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How will I know she will want me to kiss her?

Q.   im going to a party at the weekend and the girl i like is going. it seems like she likes me as well as we both flirt and she starts it off. i think that we may kiss or snog at this party. the thing is i haven't kissed a girl properly in my l...

A.   25 May 2011: First things first, if you really like this girl, don't do anything if she is drunk. She will more than likely just feel like you are taking advantage. There are some subtle signs but not always, jus.t relax at first, if she spends time looking into ... (read in full...)

Do you agree with this quote - 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like?'

Q.   I do agree with that quote, but I'm having a bit of an issue. The one I love has told me [one moment] that he wants to marry me and maybe have a baby in our future. I was so excited to know that we had the same goals. We even discussed what ring he ...

A.   13 January 2011: You both want different things, you obviously want marriage and children but he doesnt. You seem to have already made up your mind, it just sounds like your afraid of letting go of him emotionally so your holding on to anything you can. As much as ... (read in full...)

WIsh he would grow some balls and stop acting like a kid!

Q.   Hi I am a woman in my late 30's with a b/f of the same age. I have a grown up child and he has never married or lived with anyone before so I guess I have lived a lot more than him with regard to previous relationships. We get on really well and ...

A.   13 January 2011: House trained? Sounds like you want him as a pet rather than a partner, some of us men will always have a bit of immaturity, it will never go away. Talk to him about it and if he really doesnt get the message, then try and treat him more like an a... (read in full...)

What's missing is a boyfriend.

Q.   Hi guys, Lately, I've been feeling really lonely and depressed. I live on my own, away from my parents, because I'm studying in a university that's far from my hometown. Even though my life's supposed to be great: I'm healthy, I have a nci ehous...

A.   13 January 2011: You sound like you want to meet someone, but your showing a negative attitude to those who are interested, it may be that others are seeing this negativity and will not even try. When you're out trying relaxing look more engaging, if you like the ... (read in full...)

I find hard to imagine only having sex with my boyfriend for the rest of my life.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, he was my first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. I love him and can see myself spending my life with him. For some time now I have been finding it hard to imagine only having sex with ...

A.   13 January 2011: I to once felt like this, but I thought about it too much and let my manhood take control rather than my heart and I lost the girl I loved. To this day I do regret doing so, if you can spend the rest of your life with one partner in such a way, you ... (read in full...)

I can only climax when I masturbate, would this take a long time for my boyfriend to learn?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have a good sex life. We do it at least twice a week. But recently, with curiosity, I started masturbating. All this time I've never really masturbated to a point where I would climax. It makes me realize that my boyfriend has ...

A.   16 August 2010: Think of it this way, you know what feels good, your boyfriend only knows what feels good because of what you tell him, try guiding his hand and/or show him how you do it yourself, this will help him greatly and you'd be surprised how intimate ... (read in full...)

My teacher would not let go of my hand in class today! What should I do?

Q.   Well when i was in drama today i was sitting down and we had to play a game. This game involved holding hands also. Anyway and my teacher came up to me and and put his hand out. i'm like ok this won't take long. so we walked around the room for ...

A.   16 August 2010: Talk to the principal/head teacher. Report the incident. It may not seem serious but if you requested the teacher to let go he shouldve done and the tight grip is a concern.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to love my brothers best friend?

Q.   Okay I'm 15 and my brother is 17 his best mate is 18. 3 year differance. My brother and him have always been best mates and I have always got along with him, we always mess about and joke on. I have felt that I have realy liked him for over a y...

A.   16 August 2010: It would seem that he does like you, but may feel slightly shy about it as he does not act the same way with you when your brother is around. The best thing to do is to try and see if you can talk to your brothers friend without your brother being ... (read in full...)

I want to be with her and the baby

Q.   My ex and I found out that we were pregnant a month ago, things have been pretty rough lately, maybe due to me, and last weekend she split up with me, now she had decided on abortion, but today she called me saying that she is now keeping the baby ...

A.   16 May 2010: Thanks for the advice but I just found out shes been doing stuff behind my back when we were together. So I cant see as I want anything to do with her now, I will still care for the baby, i will love her/him more than anything, i would gladly throw ... (read in full...)

I don't get turned on by girls but I want to get married some day in the future! What is going on with me?

Q.   Ok so im 13 and im soooo worried of being gay! I dont get attracted to girls only guys (i get crushes on girls but im sexually attracted to boys), and it doesnt help that i go to an all boys school, i really dont want to be gay (not that i have ...

A.   15 May 2010: To start, why do you feel you do not want to be gay? If you feel this way then you probably aren't. There is nothing wrong with being gay however and I'm not. But it can happen to some guys and girls to feel attracted to members of the same sex... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but he is not, can anyone give me any advice so I will be good in bed?

Q.   I will apologize in advance for the length of this but I really appreciate any advice. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for a while now and we have decided to take our relationship to the next level, we have decided to sleep with ea...

A.   15 May 2010: I hope what I say helps you out. The first time can be a magnificent thing especially with someone you love. Just take it slow, do not rush this, start off by going out for lunch or late dinner, then go back somewhere private, definitely a bedr... (read in full...)

I want to be with her and the baby

Q.   My ex and I found out that we were pregnant a month ago, things have been pretty rough lately, maybe due to me, and last weekend she split up with me, now she had decided on abortion, but today she called me saying that she is now keeping the baby ...

A.   15 May 2010: Thank you so much for the advice, I'm just going to do as much as I can for her and the baby especially when it's born. The help has been deeply appreciated thank you all.... (read in full...)

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