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writes: I have been with my bf for 6 years and i think he is cheating, he gets texts late at night from the same woman but he just delets it and does not say anything. We don't live togather but i think she texts him often. do you think he cheating?
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reader, MissMo +, writes (21 April 2006):
he's definitely hiding something. he's either cheating or is dealing with an ex who won't let him go. secrecy and hiding things is no good for building trust in a relationship. talk to him and see what's up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006): Yep. It takes two, especially w. the same woman and late at night to boot? How do you know its from the same woman? He tells you? How long has this been happening? Find out as much as you can however you can since he's not being forth coming before you confront him. The writing is on the wall, now its time for you to prepare.
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reader, Anja +, writes (21 April 2006):
 Maybe, maybe not.Just ask him who he is getting the texts from outright, confront him. If he can't give you a straight answer then he is hiding something. Maybe it's family? Does he have a sister? An ex that is pestering him who can't move on? (This he could be embarrassed about if it is the case...hence the deleting and saying nothing!!)
Just be bold and ask him...go for it, chances are it's nothing, it's you he's with and loves. 6 years is a substantial amount of time to know someone...if you don't know him now, you never will! Good luck to ya! x
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (21 April 2006):
 To tell you the truth I would say yes, I do think he is cheating. You haven't really given us a lot of information, but the info you have given us is the most suspicious within itself.
From coming on this website I'd say that when a man or women is receiving texts from the opposite sex ( or indded the same sex!) late at night, hiding the messages, being secretive, that is the big give away of cheating, I'm prepared to put odds on it. In a ratio of 100,000 to 5, the 100,000 would be cheating and the 5 would be arranging a surprise party!
Still I could be wrong! He could be innocent! He could be arranging a surprise party for you! With one girl!!! I would say the only way you are going to know is if you ask him, but you are not guaranteed the truth....
At the end of the day I think teh best bit of advice is to listen to your gut feeling and trust it. YOU are the only person you can REALLY trust in life so don't start ignoring yourself! A womens gut instinct is a weird thing and its there for a reason!
Good luck, I hope this has been of some help, from Sexybum x
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