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*llineedistime
writes:I like two guys. One of them is my boyfriend... one is not. The other one has the best conversations with me ever, while my boyfriend will not call me on the phone and rarely has much to say. However, he is such a sweetheart and I can't stand to hurt him, I tried to break up with him and it felt SO wrong. So I didn't.. and we're still together. The feelings for the other guy went away for a little while but soon came back. I can't help it. This guy doesn't even live near me, he's very far away but we'll be near each other in college and I can't stop thinking about what could be. Help?? Reply to this Question
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reader, allineedistime +, writes (5 December 2009):
allineedistime is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know how to break up with him. Everything is wrong and I tried once and it was the only time he ever really showed me that he does care. He's just not very emotional at all and when he was it broke my heart especially since I let him lose his virginity to me when I knew it was much too early. Even though he was the one who wanted it bad, I should have known and now I am so guilty. :(
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Your boyfriend can't be all that great if wont' call you and doesn't have much to say. Don't be with someone out of guilt or pity, you need to be with someone because they help make you happy and you love them. I think the time has come to end it with your boyfriend and focus on yourself for a while. This other guy will be near you when you go to college, so maybe make a move then. But it sounds like you and your current boyfriend have gone far enough, and it would be unfair to stay with him when he can find someone else and so can you. Don't waste time with someone you don't really love.
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