I cant deal with this! My ex got married within 6 months of breaking up with me
Q. I am in intense emotional pain right now. I found out today that my ex got engaged and married within six months of breaking up with me. I was still pining over him and he moved on with no issue. He never informed me directly. I found out quit...
A. 2 June 2013: What you have suffered I would not wish on anyone. I am so very sorry that he has left you feeling so devastated. You can reclaim your life. Thank goodness.. He revealed that he is a Cad, before you wasted twenty years of your life being his pa... (read in full...)
I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dis...
A. 11 May 2013: Yes, getting away and finding time to think away from distractions can really help clarify your thoughts and the direction you need to follow. Thanks for your follow up.... (read in full...)
I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dis...
A. 27 April 2013: I am very sorry that this tension has been continuing for 4 months as that would be emotionally draining. If it were not for the cheating I would just suggest you try doing a few more activities together to rebuild the trust between you. But it is ... (read in full...)
How do you raise your self-esteem as a teenager?
Q. I'm not necessarily a young teenager, but I'm 19. I've always had low self esteem and confidence, which I've always been content with because I guess that's just a part of my life and who I am. But I kind of wish I knew the building blocks ...
A. 18 January 2013: What worked for me was to set some goals for me and some were not earth shattering they were simple things. Write the goals down and then reward yourself visually by writing in the exact time and date you met that goal and how it made you feel. C... (read in full...)
Boyfriend lost his dad and is suffering, but he raised his hand to me and is very angry/abusive. What if he does it again?
Q. Hey everyone, I am 24 and I have been dating my boyfriend since I was 15!things were going really great,we got into the same college finished our degress,we have a very good job,although my boyfriend comes from a rich family but yet he decided ...
A. 14 January 2013: When you say 'lost' do you mean his father died? if that is the case he will be grieving. But that is still no excuse to take his frustration and grief out on you. What he did was wrong. Has he apologised yet? Your boyfriend needs to reach out to... (read in full...)
I'm jealous that he could be talking to prettier girls
Q. I've been talking to this guy for like 2 month now and the more we've been talking I've really started to like him. However after my previous relationshipi get jealous really easily which I really hate about myself! The other day we were texting ...
A. 31 October 2012: Over time you will come to realise that jealousy crushes relationships. Both guys and girls will run when they find a partner has jealousy issues.
Some people mistake jealousy for love. Jealously is not love it is envy and it's horrible.
If ... (read in full...)
My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think
Q. Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...
A. 21 October 2012: There are people with sex addiction problems and they need intensive treatment to help them address the problem. I recall reading about a film star (male) who had to seek this treatment. Your Gf has lost all sense of what is reasonable and her beha... (read in full...)
He's lied to me about his texting. Should I be extra wary about him? If he lies once is he more likely to lie again?
Q. A few months back my bf of 2 years got a picture message form a girl he dated a few times ( also slept with). We argued about this and he said she must be drunk he hasnt talked with her since we started seeing each other. My boyfriend got dr...
A. 17 October 2012: There is a lot of nastiness swirling around in the background. A man who becomes nastier once alcohol starts to affects him is going to be a problem in the future.
He lied to you and then even tried to backpeddle and get out of trouble by changing... (read in full...)
I want alone time with him. He has lots of friends and wants to spend maximum time with them. How is this likely to affect us?
Q. hi i just met a new man and we started to date he wants to be with me and i want to be with him. Problem is he has alot of friends and go out every weekend plus works long hours all week. he wants me to go out with his friends as well but i cant alw...
A. 17 October 2012: He's too social right now and he's not as serious about you as you would like to think.
How do I know this? Because if you really were his number one priority then his friends would take a back seat.
He gets more pleasure from his friends and from... (read in full...)
If I say anything now it would destroy him? I do have a past from a LONG time ago. But is it best left unsaid?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. When we first got to know each other we spoke about our past a little and he wanted to see what kind of person I was. I knew where he stood with his past and he has only had sexual relations...
A. 17 October 2012: If his values are too rigid then his rigidity may cause other aspects of the relationship to get the wobbles in the future.
If his standards and values are out of sync with your standards and values then trouble could erupt when you least expect i... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about his ex situation?
Q. 6 months since their breakup and this morning seen an inbox from his ex saying 'we need to talk'. He minimised this to the corner of the screen after he noticed I was watching the screen. Also I've noticed before his history showed he'd visited ...
A. 17 October 2012: He and his ex may have their troubles and his ex may not be over him. In fact he may also not be over his ex either.
I am more concerned that he has anger issues
Have you considered that he is seeing threats that are not there? Was his jealousy... (read in full...)
Did my ex just kiss me to have some fun and make himself feel good?
Q. Dear friends, I'm so confused! My exbf and I broke up over one year ago. Since then, we mantained a rather friendly relationship, talking twice a month or so. It was a long distance relationship, so we always thought one of the reasons it di...
A. 17 October 2012: I think he wants what he can't have. He is not available to you right now and you are not available to him.
I think he was asserting some proprietory rights that he thinks he still has over you.
If he was serious he would break up with his curr... (read in full...)
Any advice in getting over breakup with my first love?
Q. OK so I've been talking to this guy since the end of June. We met off of facebook, him and my friend were kinda friends, he asked me out and i said i wanna meet you first, so my friend told him too meet us at a field, and we met. When we look...
A. 17 October 2012: teenage love is the sweetest and sometimes the toughest. As teens we sometimes make unwise decisions. or we get in too deep. or we fail to see the implications of one action over how it will affect others.
And as a young teen you are still find... (read in full...)
I'm a lost girl and I'm losing myself in this sea of men I've been seeing. What advice can you give me please?
Q. Facts and dates these thing occurred: June 9th- ectopic pregnancy August 17th- He went back to his hometown September 1st- October 12th guy number 2 who went back to his baby mamma October 13th- I slept with g...
A. 17 October 2012: I suggest that you seek out some counselling as you are on a path of destruction that will ruin your self esteem and affect your long term future. not to mention get you a 'name' around town as an easy woman and you do not need that.
And see your... (read in full...)
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