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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had been going out with my boyfriend for 2+ years. And we'd had a fall out because I felt he was being very lazy and not doing anything with his life at all. He only worked two half days a week and did nothing else. Its been about 3 months since we broke-up. And iv tried to limit myself when I see him. Everytime I meet up with him I get upset and I miss him. But I stil have my problems with him, e.g – last night we went to a wedding with his family. I hate how everything is about 'rock' to him. He does not shut up about it. He acts stupid with his brother with it. And randomly saying stuff like; ' are you ready to rock? One must always be ready to rock. I am ready' and its always talkn about bands that I hate and things. That aspect of his personality really annoys me. He wants to be a musician. But when its just us; he's different and nice and mature and everything..he still wants us to work and i'm not particularly over him. Do you think it could ever work?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 He is not ambitious by your standards and you two don't seem to be compatible.
How can you two get along when you are always annoyed by his 'rock' stuff!
Or is it opposite attracts?
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reader, babyblueeyes +, writes (2 March 2008):
Hi anon . He does sound rather immature. I would suggest you spoke to him about his work and behaviour when you are together and he his being different towards you. But if that doesnt work and you If you cant accept this guy for who he is then Im afraid he's not the one for you hun. We have to learn to accept each other for who we are and there are some things we just can't change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): Hi Hunny
You sound more grown, It is not anyones fault but I think hunny he has to find himself its hard on you yes. So have this space and see how things go he maybe just showing off infront of his brother thats not unusual with siblings, If he wishes to work in music then he will have to work hard to be able to afford all the equipment that he will need to make the music he will have to come to this understanding as these things dont fall into our laps hunny and you are aware of this and that is why you get so frustrated. He is having to find his own way in life and learn hunny, I feel sad for your situation as you love him and he is different around you..Give this time love and if you are not happy then you will have to make the decition if this is what you want out of life as you are growing to TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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