Role play issues
Q. When my partner and i 1st met we discussed role play. He then asked me to be his daughters school mate who called when he was alone. You can imagine then rest,i know he got the idea from a porn film but i find the whole thing find disturbing. ...
A. 24 August 2010: what is the actual question you want to ask exactly???
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My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 23 August 2010: No problem at all, best of luck! I am glad it helped a little.
You can always try to do a few things to spice up the sex life, perhaps buy a sexy outfit or new undies.. you know the drill! Only if you're comfortable of course. But sex isnt the only... (read in full...)
How can I meet mr right?
Q. hey, im so fed up latley i just cant meet the right boy. i know everyone says there is someone out there for them but how come i cant find mr right ?? every boy i go for just wants sex. im fed up of it and latley when i go out im stoping myself ...
A. 22 August 2010: You have to remember that certain guys will think a certain way about certain people. This is all very.. well.. certain. What kind of impression are you giving to these men who use you for sex? If youre looking for mister right, then thats fine. But ... (read in full...)
Had sex for the first time I need advice to make it better!
Q. Hey ! Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and we're both virgins. He really enjoyed it and i did aswell but it was kinda painful! is this normal? i didnt bleed and i heard thats what usually happens? , also i want to know ideas how...
A. 22 August 2010: As your guy was a virgin it is pretty normal that he ejaculated fairly quickly, because it is a whole new sensation to you both. But for girls, it isnt very enjoyable in physical terms. What makes it amazing is the fact that it is with someone you ... (read in full...)
Why do guys want to watch girls masterbate?
Q. Why do guys like to watch girls masterbate? I mean I don't really mind it,but it's a bit awkward to me. I'd rather you finger me then me finger myself. I wouldn't ask a guy to jerk off or something while I'm there when I know he'd rather me do it ...
A. 22 August 2010: Men are generally very visual. They like to look. Perhaps us girls are never supposed to truely understand it ourselves, but there is supposedly something very sexy about watching a girl touch herself, and bring herself pleasure and even make ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 22 August 2010: Ok, i would say NOT to hide and watch him behind his back. That's spying and it's pretty deceitful if you ask me. How would you feel if you caught him spying on you? But of course, that is your choice. Its possibly the easier option, but the sly ... (read in full...)
Total Babe in One-sided Open Marriage
Q. I am an average looking/height guy, though I make a good salary. I have been married about ten years. My wife is a beauty -- very attractive/sexy. She gets a lot of attention almost everywhere we go, even if she's only wearing sweats and a ...
A. 21 August 2010: So what you mean is that, youre wife is a cheat? A flirt? She sleeps with other men behind your back, says its only sex, you forgive her and then she does it again?
You say she gets hit on in front of you; what does she do? does she say, "sor... (read in full...)
Is 3 years later too late to report being raped?
Q. well, heres the thing when i was 14 i lost my virginity to rape. i kissed him first and willingly chose to be alone with him so i feel like i lead him on partially and am not entirely blameless in the situation. but then he did it to my friend. she ...
A. 18 August 2010: It is perfectly understandable that you feel this way, and always remember that you are not a bad person for keeping it to yourself.
But also remember that there are little steps you can take in finding out whether it might be worth it or not, befo... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 18 August 2010: It is hard to walk away, to think that you're not being there for someone. But whilst it's good that he's opened up to you somewhat, it doesnt mean things are going to change. Some people are just too dependant on others. They do what they do, ... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend without getting her into trouble?
Q. So, i felt it would be better to post this here, because i'm worried that if i ask any adults i know that they'll tell the cops or parents or whatever. Anyway, my really good friend is in a bit of trouble, i think. She used to be a really good gir...
A. 17 August 2010: There are a few things you can do in a situation like this, but you must always remember that at the end of the day, she is her own person and there is only so much you can do.
I have been in a similar situation. Eventually i decided to report it t... (read in full...)
Is 3 years later too late to report being raped?
Q. well, heres the thing when i was 14 i lost my virginity to rape. i kissed him first and willingly chose to be alone with him so i feel like i lead him on partially and am not entirely blameless in the situation. but then he did it to my friend. she ...
A. 16 August 2010: Hello. Firstly i am very sorry that you had to experience something so horrible. I have two very close friends that were both raped by different people and i can somewhat imagine how awful it must be.
Secondly, it IS still rape, regardless of you ... (read in full...)
When is it the right time to stop hiding our new relationship? And is it too soon to talk to my new boyfriend about moving away?
Q. Ok - i am writing cause i am unsure how to handle my thoughts about this situation. I had a boyfriend of 7 years - the last 2 were relatively dead and we broke up about 4 months ago now. Amoungst many reasons we broke up - one of the main ones wa...
A. 16 August 2010: It is perfectly understandable that you would want to save your ex from anymore heartbreak. However, the bottom line is that you have moved on and are dating someone else. I dont think anyone can truely tell you when the right time will be to tell ... (read in full...)
Suspicious that my girlfriend may be seeing another guy.
Q. To start off, me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 4 years. The last year was long distance since she had moved to a different state over a year ago. This lasted until she broke up with me several months ago. Well since that time we ...
A. 16 August 2010: I completely agree with the first answer. Paranoia can drive people mad. Not that you are being paranoid, but the fact that you are questioning things, i mean.
Eventually, if you dont get this off your chest and get some answers, you will pro... (read in full...)
I still think about him, why?
Q. So I been dating this guy, we had a 6 month relationship and during the relationship, I broke up with him about 2 or 3 times because I didn't know what I was doing, and our relationship was long-distant, and I didn't want him to grow tired of me, so ...
A. 16 August 2010: The question is a bit confusing but i will try to answer it the best way i can..
So you dated a guy in a long distance relationship for a year or so in total, but you cheated on him and therefore broke things off. Right? Well im sure i dont nee... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 16 August 2010: unfortuntely, everybody has baggage. some people more than others. what you have to remember though is that this isnt YOUR baggage. im sure you have your own things to deal with.
whilst a partner should be there as somebody to talk to, and some... (read in full...)
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