Acne on back & shoulders? Is there something I can take?
Q. I have alot of small red spots and bumps on my upper back and shoulders, i dont know what it is but they wont go away. they have been there for atleast a few years and i take showers regularly but they still stay, is it back acne? are there any ov...
A. 18 June 2009: Acne on the back is very common. I used to have it really bad before I got on birth control, but something I found that worked really well was while I was in the shower, I would wash my back with Olay washcloths. I don't remember exactly what ... (read in full...)
Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy?
Q. Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy? My husband does not want me in bed. What is wrong? He says, he has no idea what happened. Should I divorce him? He does not want to go to therapy. What else can I try,before divorce?...
A. 17 June 2009: I have been seeing a lot of these questions on here lately, and there's one thing in common with all of them... They're written by middle-aged people. There comes a time when both men and women lose their sex-drive because of lowered levels of ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex anymore with my wife! What's going on here?
Q. I wonder,if you guys can help me out here.. I don't feel like having sex anymore with my wife.. I'm 47. Is it ok to not want sex in this age? Does it happen a lot to men? What does my night erection mean. I'm healthy, just not with her? I don't...
A. 17 June 2009: All men AND women experience a decrease in sex-drive as they get older. Most of the time, it's due to lower testosterone levels (in both genders) A suggestion I have is to eat foods that increase certain hormones in your in your body. Brazil Nuts ... (read in full...)
What would you label my sexuality?
Q. The last time my boyfriend went down on me in order to cum i had to imagine it was a girl doing it... Ive never been with a girl before but could this mean im bi? I feel bad for my boyfriend... :/...
A. 17 June 2009: Ha ha, oh gee. This kind of reminds me of me. I am TOTALLY straight. I would not ever date a girl. But notice, I used the word "date" I don't know why, but I love fantasizing about girls. I have been dating a guy for nine months and I am MADLY in ... (read in full...)
My father is the father of my baby... I'm falling into depression... help!
Q. i dont really know how to put this, most of you will probably be utterly digusted, and wont even be able to find the right words.. but i really need some advice. about a month ago, my mom was out of town for a business trip. i am a only child ...
A. 17 June 2009: Hey honey. Don't listen to all the people telling you to abort the baby. You need to do what you feel you need to. I am all for choosing what you want, and you can choose abortion if that's what you want, but don't do it just because these people ... (read in full...)
I need to cheer up but just cant!!
Q. Ok ive been trying to find a vent and im out of ideas so let the internet pick at my problem, ok im a 23 year old engineer and I was dating a girl for over a year when we decided we should move in togther. All was good or so I thought I went to work ...
A. 17 June 2009: Just be happy. It really is in your head. This happens to me all the time. I have an incredible life, but sometimes it just gets me down, and my best friend has to remind me to forget about it all and be happy. I know you're thinking "Sounds more ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my ex says I must have an abortion!
Q. I am pregnant and my ex boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. He is very stern about the idea and says that i am ruining his life and i am ruining his family goals. i am 19, he is 25. We split up about 5 months ago and then tried working things ...
A. 17 June 2009: PLEASE dear Heaven above DO NOT GET AN ABORTION... I'm all for choosing what you want to do for yourself, but I am begging you. Please. There was a young woman of 18 who became pregnant from her boyfriend who she loved very much. There were many ... (read in full...)
I think I love her but she doesn't turn me on sexually
Q. i need some really good advise to save this relationship. i've been with this woman for 8 months and im really happy i found her ...here's the problem. i have way more experience than she does. and she's beginning to realize im not turned on...
A. 14 June 2009: I understand what you're saying. :) Physical things are important in relationships, whether it's hugging, sex or everything in between, especially when you're to the point of love. I think that you should find it in yourself. It's a mind-set, this ... (read in full...)
10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work
Q. Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...
A. 14 June 2009: I am a few months from being 18, you are a little less than twice my age and I bet that I am more knowledgeable on relationships than you. Why they don't work out and DEFINITELY more on why they do. I honestly feel really bad for you. Reading this ... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me after promising that he wouldn't
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. He said that he wouldnt pressure me into thing sexually and to his credit he has been very good at keeping his word... well untill recently. He says he wont pressure me but in the same breath ...
A. 14 June 2009: Ask him why he complains about not letting him do things. Boys are silly. He may be completely honest about not pressuring you and is totally willing to back off and give you your time, but if he is complaining and whining about not being able to, ... (read in full...)
What questions/topics can I talk about on a date?
Q. I am a really shy person and I take a fair while to get to know people, before I feel comfortable around them. And even when I do know people really well, I'm a still a bit on the more quiet side. I'd rather listen to other people and hear about ...
A. 14 June 2009: Talk about your hobbies, things you love, things you're not so fond of. Get to know him. Little things about him, like his favorite color, food, movie, stuff like that. Those conversations are SO fun. Especially if you have many of the same ... (read in full...)
What would you do if you were in my position?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now. i was happy with him until his baby's mother or his ex started bothering us, especially me. she is like a crazy stalker. she calls my cell phone and left 15 missed calls. she called my parents ...
A. 14 June 2009: Well, the first thing that comes to my mind is that he is obviously not going to tell his ex to leave you two alone. He has a child with her and that is an extremely difficult situation. If the baby didn't mean anything to him, then he probably ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it
Q. I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as ...
A. 13 June 2009: I know many posts have recommended this already, but I also HIGHLY recommend seeing a therapist/psychiatrist... Someone, ANYONE who will help you to realize that, even though some humans are repulsive, emotions are not. I think people who are not ... (read in full...)
If I'm so great then why don't I have a boyfriend?
Q. hey i am 14 i have never had a boyfriend never been kissed i know i must sound like a proppa geek But i dont get it i get loads of attention from boys when i walk down the streets or when i am out with a group of freinds they shout somthing l...
A. 11 June 2009: Sweetie, believe me, you don't want a boyfriend at that age. Boys are difficult to deal with even when you think you've got them figured out. So, guys think you're attractive, but they don't ask you out... Maybe they're intimidated. I know many boys ... (read in full...)
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