What can I do to cheer up my friend?
Q. Dear Cupids This is not a Bf/Gf relationship thing but a friendship thing. My best friend, E, told me that her first friend, C, lied to her, like: she planed all this stuff that she knows E is not allow to do and went on doing stuff without in...
A. 26 June 2011: You could plan a day of things that you know she is allowed to do and do them together. Like watch movies or hang-out at the mall.... (read in full...)
Falling out of love with my wife...
Q. hi everyone im like don't know what to do this is eating me alive i have a wife but im not in love with her when i meet her she already had 2 beautifull girl and we had a baby boy i love them with all i have but the thing is im not in love with my ...
A. 7 April 2010: Hi I feel the same way about my marriage and Im pregnant with our first child. Its really sad. Our first year of marriage my husband was deployed to Iraq and it really felt like that deployment put an invisible wedge between us.
I agree that the... (read in full...)
Where can I get the pill without my parents finding out?
Q. where can i get birthcontrol pills from with out my mama nd daddy findin out???...
A. 24 March 2010: have you tried going to Planned Parenthood? i don't think they tell your parents but you can call them to find out. go to the site and look for a center near your home.
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I think my husband only wants me for sex
Q. Okay, I'm a 29 year old female, married, and have a 2 year old. I feel like all my husband wants from me is sex and when I don't want to he pouts. Being a new mother I'm tired all the time and he always wants to when I'm ready for bed. I've told him ...
A. 15 December 2009: Hello well from what I have read I understand that you love your husband but the other man pays you more attention and it feels good. No one wants to be a sex slave to their spouse.
You say you want advice to try to fix ur marriage.
Have you ... (read in full...)
My brother raped me when I was in 4th grade
Q. When I was in fourth grade, my brother (9th grade) had been touching me a lot lately and saying sexual things and putting on porn while I was there in the room, showing me his genitals. I would try to cover him up but he'd uncover himself again. I ...
A. 15 December 2009: It was not your fault and I wish I could help you to understand this. I was molested as a child and I believed it was my fault because i didn't say no I didn't fight cry or try to run away. I was the type of child who did what she was told. I knew ... (read in full...)
Husband deployed in Iraq and I think he is cheating!
Q. My husband is in Iraq and I haven't talked to him in two weeks. Before he left we were on the verge of getting a divorce. He had to train in Alabama for a month and during that month he called me just once. After the month training He didn't even ...
A. 15 December 2009: hello I am an army wife also and my husband was deployed for 14 months last year. It was a very hard time.
He may have not called you because of his work schedule.If he has a long day or night he might choose to sleep than wait in line for the phon... (read in full...)
I hate my life... I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic... please help!
Q. I hate my life. I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not very social, i don't have a social life. I feel all alone, with no one who really cares.I don't really have any true friends and i've never had a ...
A. 15 December 2009: Your situation reminds me of my life as a teenager. My mom worked 3 jobs and I was never allowed to do anything. It sucked really bad and I too had a count down until i turned 18. I was a very good student and i never got into trouble but my mom ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?
Q. my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...
A. 18 November 2009: Please don't give up your job. Im married and since my husband relocated for work purposes I haven't had a job. Before this had never been with out a job in my whole life. I go to school full time and I stay home. Its very very boring. It will seem ... (read in full...)
How can I drop hints I might be pregnant
Q. how can i drop hints to my mam i might be pregnant because i think i am because i am late on my period and my stomach is growing also i am going to the loo alot please help i have no one i get home schooled and the nearest town is 50 miles away...
A. 7 October 2009: ok so she was not mad or when you told her you were sexually active thats a nice supporting mom.
so she is already mentally prepared for the day you have this pregnancy issue but she probably is hoping for this a bunch of years from now.
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How can I drop hints I might be pregnant
Q. how can i drop hints to my mam i might be pregnant because i think i am because i am late on my period and my stomach is growing also i am going to the loo alot please help i have no one i get home schooled and the nearest town is 50 miles away...
A. 7 October 2009: Oh your 14 ok this must be hard. Well how did your mom find out you have already been sexually active? Did you tell her or did she just find out?
Its very important that you tell your mom because if you are pregnant you are going to need prenatal... (read in full...)
I'm desperate! I don't want to lose her...
Q. I just joined this site, out of desperation. I really need help on this issue. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years now. I have always been jealous and a bit insecure, because she is very attractive and i'm not all that. Deep inside ...
A. 21 September 2009: You say that you have changed, yet you are thinking this is an opportunity for the other guy to get closer to her. Your jealous actions are pushing her away. No matter what you say ACTIONS speak louder than words. If you truly love her why do u ... (read in full...)
I'm having my brother's baby and I'm worried
Q. I need serious help! Im pregnat and its my brothers. Im 2 months along and Im affraid of the outcome might be. This is my first pregnancy. We're both very young. I want to keep it because Im against abortions but at the same time I don't want to ...
A. 21 September 2009: Is it your step-brother?
If it is you blood brother how old is he?If he is older he has minipulated u into doing this. Did you willingly participate in this sex act? Did he rape you? I hope not.
This is a hard question. I am against abortion... (read in full...)
What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?
Q. Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...
A. 21 September 2009: ok Im a little confused.Your 7 weeks pregnant but been broke up with him for a year and he has been with his new girlfriend for 6 months.
I don't want to sound mean but Did he cheat on his new girlfriend with you when you got pregnant?
It s... (read in full...)
How are we supposed to make ends meet?
Q. I have 3 boys 11,14,17..they are all good boys..but i cant feed them..they eat to much and me and my husband cant support them..we rent a home and work work work to feed and cloth them and provide for them but they are always hungry and need stuff ...
A. 21 September 2009: I am sorry that you are going through this. School lunch forms do not take into account all of your bills.
Have you tried buying your food in bulk at a Sams club type store?
My mom did this she also involved my sister and i in the grocery s... (read in full...)
When you are in NC is it possible to block 'the ex' from IM's or does that just end things?
Q. I would like to get back with my ex however since he is the one that has slowed things down without explanation I decided to let him make the effort. The problem is we share the same IM's and it hurts my feelings to see him online but we aren't ...
A. 20 September 2009: I really understand ur situation i had a similar one. You have to be the one to start the "talk" If you don't and he keeps doing the whole staying online without saying "hey" it will drive you crazy. If you block him your going to constantly log on ... (read in full...)
I'll be 14 in January and I really want to have sex
Q. Hey well I'm thirteen and I'm turning 14 in January and I live in a group home cause my parents abused me but thats all going good now and I'm going home in October I have been in placement for over a year and there's this feeling that i get some...
A. 20 September 2009: You should wait. I lost my virginity at a around your age and i regret it to this day. I feel so bad about it that i didn't even write how old i was. I did it with a boy who like me and i liked him and he suggested we do it. I felt all of the crazy ... (read in full...)
Why do I want my abusive bf to be happy and successful....even "after" he came at me with a knife??
Q. I'm having a really hard time because my boyfriend was arrested yesterday for domestic violence. Yes, there's a big long history, but yesterday was really bad because he came at me with a knife which he was then going to turn on himself (this is ...
A. 20 September 2009: I understand why you feel guilty. It is because you have a caring heart. You can't let your caring heart to allow people to walk all over you? I also agree with the previous answer that he would be better off getting the help he needs. Sometimes it ... (read in full...)
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