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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,i have started seeing this guy,we have seen each other over the course of a few days now, we both seemed to get on really well, the last time i saw him we went to his place, i forgot my coat!(honestly), i called to apologize(after all i certainly didnt want him to think i had left it on purpose y'know. Anyhow i'm the one who has called him and text, he says he will call or text and doesn't. I came to the conclusion that i didnt want to be seeing someone who regardless of what he has said seems uninterested, otherwise he could call or text right! So i called him this morning and asked him to bin my coat, i said he would be doing me a favor i didnt like it anyway and i was just on my way to get a new one, he said are you sure you could have it as a spare and i said no just bin it, and made my excuses i had to go, got things to do. I did this so he wouldnt feel like he had to see me again as i'm sure by his actions he just isnt interested, it would do us both a favor. So what happens he texts me 3hours later,(oh my god, he can text)and asks if i'm ok and would i still like to go to his place one day if the weather picks up), i shall explain we both have children and he lives by a farm, we had said it would be nice for the kids one day. How am i supposed to take that? Is it because he realised i had had enough of not hearing when i told him to just ditch the coat? Anyway i havent text him back, i'd like to but am holding back now, i dont want to play games and dont want to seem clingy although i feel it inside, i do like him. Is it worth it? He was more than keen on me initially when we met at a party and even ran a good 3miles back to the party when he thought i was leaving, that was a week ago,so where is his head at?? Thankyou in advance for your advice!:)
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reader, Amac  +, writes (19 April 2008):
If you like him I would text him back. I would. You won't seem clingy cos he initiated the contact again. Just play it cool. Maybe he likes that! He must like you if he has contacted you again.
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