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I'm bi, and want to be with my friend "straight" friend?
Q. I'm bisexual, and my friend knows but she thought she was bi-curious but now she says she's straight, and we play around like stare into eachother eyes and lay in bed together but I try not to touch her sexually. Thing is I'm sexually attracted to ...
A. 28 February 2009: I would try to tell her how you feel; be like "Hey I know you really aren't into girls that much anymore, but I think I feel something for you, something more then I feel with the rest of my friends" or that such. Or try asking her out to the ... (read in full...)
Whom should I choose?
Q. I have this problem. i'm starting to like someone else. but i'm still in love with this present guy. the present guy was some kinda, conceit but he's smart. he's kind to me when we i was a freshmen, but when he was elected as a president, he ...
A. 25 February 2009: First of all; DON'T GIVE UP!
Try some new things with your present guy; don't come off like you want to have distance from him. Surprise him with a gift, ask him out to the movies, etc. Do all the nice things you used to do back in the begi... (read in full...)
Last week he got a girlfriend, but I still think he likes me!
Q. Hey Umm, i have a huge problem. umm theres this guy at school, i really like him, hes nice and kinda shy. well me and my friends started hanging out with him and his friends. It seems like he likes me too, but heres the thing last week he got a ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well if you have the guts, confront him. Maybe start out as a 'hay how are you doing? hows life? hows your relationship going?' don't try to come off as you are jealous or interested in him or else he might leave his girlfriend in a heartbeat. Don't ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a guy to actually to be scared to fall for someone?? I thought it was only women who felt like that.
Q. Right I met a guy before christmas. We dated a few times, and then he let me down a couple of times when we arranged to meet. So I text and said I don't mind being let down once but two three times is not on, so let's leave it here. He didn't put up ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well either you can try to build a steady relationship with him, show him that their are commitments that work--eventually he will become more trusted in your relationship and who knows- it could lead to a family or marriage.
If you decide t... (read in full...)
How do I get over the father of my daughter?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 months ago, we noticed it wasn't working out. We also have an 8 month old daughter together. I thought it would be easy to get over him but it's not. It hurts me to even think about letting him go and I ...
A. 25 February 2009: Stay strong girl! If you have a daughter she is going to need a strong-willed supportive mother to look up to. I would make a deal with your ex now, make sure he visits your daughter regularly and the such. He must already feel guilty for leaving ... (read in full...)
She has commitment issues. How can I proceed?
Q. About 10 years ago I met this girl in my 7th grade English class. And we became really good friends. We're still great friends to this day. A few months ago I got back from a 2 year trip to a foreign country. When I came home I reunited with this ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well to look at the positives; at least you are both aware and afraid of the same things. As long as you two keep things at a steady pace your relationship will be prosperous. Don't ware each other out by calling/texting every minute. Do adventurous ... (read in full...)
What does that mean?Anything?
Q. This might sound a little silly but at lunch today i was sitting in between my ex (that i still love very much) and and one of my friends that likes me (but i have no feelings for at all for him) Well they were bugging me and and keep putting ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well it's probably simply because you were blushing or getting nervous, even if it was only noticeable just on that one side. Nervousness, even if you think you may feel comfortable with him, usually is a warm sensation. It's nothing to worry about ... (read in full...)
I don't think he's quite a first class jerk, but I don't know how to respond!
Q. Hoping some of the great aunts can help here. This is not a huge problem but some second opinions would help. I enjoy my job immensely and have good relationships with my colleagues. I work hard to make sure I do. There is a guy in the office that I ...
A. 25 February 2009: Maybe he has had past issues with women, or a particular one that reminds him of you. It could also be that 'badass' guy mental stage where they show their affection through rude or distasteful comments. I would try confronting him on a lunch break ... (read in full...)
I don't like him, but he sure likes me!
Q. This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well it sounds like a crush going in to a slight obsession. I would try to find another girl with some of the same traits as you that he could get interested in or clearly tell him: "I don't want to lead you on, you can find better, i'm sorry i'm ... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident around girls?
Q. I am a 15 year old boy without a relationship, I think that this is because I can't talk to girls properly, I just get nervous around them and I can feel my cheeks burn up if I think I have said something stupid to them. Can you please tell me how ...
A. 21 February 2009: Oh hun you are to young to be worried about your relationship status. :] But if you really want to dive into a headache i'd give you this advice:
1. Manners; I am one girl who hates when someone burps or passes gas in public or around my family or f... (read in full...)
My ex is bugging me to let him back into my life
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend about four days ago. We had been dating for a year and a half with a brief break up period around 8 months. Everything was great at first and I thought that I might actually spend the rest of my life with him. ...
A. 21 February 2009: It sounds to me that he is a very desperate guy; but it also sounds like you both are too young to be thinking about a serious committed relationship. I would be a little easier on the guy, if you two were spending so much time together and at such ... (read in full...)
She says we're just friends but we act as much much more.
Q. Me and my best friend had always been very touchy feely and used to flirt like crazy without noticing unless it was said to us. Okay so about 3 months ago I began dating my best friend. Then about a month ago she decided to break things off as she ...
A. 21 February 2009: Wow it sounds to me like you got a possible swinger on your hand. If she is that touchy-feely towards you and still not ready for commitment, well, it doesn't look to good on your side. If I were you i'd try meeting/flirting/seeing other girls who ... (read in full...)
Could she just be an outgoing social person, or did she want to spend time with me in particular?
Q. Hi, I have a somewhat strange situation. I recently met a girl in one of my classes through a team mate of mine. The girl turned out to be very nice, and in the same major as me. Anyway, yesterday I got an email from her asking to meet so she could ...
A. 21 February 2009: It sounds like she's really interested in you as a person; I mean maybe this friendship is something more. It seems a little bit like she is developing a crush for you. I would just wait it out, don't make any hasty movements, and start to spend a ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...
Q. Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. ...
A. 21 February 2009: Alright first of all, try not to get to paranoid. Since you have experienced the terrible feeling on being cheated it's going to haunt you for awhile, but don't let this paranoia get in the way of whats really going on. It's amazing you get the ... (read in full...)
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