How do I get over my ex, of seven years ago?
Q. Help!! It's been seven years and I cannot get over my ex. I don't know what's wrong with me but I still think about him everyday. We are not in touch but I have a fairly good idea of where he is now. I've read loads of "How to get over your ex" ...
A. 28 January 2009: Okay, I kind of get your point of view as I have something similar that happened to me just over a year ago and I cannot forget the guy though he has been the worst person in the world to me and treated me worse than anyone else in my life. I still ... (read in full...)
Am I normal not to fancy anyone at my age?
Q. I am 34. Going to be 35 this year. Shhh! I don't fancy anyone either. I have been single for 3 years. My past relationships have been with men who just use me. One for money, hid me away and the other as a ground sheet as my mother put it. I don't ...
A. 4 September 2008: I think you're perfectly normal! You have had a hard time and hey, the right person probably hasn't come along. I am in similar situation but worse. The sad thing is I feel that I can never ever look at another guy again. I just feel nothing for ... (read in full...)
I over-reacted and now he has been ignoring me! What should I do? I don't want to lose him!
Q. my boyfriend and i dated for two months, talked for three months before that, and have been close friends for three years, he sent me a text saying we need a break after i acted a little crazy (he went away to camp and i was having a hard time not ...
A. 30 August 2008: I can only sympathise and say something kind of similar happened to me and I am still trying to fix it up seven months later... :( It is getting there... I think... slowly. My advice to you is honestly, if he is like the guy I care about, don't push ... (read in full...)
My husband is a wonderful man but I think of him as a best friend or a brother, should I give up on my marriage?
Q. I have been married for a year and a half. My husband is a wonderful man and would do anything for me. The problem is, I think of him more as a best friend/brother than my husband. We share everything but I have to admit that I have no physical ...
A. 16 August 2008: I totally understand how you feel. I was in similar situation. I found that the fact I had feelings for another man simply clarified that although I loved my husband of 27 years, I did not *LOVE* him and had not for some years. We were more just ... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 8 May 2008: restarting a friendship... another update. This man, he definitely is not over me EITHER. I need advice on how to restart this friendship, even if just on a friendship level. The other morning just before dawn I out working with my dog, 'tracking'. ... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 20 April 2008: Oh dear, another update. I need help! What can I say. I thought I was over this man. I am not. He has begun to return to my dog club again. He acts so weird. I have hidden ANY kind of feelings I have from him. Really hidden them. I do not look at ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to bring him back to me?
Q. so here is how my story goes.. about 7 months ago i met the love of my life whilst i was in a relationship. i broke the relationship off immediately and starting seeing my new guy. however after 3 weeks or so i dont know what happned and before i ...
A. 20 April 2008: I don't know what to say to help you in some ways but if it's any consolation I feel the same about a guy I fell in love with. I thought I'd moved on and though I would NEVER give away to anyone, especially him, that I haven't, I can't. It's been ... (read in full...)
I don't want to play games and don't want to seem clingy although I feel it inside-what do I do?
Q. Hi,i have started seeing this guy,we have seen each other over the course of a few days now, we both seemed to get on really well, the last time i saw him we went to his place, i forgot my coat!(honestly), i called to apologize(after all i certainly ...
A. 19 April 2008: If you like him I would text him back. I would. You won't seem clingy cos he initiated the contact again. Just play it cool. Maybe he likes that! He must like you if he has contacted you again. ... (read in full...)
People have a big problem with our age difference, how can we solve this?
Q. i am 43 and she is 18 but we really like each other we have a lot of fun but her parents and other people have a thing about our age difference how do i solve this...
A. 19 April 2008: People adjust over time when they see you are happy. I have been in exactly this situation. I married my husband. he is twenty years older than me. The one warning I have is THINK carefully about the longevity of this relationship. What happened to ... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 11 April 2008: Thank you again Ask oldersister. You were so right!!!! I really appreciated your advice :)... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 11 April 2008: Thank you Ask oldersister :) :)Yeah, you live and learn. It just wasn't meant to be and I guess it has left me with a few trust issues but that's perhaps not such a bad thing. I guess I shouldn't feel sorry for the guy. His problems are his own and ... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 10 April 2008: Here is update on my situation, wondering what others think??? I have moved on. I will never forget this man and find I cannot change the feelings I had for him and will always always love him, but what I did was put my feelings aside and figured ... (read in full...)
What do I do when time doesn't help me get over my first love?
Q. Hello all, I am writing to get some advice on how to move on with my life after a very bad break up. I am now at the worse state in my life. I cant concentrate for even a second, my mind always wonder to thinking what if things were dif...
A. 6 April 2008: If it is any consolation to you, at 43 I had the same feelings and didn't seem to be able to get over someone who TRULY WAS the first person I've ever truly madly deeply loved... and hey, I've been married :( It took quite a while but in the end I ... (read in full...)
She got back together with her ex and I'm still not over it! How long will it take?
Q. Hi, I was in a serious relationship which unfortunately lasted just 4 months because of an argument that we had which ended in her breaking up with me. I was devestated by the break up but thought i'd recover with time. We broke up 7 months ago but ...
A. 30 March 2008: Maybe we all help each other so glad anything I said helped. I certainly found the other answers personally helpful also. Look, I actually still cry every day months later. But I also see happiness in my life and that was something I couldn't do a ... (read in full...)
She got back together with her ex and I'm still not over it! How long will it take?
Q. Hi, I was in a serious relationship which unfortunately lasted just 4 months because of an argument that we had which ended in her breaking up with me. I was devestated by the break up but thought i'd recover with time. We broke up 7 months ago but ...
A. 25 March 2008: I feel so very sorry for you because I am in similar situation. I had short relationship with a man who I loved, respected and admired as a person deeply. I thought I meant more to him than I did, kind of got my heart broken and here I am months ... (read in full...)
He is getting "cold-hearted" towards me and I'm getting angrier but obsessed, what do you think?
Q. Hi, Just a little long but I am very tormented.... I had a coworker (John)that started helping me out at my farm. He is recently divorced very christian, kind person. For the last year we have done things together -antiqueing, play dates ...
A. 17 March 2008: I agree with dearkelja. I have had a slightly different but similar experience in that the minute you start showing some serious emotion and asking the man to return it, sometimes they just not capable of it. I'm not making a generalisation here ... (read in full...)
Married, and I fancy this other guy, I moved away but cant shake that feeling,help!
Q. I have a problem...a couple really. Firstly, I am married to this really lovely, steady guy. He loves me, we have kids. We get along well, and he is truly my best friend. We have a lousy sex life, but that's not really anyone's fault - more that ...
A. 12 March 2008: My advice would be to say don't go there. I did. I didn't have sex with my guy but we got close and then almost did. It has ruined things between us and has almost destroyed my life. When the fantasy starts to become a reality all sorts of things go ... (read in full...)
Married, and I fancy this other guy, I moved away but cant shake that feeling,help!
Q. I have a problem...a couple really. Firstly, I am married to this really lovely, steady guy. He loves me, we have kids. We get along well, and he is truly my best friend. We have a lousy sex life, but that's not really anyone's fault - more that ...
A. 12 March 2008: My advice would be to say don't go there. I did. I didn't have sex with my guy but we got close and then almost did. It has ruined things between us and has almost destroyed my life. When the fantasy starts to become a reality all sorts of things go ... (read in full...)
Since he confessed he likes me, he drew back, appearing to feel guilty, twice. We are both unhappily married. What to do?
Q. Nine months ago I met a man thru our dog club who I was instantly attracted to as he was me too. He is difficult person, not well liked, drinks but brilliant trainer and respected in that way. I not bad trainer either, we similar in so many ways, in ...
A. 9 March 2008: So Askoldersister, why has he made such a big deal about it then? I have repeatedly tried to tell him, just go back to dog club, just go back to being friends. I have even emailed him and said that I would even leave the club and go somewhere else ... (read in full...)
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