Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 28 September 2010: Women insulate themselves with the contact thing. You answered it yourself in that last post. She started to see it as a "commitment" I.E. Work, rather than pleasure. This is a natural thing, it's why women don't want us to see them first thing in ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 23 September 2010: Thanks for the details. The answer to this is simple now, you just can't see it cause you're too close to this situation. She likes you. A LOT. The pregnancy scare made her think about how much she cares for you, and how tenuous you're relationship ... (read in full...)
I feel like having sex with another guy and then going back to my ex is wrong!
Q. Hi everyone I hope i get some replies from this because I really need help. So I've been dating this guy(Guy A)for about 2 years. The first year was great everything was fine but there was always this girl that would cause conflicts with o...
A. 23 September 2010: You shouldn't feel bad about settling the score. I'm sure he has had sex with someone other than you somewhere, there's no way he didn't while treating you the way he has. Don't get into the habit of having sex for arbitrary reasons, that always ... (read in full...)
His conversation really hurt me! should I tell him?
Q. This conversation put tears in my eyes but I said nothing, I just sucked it up. Now I think that as conversation was on IM so maybe I misunderstood and I had no reason to be upset. Hi I would need some honest opinions about this conversation...
A. 23 September 2010: This is easy, you've answered your own question actually. You said "We have a casual relationship" thats the answer. He feels more for you than he thinks he's justified in feeling and doesn't know how to tell you. He's tried to communicate this to ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 23 September 2010: You didn't mention the desperate texts before, so I'm assuming that you sent them after your post, that may complicate things a bit, depending on what you said in them, and how long ago it was... In any case, if you want a more in depth perspective, ... (read in full...)
First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong
Q. Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other t...
A. 23 September 2010: First loves are powerful, there is no doubt about that. I'll tell you this though, all loves last. Either you always love someone, or you never did. If it doesn't work out, the importance it has for your day to day emotions fades with time, but the ... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 22 September 2010: That stuff gets everywhere. I've found it stuck to me and couldn't tell you why, or where it came from if my life depended on it. Keep you eyes open, and be alert for anything he might do to make you think he's being unfaithful, but If you have ... (read in full...)
Why does he resent me so much?
Q. I'm sick of this situation. My boyfriend gives me crap about my past almost daily! I have done nothing wrong, I've been faithful, I don't flirt, etc. Yet he resents me a lot. It's like if I had cheated on him and he resented me for that. Except I ...
A. 22 September 2010: This guy has no clue what he's got-seriously. Tell him to wait until he's 30, when the women he'll be dating have been around long enough to give him something worth actually feeling bad about. You gave him your virginity and he's worried about you ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 22 September 2010: You're right about the 2nd option, thats the best one you listed. If you're going to do any of those things that would be the best one. However how you go about it is key, it sounds like she got creeped out by her perception that you wanted too much ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never.
Q. I am reading all the posts here and get kind of jealous, that people go through all these strong emotions. I don't understand whats happening with me lately, but i don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never. ...
A. 22 September 2010: You are absolutely right to feel that they should be concerned with your needs, the lack of consideration you're describing is ridiculous. And no, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, of course you feel "hardened" against men, why the heck ... (read in full...)
Will telling her what I did win her back?
Q. I'm mid twenties, and I dated this girl for two and a half years and she loved me SO SO fiercely. We were pretty much joined at the hip, and I loved her, but she definitely loved me more than I did. Eventually this took a toll on her and we broke ...
A. 21 September 2010: Delete the fake profile, and ditch this girl. She's using you, being her friend, or waiting for her to change, which are both the same thing for you is a waste of your time. She's already made her choices, time to make yours. You deserve better, ... (read in full...)
I feel bored to tears with everything in my life!
Q. I need some advice. Have you ever felt bored to tears with everything in your life? Interacting with the kids, my professional life, dinner parties with friends, playing poker with the boys, going on a trip to see a big NFL game - and worse of ...
A. 21 September 2010: There are two possibilities here. The first one is low testosterone syndrome, where a drop in your natural testosterone yields the exact results you've described, get you blood checked by an M.D. or psychologically, you're dissatisfied with the ... (read in full...)
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