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writes: Me and my husband have just had a baby. During my pregnancy my husband didn't want to make love because of the baby, now two months after the birth we have no interaction at all. We don't even kiss! I find it hard to talk about it as I'm not sure what to say and also think it would make him feel pressured. I feel he doesn't find me attractive and just sees me as the mother to his child. Reply to this Question
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reader, Delila +, writes (1 September 2005):
You are feeling unattractive after being pregnant and giving birth, that is so hard to deal with, you hate looking in the mirror and don't feel sexy. Its really important that you open the lines of communication between you and your husband. You don't have to do it in an attacking way. Choose a time of day; when sex would be impossible; to talk about it. Don't make it just about sex. Share you feelings and try not to accuse. Try to be nice to each other. Tell your man what you want not what he does not do.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Ann +, writes (11 August 2005):
I had that problem to when I was pregnet. He told me it's because he did not want to hurt me and the baby. And after word he told me he did not want to hurt me since it is still not heeled down there and he don't want me to hemerage. It wll get better but I can't promes because if it don't you got to make a choice for you and your baby and I know it will be hard but you have to. It will be hard to be a single mom but you can do it.
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