Is she cheating or not? How do I handle this?
Q. Recently i got a new girlfriend, she was great, she was amazing however things have took a turn for the worse... Basically i took her out 2 days ago and we stopped in a hotel, it was a great night and it was passionate, however the next day whe...
A. 21 April 2006: If anything really is there with this other guy I doubt she'd be silly enough to allow you access to these messages that she has been sending him. Obviously you have a niggling feeling else you wouldn't have looked at her private mail. I think the ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is cheating?
Q. I have been with my bf for 6 years and i think he is cheating, he gets texts late at night from the same woman but he just delets it and does not say anything. We don't live togather but i think she texts him often. do you think he cheating?...
A. 21 April 2006: Maybe, maybe not.Just ask him who he is getting the texts from outright, confront him. If he can't give you a straight answer then he is hiding something. Maybe it's family? Does he have a sister? An ex that is pestering him who can't move on? ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to tell him how I feel, even if he's enganged!?
Q. I just found out oday that the person I believe is my true soulmate is getting maried in July, I know I don't have any right to feel as hurt as I am, for the countless times that I have hurt him, but it is killing me inside. I am engaged but I am ...
A. 21 April 2006: No, don't go through your engagement while you are feeling this way!! Be truthful first to your fiance...he will be hurt but at least it won't last where as a marriage to him will! Then tell your 'soulmate' how you feel about him. You will end up ... (read in full...)
He wont do anything I suggest but is a sweety..what can I do??
Q. There is a guy who I am really good friends with. I think the friendship could develop as we get on so well, but there is just one thing that bothers me. We see each other tons but it is him that suggests where we go all the time. I always t...
A. 20 April 2006: Maybe he feels he needs to be in control as he lacks the confidence in other areas. The only way he can show confidence is by being controlling and uncompromising. A good friend would come to compromises in most situations. It is only fair and ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my gf and I'm wracked with guilt. How do I tell her?
Q. very sorry, but it's a long one. I am 23 and very happily living with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years. we weren't together over easter, i was at my parents and she was at hers, on the sunday i went out with a couple of mates, got drunk (altho...
A. 20 April 2006: You need to ask yourself as to why you cheated on her, even though you say you had a couple of drinks. Obviously somewhere deep in your subconcious she may not be pushing all the right buttons. I don't mean just sexually but emotionally too. Some ... (read in full...)
I just have this deep feeling in the pit of my heart and soul that we are supposed to be together...
Q. Hi, first let me say that this question is going to be a really long one in order for you aunties to understand. I will try to make it as brief as possible. I was with a guy for three years. Three years of which, one we lived together and the...
A. 20 April 2006: It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. It's great to be feeling this way about someone but you are not getting anything back, except dissapointment and heartache in his insensitive behaviour. He is leading you on into believing there is ... (read in full...)
My GF was in constant contact while overseas, keen for us to be back together... then she dumped me!
Q. My girlfriend recently left to travel overseas with her friend, who by the way, doesn't like me at all. We had been together for a year and a half. I am 27 and she is 21. Because I had already been overseas and traveled, she wanted to do it ...
A. 13 April 2006: Oh boy...she does sound very confused!!! Maybe she thought that you would break up with her as you hadn't come across as being that enthusiastic in taking her back initially, so was getting in there first (unlikely but possible...us women are ... (read in full...)
He's a great mate but I want him as more, what should i do??
Q. I recently worked in a school theatre production working closely with two boys. One's just my friend but i really fell for the other boy and am totally nuts about him! I'm really in love and recently he was dumped by his girlfriend and has been ...
A. 13 April 2006: Ahhh!! Bit of a dilemna hey? Well you must have been getting some really good vibes from him to fall in love with him without actully going out with him! Mmmm it is tricky... bear in mind though that relationships come and go...where as friends ... (read in full...)
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