Do you "spit" or "swallow"? What do you do with the cum?
Q. when you give a guy a handjob or a blow job and he cums...what do you do with it??? do you spit it out or what?? sry,ive never done it before and i want to know so i know what to do...
A. 28 April 2010: As tempting as it may be to savor your man's cock with your mouth, until you know he's clean, STD-wise, you must have him wear a condom, and watch out for any little rips that may develop from your teeth brushing against the condom.
I know thi... (read in full...)
I feel like guys don't want to date me because I look so young
Q. Hi, I jsut wondered what people think about people who look quite a lot younger than they are. I am 22 and some people have recently told me I only look about 18. Sometimes I often personally think that I even look younger than 18. I have st...
A. 28 April 2010: There are a ton of guys out there. Maybe it's time to venture out beyond the ol' neighborhood. Take in new sights. Nothing wrong with you! Do whatever it takes to realize that you are awesome as you are. Everything else will be better when you are ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my best friend...but now hes dating someone else...
Q. what would be the best thing to do if i have strong feelings for my best friend but hes started dating someone else and its killing me to stay friends with him help what should i do ??...
A. 17 December 2009: Look! Are you really his friend?: Or are you just saying you are because you have the hots for him? There's really no such thing as a "romantic friend." If you're truly serious about being a friend to him then act like that is what you believe. He ... (read in full...)
Stay with him in an open relationship until I meet other men, or stay single and just enjoy being a mom?
Q. I have a little scenario that I'm wondering if I should move one for good but I feel like I dont want to have to start all over and get to know the person. I've been with this guy for over 4 long years hes been abusive in the past so far he hasn't ...
A. 17 December 2009: Guys who are abusive, and who are unfaithful are almost always very, very self-centered. It's not about the romance, or about the relationship, or about you...it's all about them. And everytime you meet someone who is abusive there's always someone ... (read in full...)
He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!
Q. long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...
A. 17 December 2009: Real friendship cannot be had unless both people are serious about being friends first, and ex's second.
If you really want to be his friend, and he yours, and it's not just a cover-up because one of you actually wants it to be more, then all the ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I should...
Q. I dated this guy for over a year. I loved him but we were very different and I knew he wasn't right for me so I broke up with him. Pretty soon afterward I met a new guy. He has all the qualities I want in a guy and we have a lot in common. The ...
A. 17 December 2009: Residual feeling of attraction are pretty normal. If you really did break up with your ex, then why is he calling you? Maybe, in his mind, there is still a chance to "make it with you!" The old saying that "opposites attract" is actually untrue. If ... (read in full...)
I called it quits but now want him back!
Q. I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...
A. 17 December 2009: Giving someone space is good. How long you wait depends on a couple things. First, how long has it been? If we're talking just a few days, or maybe even a week, then maybe consider waiting a bit longer. If it's already been a couple weeks, and you ... (read in full...)
I need to be honest but I'm afraid of destroying our friendship...
Q. ok, here goes, brutal honesty even though I know you're all going to shoot me down! A few months ago I went on this thing called playstation home on my ps3. its like a socialising platform. you create your avatar (character) and you can chat to ...
A. 17 December 2009: Anything done on playstation is a game and nothing but a game. Most people understand that when they sign on. Especially, when you choose an avatar. The basics of avatars is that you can become someone that you're not. In your case, you chose a girl ... (read in full...)
Losing erection during hand job
Q. So a few days ago my girlfriend gave me a hand-job. It was her first time, so she didnt really know how to, and i am in the process of teaching her. I really enjoyed it, but while she was doing it i noticed that after a whle my erection started to ...
A. 17 December 2009: Masturbation for guys at your age is very normal. Most boys masturbate several times a week, regardless of whether or not they have a girlfriend. Having someone give you a "handjob" can be a little awkward, at times, and can cause you to lose your ... (read in full...)
I have a Christmas Gift Conundrum!
Q. I know, I know - how can I expect someone who hasn't met him to have more of an idea of what I can get my boyfriend for Christmas than I do? I'm willing to try it just in case because I'm getting desperate. One of his friends told me how much he has ...
A. 16 December 2009: Trying to compete with gift giving can be stressful. You'll expend a lot of effort and your efforts may not produce the reults you want. This Christmas I am going to treat my girlfriend and I to a daytrip into the nearby mountains where we will rent ... (read in full...)
I feel devalued by my friend
Q. I have this friend and I tell her she's wonderful and a great friend when she is feeling down or depressed. But as soon as someone else, someone that means nothing tells her what I have been saying all along all of a sudden that person is t...
A. 16 December 2009: Sounds like she may not really be your real friend. Perhaps, she just hangs around with you when she's bored.
She knows that you will take the trouble to hang with her, and she feeds off of your desires to be with her and support her, only to ditc... (read in full...)
I called it quits but now want him back!
Q. I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...
A. 16 December 2009: When someone breaks off a relationship hurt follows. When that person realizes doing so was a mistake trying to change what is already done can be challenging. My guess is that your boyfriend was crying because of his loss. Even though yoiu may ... (read in full...)
After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman
Q. Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...
A. 16 December 2009: When one person in a relationship "finds God," a separation
can occur in the perceptions of he/she who has "found God."
In the case of Christianity, there's a popular passage that speaks of "not being unequally yoked." What this means is that unl... (read in full...)
I gave some gifts to my professor, but apart from sying thankyou I havent heard further from him
Q. I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my ...
A. 16 December 2009: Colleges frown upon relationships between students and professors. When a student in in a particular professor's class, accepting a gift can be seen as collusion between the two. Offering a gift after a class is over is okay, but it can place the ... (read in full...)
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