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How honest is too honest?

Q.   Is it ever okay to tell "white" lies in relationships? How would you respond to these questions? Have you ever liked one of your female friends? Have you ever fantasized about being with another girl? Have you ever fantasized about someone el...

A.   31 August 2009: Most women know the truth to these questions. We ask these questions to reassure ourselves. And the answer is yes lie to these questions because it makes us feel good. We like to think that we are the one and only thing that you think ... (read in full...)

I need help with hair styles!

Q.   Hello =) My boyfriend suggested I do my hair the next time we go out since all I really do is have my hair straight, parted down the middle at all times mostly because that is all I know how to do! Does anybody have any suggestions with simple, sexy ...

A.   18 August 2009: Do a you tube search....I have done this several times for makeup tips and hair tips and came up with some very helpful material. It is easier to watch someone do it rather than just tell you. ... (read in full...)

Help me decipher my exhusband's motives!

Q.   Why does my ex husband text me then ignore me the next. He has a girlfriend and says he loves her, but meets me to talk. He told me the other day the have issues they might not be able to work out. He also told me not to text and he has my number if ...

A.   20 July 2009: i think he just likes to talk to you. He obviously still thinks of you as a friend. You are a good person for listening to him and being there, but I can see how this is confusing for you. However to me, it seems like he only wants you when he ... (read in full...)

Why is it that some girls cum white and others just like water?

Q.   sex question. why is some girls cum white and others just like water?...

A.   9 July 2009: Every woman is different. Here is website that can explain it better than I ever could. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm ... (read in full...)

What do I do about the whole extreme shyness thing?

Q.   There's this guy that I like. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. We've ...

A.   9 July 2009: OMG. This guy sounds just like my brother. My brother does this with girls, and even when he interested he just shuts them out. My brother didn't get his first girlfriend till he was 20, and that was only because the girl made the first move. So ... (read in full...)

Why can't I find love?

Q.   I am an average male, that is a hard worker and somewhat athletic but, I feel like I am being left out of a loving relationship? I have never kissed before, I have been depressed for the past week that I have not found love yet, but others can. Why ...

A.   9 July 2009: I felt that same way at the age. I didn't get my first kiss till a few weeks before I turned 18. I felt like I was missing out, but that same guy I got my first kiss from, I am still with him. We have been together for over six years now!! I was ... (read in full...)

How do I talk to my Mom about birth control when she doesn't want me having sex?

Q.   im 14 turning 15 in a couple months...i've had sex twice but my mom thinks i've done it once. she doesnt want me to continue having sex because she's afraid of me getting pregnant of an std but i want to keep doing it...im being safe i've used a ...

A.   9 July 2009: If your mom won't help you, then I would suggest you go through family planning. There are free clinic that work on donations. They will keep it completely confidential, and your mom won't know as long you don't leave your pills lying around. ... (read in full...)

I married but want to be with others

Q.   I have been married for almost three years. I do love my husband, but there has been many times when I find myself wanting to be with other people. Is that normal?...

A.   9 July 2009: My first question is Would you act on this feeling? If you would i would say you need to do a little soul searching and find out just what you are wanting. If you would never act on it, then I would say it is just a fantasy. I have been with the ... (read in full...)

What the hell is her ex trying to accomplish?

Q.   My girlfriends ex told her that he likes her. They were together maybe 2 months and nothing serious. We're together 7 now. He told her 2 weeks ago or so. Recently then, he was talking to her friend and said to her "i want to tell her again incase ...

A.   28 June 2009: It sounds to me like your girl likes to be wanted., and it seems like she is seeking him out at these partys to have multiple pic taken together. It is hard to blame her ex when you think she is initiating this behavior, and as you said confusing ... (read in full...)

I can't trust him but do I really want to start over?

Q.   My husband had sex with a women that we were couples friends with over 20 years ago. I did not know of the one night stand at the time. She would not go on with the affair. But my husband admits that he lusted for her for another 10 years. ...

A.   28 June 2009: If that happened I don't think trusting is an option it has already been tested and that test failed. However, i was always told that divorce is the easy road out and staying married is the real test. If you can still love him and he loves you, ... (read in full...)

Is it safe to do this with a prostitute?

Q.   MOD NOTE: Two questions from this person have been put into one post, as they are of a similar subject. I am wanting to experience a golden shower with a prostitute. Is this safe enough. Could I catch any diseases? Is oral sex safe with a prostit...

A.   6 June 2009: Anytime there are bodily fluids involved, this presents a potential risk of catching an illness from another person. This doesn't necessarily mean a disease. It can mean even something as ordinary as urinary tract infection. In the hospital ... (read in full...)

My hormones are controlling me and it's horrible. Help!

Q.   I know hormones are very normal for my age but I can't cope with them. I always get upset when I am on my period; I sometimes feel aggressive. I'm one of those people that don't start fights and probably wouldn't fight back, but recently I have been ...

A.   31 May 2009: I went through the same thing at your age and is absolutely natural. I ended up being pretty emotionally stable. Anyhow here is a website that breaks down what you are going through. http://www.menstruation.com.au/pubertyplace/changes.html ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...

Q.   I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...

A.   31 May 2009: It isn't anything to worry about. I was almost 15 when i first got my period, and my sister was 16 when she got hers. We are both very healthy and she has three children now!!!!... (read in full...)

Is there a relationship here?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about six almost seven years now. My problem is he has a job that requires him to be out of town for weeks at a time and then only gets 3 or 4 days home before he has to leave again. My problem is I don't know if I ...

A.   27 May 2009: The thing is about this job is that its a family business, so he can't just up and leave and its a new business so it requires to be gone longer to establish itself as a reputable business. I have asked him if he thinks that this job will always ... (read in full...)

Whats a good moisturizer to fix combination skin?

Q.   ok so i have combination skin. mild acne. my cheeks are really dry, and my nose, chin, forehead, and eyelinds are really oily. whats a good moisturizer to fix this? cuz it gets sooooo annoying! i want something that will moisturize my cheeks anough, ...

A.   16 May 2009: I have found that anti aging cream works really good for dry skin, it doesn't seem to be oily, and a little bit goes a long way, However it is usually a bit more expensive than regular moisturizer, and It doesn't seem to affect acne. I like Loreal ... (read in full...)

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