How do I overcome feeling so nervous in having to give a presentation in front of my class?
Q. I need help on how to overcome my nervousness. This week I am doing a presentation to my English class, and I am quite scared. I don't like to speak in large groups. There are at least 25 students in the class. I'm afraid that the students will ...
A. 17 May 2007: I'm a prac teacher and I have to present to a group almost every day! I've found that when you're confident with what you're going to say, it shows in your confidence as a speaker. If you're going to talk about something you're passionate about, or ... (read in full...)
How can get to go out with her alone?
Q. i'm dead crazy in love with this girl. i asked her if she wanna go cinema she automatically thinks about bringing her mates, i dont know if she does it on purpose! i want to ask her to the cinema alone! so i want to ask her out to cinema alone ...
A. 17 May 2007: Just say: "I would like to take you to a movie, just you and me." If she's not comfortable with that she'll let you know, believe me.... (read in full...)
My fear of vomiting is putting me off clubbing and drinking the the future! What can I do?
Q. Hi x i 14 and i have a big problem, it might seem pathetic. I have a severe case of emetophobia. (fear of vomiting). i get scared if someone feels sick and also myself. If i am sick i cry and shiver. If someone else is sick, i cry, shake, shiv...
A. 24 March 2007: You're what? 14?
First off, I would NOT suggest clubbing and drinking at that age! It's illegal, AND UNSAFE.
Now on to vomit. x_X
A friend of a friend of mine suffers the same. She is terrified of throwing up, of others being sick and will go... (read in full...)
If I believe in something strongly, do I have the right to force it onto others?
Q. If i believe about something very strongly, do i have to force it on to other for it to get really justified as a universal truth? Does it become universal truth if one or two people agree with it or join hands with me in respect to the belief?...
A. 24 March 2007: You NEVER have the right to FORCE your own opinion or beliefs onto others. This would impede upon their own opinions and beliefs, and therefore is unethical and an injustice to the person who is being suppressed. And consider this: Do YOU like to be ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to look at a woman's physique with some judgement, if it doesn't really affect the way you behave with them?
Q. Some women in my culture (eastern) consider their body as something to be revered and not looked at with any judgement about it. At the same time, they want to command equal treatment from men at work and in society. I find this to be difficult to ...
A. 24 March 2007: If women want equal treatment from men at work and in society, they desire to be respected as individuals - so instead of focusing on their bodies or gender, you would focus on their personality, their attributes, what makes them a good person or a ... (read in full...)
I met this guy on the internet but I think I've moved too fast, no I'm having doubts
Q. I met a guy on the internet a couple of months ago and we got on really well. We started emailing and texting then eventually calling each other every night for hours at a time. I liked the way he thought about things and we seemed to have a lot in ...
A. 14 February 2007: I know what it's like to have an internet boyfriend first hand, and I understand the kind of doubts you're having about your relationship. The best thing to do in this situation would be to talk to him about it, it's not going to be an easy thing to ... (read in full...)
My long-distance girlfriend has a problem with my use of porn!
Q. Dear Cupid my long-distance girlfriend of 18 months has a serious issue with my use of porn. I only use it when I am away as a visual aid. When i'm in town we have great sex daily and i am happy with her body. I have a high sex drive and i wi...
A. 8 February 2007: I think you might need to earn her trust, given your 'delightful' response below, Mr Male 26-29. You may never have cheated on her, or given her any reason to believe you have cheated on her, but by using pornography you're causing her to believe ... (read in full...)
My husband took everything we had - trust, love, and ruined it by sleeping with a Thai bar girl...
Q. I had a very happy marriage until about three months ago. My husband went on a business trip to Thailand and visited a go-go bar where he had protected sex with a bar girl. He got back and confessed the very same night but said he only had oral sex ...
A. 8 February 2007: If you still love him and this is the first time he has done anything to break your trust, then I highly suggest you both see a marriage counsellor. If he is truly sorry AND apologetic for what he has done, then maybe you can patch things up.
B... (read in full...)
I want to be with him so bad!!
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend just turned 21. He's a coast guard but the thing is he just got based in Alaska. We want to get married but the thing is my mother does not want that. My birth month is in oct and hes going this March. I finish school this ...
A. 6 February 2007: Plain and simple - you should NOT be getting married that young. You still have your whole life to live and if you're really meant to be together - then you will eventually be together - but don't rush things! How on earth is marrying him going to ... (read in full...)
He has these odd dreams about me and other guys! Do you think he doesnt trust me and he thinks I'm going to cheat on him or run off with someone else?
Q. hey! im 16 and i have a bf that i have been with for just over a month now. first question: he told me about this dream he had of me last night. it was about me talking to one of his mates and my bf came to talk to me but i wouldnt leave his mate a...
A. 6 February 2007: I read on DreamMoods.com that dreams about cheating are actually a good thing, it means your relationship is strengthening and he shouldn't be afraid of you ACTUALLY cheating.... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for him...simply close friendship or real love?
Q. Hi, I'm Altindie and for obvious reasons, I'd like some relationship advice. I met my current boyfriend over the internet. We chatted simply as friends, every day for about two years before we decided to take the plunge into boyfriend/girlfr...
A. 6 February 2007: Thanks everybody for responding... it really helped for me to clear my head and get my thoughts and feelings in order.
Melschatbox: Fantasy was a part of our relationship online but I never let it get out of control (sexual fantasy) because ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad son and a loser? what about my ex, and this new girl? so many questions - I want your advice
Q. i'm 24 years old i got dumped 2 weeks before xmas and i thought i would never find anyone like my ex. was always tight downstairs if u get what i mean. now after we split i've been doing some stupid things like driveing a car with no lie...
A. 5 February 2007: 1. Yes the girl is rushing things, but don't you think you are too?
2. You're not a bad son, you're not a bad person, you're confused. Instead of dragging a girlfriend into things to 'solve all your problems' do some soul searching on your own... (read in full...)
My long-distance girlfriend has a problem with my use of porn!
Q. Dear Cupid my long-distance girlfriend of 18 months has a serious issue with my use of porn. I only use it when I am away as a visual aid. When i'm in town we have great sex daily and i am happy with her body. I have a high sex drive and i wi...
A. 5 February 2007: Why can't you masturbate to HER picture? I think you have hurt her feelings by jacking off to pictures of other women because she doesn't understand why you aren't doing it to her own picture. You can tell her you love her body all you want but when ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband I want a divorce??
Q. I am a indian lady and in a arranged marriage. In the beginnig my husband showed signs of temper then started to throw things. We have 4 kids and i have no familly support , so i started my own business then he stopped my kids going babysitt...
A. 5 February 2007: I think you should see a lawyer before you make any more decisions, especially those of the 'moving house' kind. You CAN get a divorce but it won't be easy, you'll have to negotiate with your husband and it will be a long and emotional process for ... (read in full...)
I have never been dumped before so why did my ex dump me??
Q. Can someone shed some light on this? My ex dumped me just before Christmas after a 3 month relationship. We had been extremely close friends for 9 months (I helped him get over his ex-fiancee who had been lying and cheating on him) but we waited u...
A. 5 February 2007: Now he's let you go he wants what he can't have. If he says he no longer has a social life since you broke up he's getting desperate to win you back because you're the only 'social life' he knows. Tell him to get out more if you're absolutely sure ... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant??
Q. Hi, I need some advice, two weeks ago i took the morning after pill for the first time. (im 17). I didn't have any symptoms at the time except a nasty headache. The dr. told me that my next period would be a bit strange and that it should be bef...
A. 5 February 2007: I don't think you're pregnant but get a preg. test to be sure. If the doctor tells you your period is going to be strange then that sounds strange enough to me. Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
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