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writes:im going to a party at the weekend and the girl i like is going. it seems like she likes me as well as we both flirt and she starts it off. i think that we may kiss or snog at this party.the thing is i haven't kissed a girl properly in my life and i want to know afew things.where should i place my hands? face? waist? bum even? where?another thing how would i know she would want me to kiss her? thats if she does want me to.thanks everyone
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reader, Akir +, writes (25 May 2011):
First things first, if you really like this girl, don't do anything if she is drunk. She will more than likely just feel like you are taking advantage. There are some subtle signs but not always, jus.t relax at first, if she spends time looking into your eyes without saying anything or looks at your lips and bites hers slightly or is quite close to you and facing you then these are sometimes signs but not always. I would recommend somewhere you two can be alone but not a bedroom because she may think you just want sex, if it's a nice enough day or night then take her outside, sit next to her so your close enough to lean in for a kiss but not so close that your almost sitting on her lap, the key is you don't want to move too far for a first kiss. As for hands, it can depend on the woman or girl, either on their waist, hold one of get hands whilst you softly place another on the side or back of her head do not go grabbing her chest or bum. Another key point is to not eat her face off, just take it slowly and softly, this will hopefullyvmake it a better experience for both of you. And last but not least keep your eyes closed, it's rude to stare but once you have stopped make eye contact and hug or hold her. This is assuming its s passionate kiss, but it could be a quick "peck".
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 No sure thing here. Sometimes you just have to take a chance and hope for the best. Don't over do it by groping her all over.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (25 May 2011):
 lol... if you plan it, its going to be super awkward. Just read her body language, you'll be able to tell if she wants you. If she touches your arm or makes a lot of eye contact, just being very flirt then that's a good signal. If she's looking elsewhere when talking to you or when you're talking to her, or if she folds her arms and doesn't seem interested, then don't try anything otherwise you'll look like a tool.
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