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writes:I am married and I got acquainted to another man since 2004 and finally this acquaintance turns into love. We met several times but we never had sexual intercourse. I was so afraid that this will turns wrong if I go in sexual relationship with someone else. So we just hugged and kissed. One day while kissing his hand moved to my panty and he succeeded in touching my sex with his hand and it was so good that I did same with him. He was about to remove my panty when suddenly I said stop I can't do this. He just said ok. Since then he talked less to me and did not come to meet me. I was so sad. One day we met and I did not even gave him the chance to kiss me and he just left from there. He is very angry with me and have found a new girl friend. Since then I am missing him a lot. Each time my husband makes love with me, I think of him only. I want him to touch and kiss me everywhere and make love with me. But now that he has a new girl friend, just tell me how to convince him that I still love him and now I am ready for sex whatever the consequences. I want to know how to pacify him and he comes back to me.
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reader, allineedistime  +, writes (18 December 2009):
The only way you could convince him of that would be to divorce your husband. You can't have everything, and I'm sorry to say this, but even if you did get a divorce there's a good chance you still wouldn't get him. If you love your husband, stay with him; if you don't, don't. You can't have both. It sounds like you are in a wrong marriage.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Dont let wondering what sex with him would be like over ride the other reasons that caused you to refuse it in the first place. Is the potential losses if you were caught worth it? Is hurting others and yourself worth it?This man clearly only wanted sex. If he loved you he would not have distanced himself so quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Im really gonna be frank here.Hope you will understand. Your husband doesnt deserve this. Have you thought about it before going in a relationship with this man. You need to make up your mind, dont let a good husband sit with a wife who doesnt deserve him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): The fact that your married to another man isn't on your side while trying to convince a man you love him. If you expect him to leave his girlfriend to be w/ you, don't you think he'd expect you to leave your husband for him? You might just need to reevaluate your current marriage. After all, you did promise loyalty to him.
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reader, LUFC  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Okay, you must obviously not be in love with your husband if you are getting aquainted with other men obviously. Just think of the damage you would cause by having an affair with another man. Not only he would be hurt but also you. The guilt would eventually rip you apart. If you are serious about sleeping with this man, at least have the guts to tell youir husband that you want a divorce first or at least what's been going on, it's hardly fair on him now is it!?But hang on a second, you say you may love this man, but yet he's angry that you wouldn't sleep with him so he's found someone new? Seems to me like he was just using you for sex in the first place honey. Why would you want to sleep with someone who does things like that? The best advice i can give you is to WALK AWAY. This advice may seem harsh, but in reality; the truth hurts.
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