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Why did he do this terrible things?

Q.   Let me list what what my ex did to me 2 months after the break up (he convinced me to start talking to him again after a personal tragedy. For the next two months (4 months after the break up): Txted about how something reminded him of me Txted...

A.   1 January 2009: It sounds to me like this guy still thinks that there's something between you and him, or still a possibility for a future with you. He's being trying to remind you of how things once were between you both as a way to make you fall for him again, ... (read in full...)

He lied about wearing a condom and now wants me to forgive him!

Q.   Ok this guy and I have been seeing each other for the past three months. We talk everday.. all day off and on. Things were really going good so I thought. This past weekend I went to his house after we had a few drinks. This would be the third time ...

A.   31 December 2008: Nah i wouldn't forgive him..he's clearly only interested in one thing, and thats not you or your respect. Plus even if you do forgive him, you obviously can't trust him and your relationship will only be based on sex. I would forget him. xXx... (read in full...)

Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...

A.   31 December 2008: Forget about your age..if you feel that you are both emotionaly and physically ready, and that you are both willing to axcept the consequences and responsibilities that come with sex, then forget about people going on at you about your age..just ... (read in full...)

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

Q.   I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...

A.   31 December 2008: To take both of your minds off it there are still other methods of contraception that she can use not to protect herself from getting pregnant. I don't know how much you and your girlfriend are aware about other contraceptions but some can protect ... (read in full...)

Was this attempted rape?

Q.   My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...

A.   31 December 2008: I don't know, i think some of these comments are a little unfair. I'm not saying it was rape, or even sexual harasment, but he knew you didn't want to lose your virginity until after marriage. Just because you get naked with someone and 'fool ... (read in full...)

Someone took my virginity!

Q.   ok im jst going to ask a real quick question im really scared someone took my virginity the other day and we have sex and he used condom but then after we done it im start to feeling kinda sick like my tummy hurttt soo bad and I feel throwin up do u ...

A.   31 December 2008: It could just be a coincedience that you felt sick after?? But like the first comment said, sometimes having sex can cause your stomach to be pressed against, and if you'd just eatten then that just upset your stomach. And if you started to be sick ... (read in full...)

Can it be my hymen?

Q.   Hey everyone thanks for any help. The other night I tryed fingering myself but I could'nt get my finger in, there was like a layer of skin. It was blocking the entrance for my finger. Im really worried coz I dont no what it is. Is it my hymen? Also ...

A.   31 December 2008: I don't know if my experience was common or normal, so i don't know how much help this can be..but I just its just another persepective! I knew before i lost my virginity that i had already broken my hymen, so for me sex didn't hurt at all, but... (read in full...)

How normal is it for a girl to want sex often?

Q.   I'd like to know how normal it is for a girl to want sex often. i usually want sex at the very least once a week. but i like to have it once a day or sometimes more. sometimes i feel like i am not normal because of that. so i guess my questio...

A.   31 December 2008: There is nothing wrong with wanting sex often! If it is literaly an obsession, and its all you want out of a relationship and you can't stop thinking about..then thats different, but you sound exactly like me!lol Men are 'allowed' to wan... (read in full...)

How old should I be before I have sex?

Q.   how old do yall think i should be before sex?...

A.   31 December 2008: I agree..only you know when your ready..and if your not sure, then your not ready! Before i lost my virginity i had a lot of different people and different friends telling me when i should do it, and im glad i never listened to them! Some thou... (read in full...)

Is this stain in my underwear me starting my period?

Q.   its the second day now and i have brownish stains in my underwear and at first i thought it was crap but then it happened again and then i thought that i might be having my period. i do have pubic hair and ive noticed arm pit hair sooo yea.=/...

A.   31 December 2008: I would say that if its only the second day that this has happened, then i'd wait another couple of days to see if it continues, goes away or turns out to be the beginning of your period. If it continues the way it is now, id say it'd be a good idea ... (read in full...)

Dry humping..now pregnant?

Q.   my boyfriend and i were dry humpping please i need a reply.am i pregnant but my period is delayed by 4 days im scared please help some one...

A.   31 December 2008: I'm not telling you that your definatly not pregnant, but this happened with me a few months ago..i was completely convienced i was pregnant and my period was showing no sign of appearing! But it did eventually come. I've heard that stress can ... (read in full...)

Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?

Q.   Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like ...

A.   31 December 2008: I call it the treasure trail =D ..and yes..it has the power to drive me completely crazy!lol it's not so much that you can see it, its the fact that you can't see where its leading to! I'm bi, and so i guess i can give you an example that you can ... (read in full...)

How can I spend one night with my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi! im new to this so sorry if it sounds wired. Iv a small problem.I really love my boyfriend of 7 months now and more than anything in the world I would so love to sleep with him for one night and wake up with him their. Not even for us to do ...

A.   31 December 2008: Awh I have been through this EXACT thing..you just want him there when you wake up and the comfort of being curled up together!! I think it was about a year after I was going out with my current b/f that we both tried to spend the night ... (read in full...)

B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!

Q.   So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as ...

A.   31 December 2008: As well as a condom and spermicide,you could combine this with natural contraception..and theres NO side effects!! If you don't know what natural contraception is, there's a lot of very clear information that explains it on the internet. There is NO ... (read in full...)

My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men.

Q.   My wife want's a mutual marriage. That is, she wants to date other men. She wants to find me a girl as well. It's crazy and weird. We live in the same house and have a year old child. I do not know what to do. I have always just wanted to be ma...

A.   31 December 2008: I know that i'm a lot younger, and so your probably pretty sceptical about the advice that I could give you, but I guess it's at least another perspective! I know that you love her and so want to make her happy, but if this in't what you want then... (read in full...)

He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?

Q.   Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think ...

A.   31 December 2008: If thats how you feel about him, then your not wasting your time! There could be several reasons why he hasn't replied to your txts, but if he's ignoring your calls or emails then maybe he's the one wasting your time. He might have meet someone else ... (read in full...)

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