My sister and I are in love with each other...
Q. Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl and for some time I've been having intimate relations with my 18 year old sister. We both love each other and want things to continue but no one can ever find out. I know that this love goes beyond family love and we ...
A. 14 August 2005: The love you feel for your sister is just love as you love your mom ect. But you think it is more and I can tell you this you need to stop because it is not healthy for you to to have these feelings for each other. You need to find some one your age ... (read in full...)
My husband hates everything about where we live... and he's getting nasty to me about it!
Q. I am a new working mother. My baby is 3 1/2 months old. The problem is my relationship with my husband is in the toilet. We are both completing our residencies in the northeast. (My husband is from the south, and I am from the Northeast) Since ...
A. 14 August 2005: I have that same problem wilth my husband and I am a new mother too and my baby is 8 months and he tells me that we are going to move and he does not talk to me about it so I know what your saing. The best thing to do is sit down and tell him how ... (read in full...)
I was away 6 months. Now I don't understand whether he wants me or not!
Q. Hi! I am a 22 year old girl and I have been single for over two years now. After lots of dating I finally started to hit it off with this cute, smart, and loving guy. I was very happy and excited. The problem was that I had to leave town to study ...
A. 14 August 2005: I think you should ask him where you stand when he is all being nice to you and all and if he don't give a good answer or he ignores the question you should not waste your time with him no more. Yes it will be hard to get over him I have been in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 6 years doesn't seem to care any more. Is it time to move on?
Q. My boyfriend of over 6 years recently decided that he needed to take a break from our relationship to find out who he is. He said he wasn't sure if I was "the one" because I'm the only person he ever dated. He also said he felt as though he was ...
A. 13 August 2005: I think you should if he does not know who he is and that he is not ready for marriage and you are. You must make a choice for you and what will make you happy. So do what you think is best in your heart.... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex, but he's married to someone else now!
Q. Hi! I am a middle aged woman who happens to be in love with my former lover (we split up 5 years ago). Here is my love story summarized: To me (I guess also to him), our relationship was fullfiling in many ways, leading us to believe in a promi...
A. 12 August 2005: I am sorry things did not work out between you too but the thing is you need to get over him and move on he made the choice to get married to the other lady. It will take some time but it will happen.You have a long life a head of you so dont waste ... (read in full...)
I fancy my therapist!
Q. i have been seeing a therapist for over a year now and i have fancied her for most of that time. i know that it is normal to gain some kind of attachment or interest in them due to the intimacy of the relationship. however this love is probably the ...
A. 12 August 2005: I would stop seeing her so you don't have to get your heart broken any more then it is. I know it's the first love that you even known but there will be others just give it time.... (read in full...)
My fiance says it hurts to have my penis inside her
Q. My fiance and I have dated for a little over a year. We love each other very much, but she does not enjoy sex. This is because she says it hurts her to have my penis inside of her. I am confused because I do not know what to do to not hurt her ...
A. 12 August 2005: The thing is it might be because your penis is to big. But over time it will get confortable and it will feel good for her. But what you can do and try is have her if she will is get sex toys and start from small to big. But not right after another ... (read in full...)
We fought and I moved out to give our marriage a break. Did I do the right thing?
Q. My marriage is in trouble and I refuse to give up but it is time to take a break? For the last two weeks my husband and I of 4 years have been fighting non stop and if we're not fighting I am getting the cold shoulder. It all started because ...
A. 11 August 2005: You are not crazy. You made the right chioce. It will take time and it wont go away but it will soon. It will give him time to think and grow up and hopefuly it will help him realize he has some thing great in his life. I know I am in that same spot ... (read in full...)
My fantasies have me thinking I might be a lesbian...
Q. I recently started to think I might be gay- when I masturbate I always think about girls- either me and another girl or just two other girls. I've had one lesbian experience about 2 years ago but it was just a drunken laugh and I wasn't attracted to ...
A. 11 August 2005: You would not be gay you would be Bi but that don't matter you should be what ever your heart tell's you. If you like guy's good and if you like girl's that's good too. It is not always a phaze you go through it is some thing you just want to be or ... (read in full...)
Sex was off the menu during my pregnancy, but now we don't have any interaction at all!
Q. Me and my husband have just had a baby. During my pregnancy my husband didn't want to make love because of the baby, now two months after the birth we have no interaction at all. We don't even kiss! I find it hard to talk about it as I'm not sure ...
A. 11 August 2005: I had that problem to when I was pregnet. He told me it's because he did not want to hurt me and the baby. And after word he told me he did not want to hurt me since it is still not heeled down there and he don't want me to hemerage. It wll get ... (read in full...)
How can I get my friends off my back about my relationship?
Q. My b/f and I have been together for a month and very recently had sex for the first time. The problem is my friends. Jamie* is my first ever serious b/f and it's because of this that my friends always question me about our relationship. I can't fi...
A. 11 August 2005: Just tell them, " Is this your boyfriend noso please let me handdle my relationship please." I know it will be hard to tell them but you got to do what is best for you and your boy friend so no problems come between you and him.But you got to also ... (read in full...)
My partner is looking at porn again, only now he's lost interest in sex with me!
Q. Hi.. I wrote a few weeks ago about my concerns about my boyfriend's interest in pornography and him saying that he just does it out of boredom. Many thanks for the very helpful replies. Things have since developed with my boyfriend and I discussi...
A. 11 August 2005: I have the same problem but my husband tell's me it is to relif stress and it get's hard to deal with and it feel's like he is wanting me to look like them. When we do have sex he tell's me he is not getting enoff and he don't think that hurt's my ... (read in full...)
There's always a new excuse for his drinking and pot-smoking. Am I overreacting?
Q. I really need help to figure out if I am overreacting to my boyfriend's drinking and pot use. He drinks or smokes pot every single day, sometimes both, especially on the weekends, but not exclusively on the weekends. He does not, and never has had ...
A. 11 August 2005: Drug use is jail time and if he get's cought you will go to jail too and you don't need that. You are not over reacting and you are not way off.You need to make a big decision for your self to make you safe and happy. You are number one and that is ... (read in full...)
Why has our sex life almost dwindled to nothing? I do all the work and my boyfriend just lies there waiting for oral sex...
Q. Hiya Everyone! :oP I've been in my relationship for 2 years now. I don't understand how my sex life with my boyfriend has gone from really physical to almost nothing? It feels as though I am always instigating it. Then when he turns me down wh...
A. 11 August 2005: It is nothing you did. Some guy's are like that. I am in that same situation and I may or may not get better but you know you look good or beautiful you do not need to lose any weight if you are a size 12.You need to go to him or just talk to him on ... (read in full...)
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