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... Send *ndrea23 a private message | | | *ndrea23's profile:my name is andrea im 23, i live in belfast. i think what qualifies me to help people is i've been through a lot in my life from growing up with domestic violence, suffering domestic violence myself with my ex b/friend, coming through my parents getting divorced & watching my brother suffer with a mental illness due to being knocked down by a joyrider. my friends tell me i'm good with advice because i'm stright to the point & just say what i feel. |
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I need to get 2 teeth pulled out and I'm petrified! How can I cope?
Q. hi im 13 and i due to get two adult teeth pulled out in a couple of days and im petrified! iv had teeth out before and i hate it. what can i doo???? please please help!...
A. 29 October 2006: i know how you feel as some of my patients are petrified like you. im a dental nurse, why dont you opt for the twilight sleep & you'll not feel a thing you'll just wake up a bit groggy.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my online love, that the girl in the photos aren't me?? What should I do?
Q. I've done something kind of stupid which has all blown up in my face. I registered with an online forum just for fun and to kill some time really. I put photos up of a random, gorgeous girl and said it was me. I just thought it was harmless fun at ...
A. 25 October 2006: i take it you've got low self esteem due to your previous relationships, the reason im saying that is because i was in an abusive relationship & i've low self esteem from it & i know for a fact i would do the same thing you done put a picture of a ... (read in full...)
He seems to have a crush on me should I write him a letter???
Q. Yesterday I ran into this guy that I have known for two years, and he seems to have a crush on me. I would like to write him a letter to tell him that I feel very flattered, but I don't want his parents to worry, he still lives with them, and he ...
A. 24 October 2006: i think you should go for it girl, take the bull by the horns & get writing. ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 23 October 2006: you need to stop this relationship now, how do you think your parents would feel if they found out about this, you & your brother being together would be enough to put them in an early grave. not only that if you two had a child together it would ... (read in full...)
I have nowhere to go and no money yet my partner is violent I don't know what to do!!!!
Q. hi i feel stupid doing this but need to tell someone, im living with a woman who i met about ten year ago she has 3 children ,ever since i met her she has been voilent towards me just last night she attact me with a knife and smashed a plate over my ...
A. 23 October 2006: i know what you're going through & you need to get away from her ASAP before she ends up really damaging you. my ex fiance was just like her he stabbed me across the stomach then tried to put the knife through my throat & he beat me stupid. you need ... (read in full...)
I want to leave him but I can't...what can I do???
Q. Hi my name is steph, please please3 help me!! ive been with my boyfriend for bout nearly two years. im only 17 and iv just moved fom hull to lincoln with him, i havent got no family or friends here. I feel like i want to leave him! well i have done ...
A. 15 October 2006: you should'nt worry about leaving him on his own because he wasn't worried about you being on your own when he was out with other girls behind your back plus you say he hit you. your happiness comes 1st & at the minute all your doing is prolonging ... (read in full...)
What does anal sex feel like?
Q. Is anal sex sore? What does it feel like? Any tips...
A. 14 October 2006: i never tried it and don't intend to as one of my male friends told me while his mum and dad were on holiday he brought a girl back to the house where they ended up doing it on his ma's new sofa, well they decided to do a bit of anal but after a ... (read in full...)
My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large
Q. Hi there I've got a problem which I've never dealt with before in our family: age gap relationships. My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large. My husband is the same age as me, so I've n...
A. 12 October 2006: i'm going with a fella who is 19yrs older than me, i was 19 & he was 38 when we got together. i've been with him nearly 4yrs, thing is now i'm starting to grow out of him because i'm looking at younger fellas now & then looking at him & thinking to ... (read in full...)
My bf keeps askin me for sex. I am only 13, am I too young?
Q. i am 13 and my boyfriend moved away he is coming back to visit me and wants to have sex i told him im not sure but he keeps asking me am i to young??...
A. 12 October 2006: yes sweetheart you are far to young & if you do go ahead & have sex with him you'll regret it in later life just the way i did. i 1st had sex when i was 14 i thought the boy i was with at the time was my begin all & end all, how wrong was i. you ... (read in full...)
I am in love with a boy, but he hits me and spits in my face.
Q. i am a teen and i am really in love with a boy, i have performed oral sex with him and he has done things to me but after it he says he doesnt fancy me anymore !! when we was alone he said he only said he didnt fancy him because i annoyed him. so i ...
A. 12 October 2006: you seriously don't need a loser like him sweetheart, he ain't worth the bothering about you can do much better than that piece of scum & there's better out there for you, a lovely young lad who'll treat you with the respect you deserve. that ... (read in full...)
She was size 10-12... But she can't stay away from cakes and chocolate and her weight has ballooned and I don't find her attractive!
Q. Im 21 and i've been with my partner for just over 4 years now. We've been together since we were 17 and i think we have a good relationship, but i feel very unattracted to her now. when we 1st got together she was a size 10-12 now she is a size 16+ ...
A. 11 October 2006: it could be that your gf is a bit depressed & food gives her a little bit of comfort that could be the reason behind her eating so much, you should think about that instead of thinking of her fat. sit down & have a chat with her & if she is ... (read in full...)
Could I be up the duff?
Q. Hi. I recently changed my contraceptive pill and had unprotected sex during the week i was 'unsafe' does this mean im pregnant? What should i do now?...
A. 11 October 2006: depending no when you had unprotected sex you could go to your doctor & get the morning after pill this works for up to 72hrs after unprotected sex but if it's over this time period you should do a pregnancy test that way you'll know for sure if you ... (read in full...)
Can you get hold of the contraceptive pill anonymously?
Q. Is it possible to get hold of the pill anonymously and without yor family GP knowing?...
A. 11 October 2006: yes you can get the pill anonymously by going to your local family planning clinic they don't tell your family GP either as it's all confidential... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 11 October 2006: love forget about this man he's a pedophile, he's taking your innocense away your only a child. tell your parents & go to the police ASAP because god only knows how many other 13yr olds he's corrupting. like my bf is 19yrs older than me but i'm an ... (read in full...)
I am 16 and my parents are trying to stop me from going back to my abusive ex. Do I have rights?
Q. Me and my boyfriend split around .. 2 months ago he cheated on me alot and hit me and treated me bad. I was ok we didnt see each other or speak, i met osmeone and was happy. My ex rung me crying saying he missed me and never realised how muc...
A. 11 October 2006: i had a bf like that when i was your age, i stuck him for 3yrs & my parents weren't to happy. so once they noticed i wasn't listening to what they said my mum told me she wasn't gonna nag me anymore & that i'll come to my senses some day in which i ... (read in full...)
The kids also want their say in family life, what should I do ?
Q. I thought I had made a breakthrough in my troubles. he has agreed to go to councilling with me, but i find out my kids aged 10 and 11 want there say in family life...
A. 9 October 2006: i think you should let your kids have their say because they aren't babies anymore they have minds of their own now. i also think it would be good for you & your partner to hear what your kids have to say, because if you & your partner have been ... (read in full...)
My perfect fiance is verbally abusive. How can I save my relationship?
Q. my fiance is so perfect for me but for one thing. He is verbally abusive. He doesnt seem to realise the impact his words have on me. I dont want to feel an inch high anymore and it is effecting my health,job perfomance and emotional well being. How ...
A. 9 October 2006: you should sit him down & tell him how he makes you feel but don't be soft with him, tell him if it continues you'll not be sticking with him for much longer & if he loves you as much as you love him he'll not be long in changing his tune ... (read in full...)
How do I break up?
Q. My boyfriend abuses me verbally and phisically. I'm not happ with him because our comunication is aweful. I cannot disscuss ANYTHING with him. We're just too different and we're never going to work out. I know that the best thing is to break up. I ...
A. 9 October 2006: get out of that relationship now, i was in your position once & things only got worse i was with him for 3yrs. walk away while you can yes you'll be depressed but at the same time you'll be relieved to get away from him. just be strong & walk away & ... (read in full...)
How do I break up?
Q. My boyfriend abuses me verbally and phisically. I'm not happ with him because our comunication is aweful. I cannot disscuss ANYTHING with him. We're just too different and we're never going to work out. I know that the best thing is to break up. I ...
A. 9 October 2006: get out of that relationship now, i was in your position once & things only got worse i was with him for 3yrs. walk away while you can yes you'll be depressed but at the same time you'll be relieved to get away from him. just be strong & walk away & ... (read in full...)
How do I break up?
Q. My boyfriend abuses me verbally and phisically. I'm not happ with him because our comunication is aweful. I cannot disscuss ANYTHING with him. We're just too different and we're never going to work out. I know that the best thing is to break up. I ...
A. 9 October 2006: get out of that relationship now, i was in your position once & things only got worse i was with him for 3yrs. walk away while you can yes you'll be depressed but at the same time you'll be relieved to get away from him. just be strong & walk away & ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to just be there for him and be his friend, when i'm still in love with him?
Q. Hi, my bf recently broke up with me bcuz he wanted to have a closure with his ex. He started hanging out with her, and the feelings came back, and he wants to see where it will go and if they still fight. He told me as soon as they have a fight he's ...
A. 9 October 2006: i'm gonna be honest with you here but in his eyes you're just 2nd best when he's telling you he's going back to his ex but if it does'nt work out he'll come back to you. you should just forget about him the way he'll forget about you when he's ... (read in full...)
She want see other people, she lies to me, treat me like crap and expects me to just take it! What should I do?
Q. my girlfriend has confessed to me that she wants to see other people because she has been with me and only me for 4 years.she was 14 when we met and now she is 18.it has been very difficult because she has confessed to making out with a guy in a ...
A. 7 October 2006: how can she love you if she's with other men? my advise to you is get out of that relationship now & let her run with all the men she wants because she doesnt love you, is she loving you when she's with other men? no dont think so! you should move ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been texting other girls, now he doesn't want to talk about it.
Q. hi there need some help!! i had a big arugement with my bf last over him texting another girl but the more we argued the more i found out. i found out that there wasnt just 1 girl he was texting but 3. he told me they were just friends of his which ...
A. 7 October 2006: personally i think he's playing away from home because if they are just friends why didnt he tell you about them & why did he keep changing his story & you say the texts made out that they have met. could you picture if that was you texting other ... (read in full...)
Hes demanding more outrageous things to do sexually after watchin porn all the while!!!!
Q. My husband stays up every night after I'm in bed looking at internet porn. I know why. I'm 46, size 14, with a body that looks like it's borne and breastfed 4 children. We are mismatched in our sex interests. He thinks I am old and boring because I ...
A. 7 October 2006: if ur not comfortable with doing the things ur husband demands of you then dont do it, dont let him dictate to you & if he starts sulking & gets verbally abusive just tell him if he doesnt like it then he knows where the door is & at the end of the ... (read in full...)
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