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Every time I have sex with my husband I think of this man

Q.   I am married and I got acquainted to another man since 2004 and finally this acquaintance turns into love. We met several times but we never had sexual intercourse. I was so afraid that this will turns wrong if I go in sexual relationship with ...

A.   18 December 2009: The only way you could convince him of that would be to divorce your husband. You can't have everything, and I'm sorry to say this, but even if you did get a divorce there's a good chance you still wouldn't get him. If you love your husband, stay ... (read in full...)

Could our adolescent sex play have turned her into a lesbian?

Q.   When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have ...

A.   14 December 2009: She was probably a lesbian to begin with and that's why she wanted to experiment with you. It's natural to experiment at a young age, but that could have been an indicator. I doubt that it "turned her" into a lesbian.... (read in full...)

Did I over-react when he told me my friend was hot?

Q.   During the summer I was seeing this guy for 2 months when he ended things to be w/ his ex. It wasn't serious and I barely knew him, so eventually I got over it. I ran into him after a month and he started texting me again- he said it was a big ...

A.   14 December 2009: It's not uncalled for on his part because you guys are broken up; guys say these things all the time, and you are Polish too so it could even be taken as a compliment! However, as someone who myself gets jealous easily, I understand why it would ... (read in full...)

Do teen guys like "it" shaved?

Q.   So I'm a 14 year old girl and I want to know... do guys from 14 to 17 years old like "it" shaved? I am too young to go that far, but I'm really curious about it! And I want to be ready in case "something" happens! Thanks!...

A.   14 December 2009: Some guys do. Some don't care. I'm a girl, 17, and I shave. But I have been doing it since long before I ever thought about being with a guy simply out of personal preference. I don't like being hairy. The guys I have been with have liked that I ... (read in full...)

Why do I smell 'down there'?

Q.   Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...

A.   14 December 2009: Everyone has a little bit of a smell down there, it's stronger to you than it is to others. However, you would need to describe it more to know for sure if it's just normal or if it is some kind of infection. If you are getting green or yellow-ish ... (read in full...)

My ex is threatening to rape me!

Q.   help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...

A.   14 December 2009: You need to tell someone what is going on right now, an adult. And you need to stay in your house with the doors locked and make sure someone knows where you are. This guy is too old for you, and what he is doing is illegal. Please be careful; you ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I feel the same way I once felt about him

Q.   Okay, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months now. he's one of the few good guys left in the world. he's sweet, nice, and caring. but the only problem is he doesnt go to the same school i do and he doesnt live near me. ...

A.   5 December 2009: Wow, I'm having the same problem as you. My boyfriend goes to another school and we see each other about as much as your see your guy. My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he doesn't talk on the phone and he is a quiet guy who is not great at ... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but hanker after somebody else

Q.   I like two guys. One of them is my boyfriend... one is not. The other one has the best conversations with me ever, while my boyfriend will not call me on the phone and rarely has much to say. However, he is such a sweetheart and I can't stand to ...

A.   5 December 2009: I don't know how to break up with him. Everything is wrong and I tried once and it was the only time he ever really showed me that he does care. He's just not very emotional at all and when he was it broke my heart especially since I let him lose ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about this half-used box of condoms?

Q.   I've been with my bf for about 5 months. He's absolutely amazing, treats me well, listens to me and respects me. Early in our relationship I told him that when it comes to being intimate I want to take things slow. I still haven't slept with him and ...

A.   26 November 2009: Maybe he has just had it in there for a long time, since before you were dating. Also, I know my boyfriend's friend was given a box of condoms as a joke and he gave a lot of them away, so that's also a possibility? Maybe you should talk to him, ... (read in full...)

Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!

Q.   What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can ...

A.   24 November 2009: It's weird. However, he might just not like to talk on the phone. That is what my boyfriend pulls on me, and it's honestly just because he doesn't like to talk on the phone. It's stupid.... (read in full...)

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

Q.   Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

A.   22 November 2009: We're both seventeen, and he's only an hour away. We usually get to see each other about once a week. He knew I was trying to break up with him, and he told me that he understands what I was saying and he wanted to work things out and now we're ... (read in full...)

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