children, he has been seperated 1 year and has a daughter aged 9. We all get along really well, but now and then the conversation comes up about what we both ...
A. 10 January 2010: Thanks for your advice guys, it is really helpful. I am taking a step back and trying to chill, however, we spent a couple of days together at the weekend and I have noticed he is not as cuddly towards me of affectionate. He has stopped telling me ... (read in full...)
He is sometimes lazy and immature....do you think it could ever work??
Q. I had been going out with my boyfriend for 2+ years. And we'd had a fall out because I felt he was being very lazy and not doing anything with his life at all. He only worked two half days a week and did nothing else. Its been about 3 months s...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi anon . He does sound rather immature. I would suggest you spoke to him about his work and behaviour when you are together and he his being different towards you. But if that doesnt work and you If you cant accept this guy for who he is t... (read in full...)
I'm a mum of 2 and have met a great guy but cant help cheating with my FWB. How do i move on???
Q. I am a divorced mum of 2 and last year i met a guy who i totally fell in love with. The only thing is, he only wants to see me for sex. He said he enjoys my company but doesnt want a relationship. I know this is wrong but i cant brake the habi...
A. 9 January 2008: Since my previous problems, things have gone from bad to worse!!!! I have totally ruined any friendship I had with my FB as my boyfriend found out we were texting each other and rang him to have words. Now my FB no longer speaks to me and that ... (read in full...)
I'm a mum of 2 and have met a great guy but cant help cheating with my FWB. How do i move on???
Q. I am a divorced mum of 2 and last year i met a guy who i totally fell in love with. The only thing is, he only wants to see me for sex. He said he enjoys my company but doesnt want a relationship. I know this is wrong but i cant brake the habi...
A. 29 August 2007: Thanks for or your help guys!!! Although i already know you are all so right...it helps to hear someone else tell you it!!!! Its been only two days since i was in touch with Mr Wrong-for - me, but let me tell you, that is a record!!!!! I am on s... (read in full...)
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