What can I do to prevent falling for other men while I'm in this relationship? And what do I do about the guy that I kissed recently?
Q. I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I love my man with every once of me. I cannot imagine my life without him. I care for him more than I care for myself. I constantly worry about his well being, whether he's happy, whether he's eaten, tired ...
A. 4 May 2017: anonymous: It is time you grew up. You are not ready to be married. There are people that enter your life from that you feel attracted to how you handle this makes all the difference. You cannot seem to make your mind up on who you want to be with. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat but how can I recover from my infatuation?
Q. I'm a married woman with 2 children in my mid thirties, I've been in a long term relationship with my husband before we eventually got married (been together over 10 years). What I'm about to say is something I had never dared to share, please be...
A. 22 April 2017: anonymous: You need to relax what you are feeling seems to be normal. There are people who come into your life from time to time that you will feel an attraction to. It is how you deal with this attraction that makes the difference.
You feel an ... (read in full...)
I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...
A. 16 April 2017: anonymous OP: After reading your post I have a few thoughts: 1-Your wife was under no obligation to tell you about her sexual past which is the same for you. If you wanted to know her past before married her you should have asked. 2-Do n... (read in full...)
Husband found out about my promiscuous teen years
Q. I've been married 3 years and my husband and I have a great relationship based on trust on we don't keep secrets. I was recently contacted on Facebook by Erica, a high school friend. When we were in school, we were promiscuous. We did girl on g...
A. 12 March 2017: Anonymous: You have the right not to tell your husband your past sexual history before you married him, but it should have remained a secret after your marriage. Why did you reminisce about your past sexual experiences with your friend? Are you ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.
Q. i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...
A. 10 March 2017: Linz1818: I am sorry that you are going through this. First you need to stop drinking alcohol it will not solve anything, your problems will still be there and it could beheld against you in a divorce and child custody arrangements. You need ... (read in full...)
I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!
Q. I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...
A. 6 March 2017: OP what sort of marriage do you want? One where you are faithful to your husband when you are near him but you have sex with other men when you travel for work? In this case you have no marriage. Marriage is based on love and commitment and being ... (read in full...)
I was cheating and my husband found out.
Q. Im a 28 year old female whos been having an intense sexual affair with another man for the past three years..my husband recently found out about us and told me to stop or else..I stopped seeing this other man, hoping my relationship with my husband ...
A. 5 March 2017: OP: What do you want from life? You are 28 years old but you are acting like a teenager who dosnt know what they want. Why did you get married when you cannot be faithful do you love your husband? You need to determine if you want to stay married to ... (read in full...)
Shouldn’t we be going at it like rabbits?
Q. Hi , I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now , and our sex life is almost none existent, maybe once every two weeks. She is 19 and I'm 23 , shouldn't we be at it like rabbits ? We used to be very active , we used to buy all sorts of ...
A. 6 May 2016: anonymous
It seems all you want is sex from your girlfriend but you do not respect her. Your girlfriend probably sees you that are like so many men who will love them and leave them when you get what you want.
Leave sex until you are married ... (read in full...)
Does my fiance's female friend fancy him? Should I be concerned? How should I handle this situation?
Q. I really need some advice please I feel awful. My boyfriend and I got engaged recently and I couldnt be happier about it, there is just one thing that is really getting me down and making ne question everything. He has a female school friend w...
A. 6 May 2016: anonymous I am sorry with what you are going through but you really need to consider if this is the man you should marry. Drug taking should be a big red flag for a start. It is not that easy to give up drug taking depending on how long he has ... (read in full...)
I feel a lot of resentment for my husband because of the way he has behaved this entire pregnancy and made me feel lonely
Q. Hello , I'm a 30year old female expecting my first child . It has been a roller coaster ride the last few years . Me and my husband had trouble conceiving and took treatment for 4 yrs . Last year I also suffered an accident and had to have surgery ...
A. 21 April 2016: Anonymous your hormones are all over the place due to your pregnancy. Every thing has been compounded: you fell pregnant, you resigned your job, moved to a new city were you don't know anyone and don't have any family close by. Your husband is away ... (read in full...)
Husband is complacent, and I am fliriting with a co worker.
Q. I have been married for 3 years now and I love my husband very much. There is a problem and I do not know how to overcome it. I have been gaining feelings for a coworker and I know that my coworker feels the same, we are always flirting and I cannot ...
A. 30 March 2016: Do you love your husband or did you get married to please your family? After being married sure things do change and both or you may take each other for granted. You need to talk about this with your husband and both of you need to spice things up ... (read in full...)
The messages are turning sexual. When is it a good time to tell him I've never had sex?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and everything seems to be great and going really well. We've been on a few dates that have also turned out well and we both are starting to enjoy each other's company. I'm really starting to ...
A. 30 March 2016: The best time to have sex with a man is when you get married to them. Some men want to have sex and when they get that they lose respect for you and dump you. I know it is a double standard but it happens. There was an article is an Australian... (read in full...)
In love with two men for 25 years...Help, what would you do?
Q. Just wanted to know if anyone else has been in love with two people for over 25 years and they both love you back? I am married to same man for over 20 years and love him greatly...dated in high school, got married, had family. However, during this ...
A. 12 February 2015: Shouldn't you have figured your feelings out for your ex-boyfriend before you got married?
You have already hurt your husband as you said that he knows about your affair between you and your ex-boyfriend. Even though your husband was there fo... (read in full...)
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