I'm never even given a chance by a girl, and I'm getting desperate!
Q. I don't even know where to begin, but this is what i feel. I'll try to keep it short and to the point. It's like I have no future. For years i've tryed to be as positive as I can around girls, I have many different types friends in many circles....
A. 4 February 2011: The thing is I could understand if I were running around moaning to everyone about my troubles. But when I think I have a chance with a girl I sort of put it all out of the way and switch on my confidence to the best of my ability. And be as ... (read in full...)
British invasion in my head!
Q. I think I might be going mental! Ever since the Harry Potter series came to the US when I was only eight, I've been completely obsessed with not only the series and with my ultimate goal to move to England before I hit age twenty-five, but also with ...
A. 25 June 2009: the uk isn't all countryside and what you see on tv. there is a massive mix of different races and people here, like in the u.s. some good, some bad. some cities are rough just like the bronx, and you have the suburbs which are ok like where you ... (read in full...)
They don't know I have a boyfriend. How can I keep that idea going?
Q. hey everyone i really need some advice quick... tonight my parents and everyone went out and i was ;eft home alone... so i decided to call my boyfriend round and spend the time with him... i asked my sister to call me as soon as they left so i could ...
A. 9 October 2008: Everyone has to grow up. It's normal for teenagers to have girlfriends/boyfriends from 13 to 14 onwards. It dosen't mean that you are doing anything wrong and your parents should understand that. You're over 18 right? Then you are an adult and ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: I have only just created an account within the last few months on here. But i have been reading here since 2005, and it's come a long way since then. I check this place every single day, it's one of my regulars in my bookmarks list! Keep up the ... (read in full...)
He tried to kiss me but I pulled away as I haven't kissed before, any tips?
Q. Erm, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now but we're not kissed, he has tried to kiss me, but I'v not had my first kiss yet so I pulled away :/ I am worried about not knowing what to do and need some tips, can anyone help? ...
A. 1 July 2008: Ignore the post below that says you should have already kissed at your age. Thats nothing to be ashamed of, not everyone goes at the same rate in life. There is no set pattern to follow, just go with what you are confertable with.
As for the rest... (read in full...)
Do guys really prefer virgins?
Q. hi everyone. ok i went on holiday a few weeks ago and went on a date with this boy who was a year older than me. within 1 hour it was clear all he wanted was sex.(i didnt give him it!) i told him i was a virgin but he was still eager saying stuff ...
A. 25 June 2008: You did the right thing standing up for yourself, it probably wouldn't of been as good with him as it would of been with someone you loved. Look for the type of guy who will help you along with it and will be patient. It will be better for you in ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for thinking about her this way?
Q. I can't tell what is wrong with me! I can't stop thinking about this girl yet it's not her body or something like that that i'm thinking about. i just wonder every second what she is doing and how she feels and i feel like i want to make her bett...
A. 20 June 2008: There is nothing wrong with you at all. Any girl who is worth being with should value your morals, it's rare for a teenager to look for more in a girl than just her body or for sex. Once someone does go with you she will see that she made the right ... (read in full...)
If he has a crush, would he just stand and stare?
Q. one simple question if a guy has a crush on u..he would definitely make an effort to talk to u..what if he doesnt but just stares and looks at u..what is it???...
A. 1 June 2008: Everyone is different in their approach, boys and girls. He may be too shy to make the first move so if you like him you need to put some effort in this too. He will appreciate the fact that you are showing interest back and he will be more sure ... (read in full...)
My question is, is it intimidating to a guy to know that I am a virgin at 20? What would the first impression be?
Q. Alright heres the scoop: I am going to be a junior in college and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I kissed a guy. Honestly, there have been plenty of guys that have wanted to do stuff with me but I have not really liked any of them enough, ...
A. 31 May 2008: I can't really offer you the best advice compared to some, but i can tell you you're not alone with this. I'm nearly 20 and in the same position. Never had sex, a girlfriend or even kissed. But i'm told i'm a nice guy and good looking. If you're ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is the least popular in the class and I have to face nasty comments for dating him! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is the least popular kid in the class and everybody is like,"ur really going out with him?!" and I don't know what to do because it's really bugging me and I dont want to dump him. What should I do?...
A. 12 May 2008: all those peoples comments in school won't matter when you leave. think of this, who is more likely to still be around you after you have left a year or two? you are with him becuase you there's something about him that attracts you to him . they ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to calm my nerves so as I can pass my driving test?
Q. Hey all, I feel i have no confidence in passing the Irish driving test the third time. I've been practicing like mad, but i know i can do it - only i feel my nerves are not going to help. Please help, i'm trying to calm down but to pass would be a...
A. 7 May 2008: the calmer the better, you have to beleive in yourself and the rest should come. just focus everything on that half an hour and you should be ok. when i did mine my instructor let me drive up to the test center, i was making mistakes all over the ... (read in full...)
I'm turning 19 this week and I've never even been in a relationship!
Q. I'm not sure why i'm writing this, but here goes. I'm turning 19 this week and i've never even been in a relationship! Back in school i'd fall for the guys i couldn't have and after 3 years of not allowing myself to fall for anyone, i made a mistak...
A. 4 May 2008: I understand becuase i'm the same. It's hard to pick yourself up sometimes becuase it keeps coming back at you, everytime you see your friends enjoying themselves, It's a nighmare. But i'm sure you're a great person inside, you need to try and put ... (read in full...)
How can I get a boyfriend without being too forward? Please help I am so lonely.
Q. I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am ...
A. 1 May 2008: On a personal level i wouldn't care about how much experience you have had previously, not every guy looks for that. I understand how the experience can play on the mind, i'm almost 20 and am in a similar position. So if you had someone like me, ... (read in full...)
He is the most popular among girls but only seems interested in studying! How can I talk to him?
Q. this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically.. well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical chee...
A. 1 May 2008: It does sound like he is shy. Well i guess i could be classed as shy but i do talk to girls. The girl i currently like looks attractive to me of course, but it's about personality that shines just as much. You'll find that it takes more than looks ... (read in full...)
I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!
Q. Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...
A. 30 April 2008: yeah i've been reading the replies. i think im going to have a look around, see where i can take her out around here. then im going to try and sum up the courage to ask her out, maybe face to face even, it looks the only way i can make this happen. ... (read in full...)
I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!
Q. Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...
A. 29 April 2008: thanks for the answers. the thing is i have seen people take these situations in different ways. so i don't know what to do, i already have her phone number and myspace. but calling or texting her out of the blue i find hard to do. the thing is i ... (read in full...)
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