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25 June 2007: We always want someone to blame, someone to be held accountable for things in our lives. We rarly take responsibility for our own actions. We turn to the gods, karma and evil out of our control to take responsibility for things we or others have ...
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Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?
Q. honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...
A. 2 March 2008: my advice would be try and let your head make your decisions, not your horomones or heart. expect negative opinions about this relationship but dont dismiss them, take on board what people are saying even if you dont think there right. most impo... (read in full...)
Would you take an ex back a second time, after they left you for the same person twice?
Q. Would you take an ex back? If he left you after 6 years together and went off with someone else. A year later his relationship ended, he went back to you for a couple of weeks, then went back with the girl he went off with in the first place. A...
A. 2 March 2008: simply NO! he clearly doesnt respect you. and if he doesnt do it again with the same girl, im sure he'l do it with another eventually! its hard to say no sometimes, but in the long run, i believe you'll be saving yourself alot of heart ache if your ... (read in full...)
Do I risk my childrens' sake by returning to my abusive ex whom I still love?
Q. Last october i got out of a 8yr relationship 18months of it i was married....my husband was violent towards me...he could be the most wounderful man and also be very nasty...i walked out in last year not looking back...i have managed to set up my ...
A. 2 March 2008: In my view as soon as you have children you should always put their needs first. being in an abusive relationship is not good for your childrens emotional wellbeing, and may teach them the sort of behaviour you really dont want them to learn. Of cou... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: if your girlfriend is happy with it, if your f**k buddy is ok with it, then fair enough. don't end up hurting people and ruining your relationship over something so meaningless. get some porn mate!... (read in full...)
So I'm not jealous about porn, looking at other females or anything.. is anyone else out there like that??
Q. I see that probably about 90% of females are really bothered by porn and I kind of get it but at the same time I don't. I know some of my friends are this way but is anyone else out there not bothered by it? or bothered by anything for tha...
A. 3 August 2007: i dont have any issues with my boyfriend using porn either, although i have no interest in it my self.
i think the reason most women dont like their men using it is because they feel pressure to "perform" to the porn star standards or that thei... (read in full...)
What do I do next?
Q. there is a girl in school.we made frequent eye contact but i never talk to her.recently she and her friends noticed that i like her.when we make eye contact i donot smile at nor gaze for longer time.when we meet in a cafe,road ,library i usually ...
A. 3 August 2007: say hello next time you see her and try to start up a conversation. ask her a question in the library. you'll soon know whether or not your wasting your time from the way she reacts when you talk to her. smile at her next time you catch her eye, ... (read in full...)
She's getting married but she has feelings for me!
Q. This girl I really like initiated some dates with me about two months ago. I wasn't sure at first how I felt about her in that way. I'd known her for about three months before that and we'd gotten on alright. However, over the past six weeks I've ...
A. 25 June 2007: sounds to me like she's going to mess you around if you let her. if she changes her mind again don't bother or you'll just get your heart broken. get out before you get to deep.... (read in full...)
Any tips to pleasure my man with boobs!!
Q. what is the best way to..ahem..pleasure my boyfriend with my breasts. i'm a 30DD,,,want to know positions, tips etc. thanks (dont give me any weird links, dont trust these random sites)...
A. 13 April 2007: the best person to ask is him! experiement with him and find out what HE likes... (read in full...)
How do you know when your in love with someone? What are the signs etc?
Q. Hi i think i'm in love with my best friend, we are really really close, my question is really how do you know when your in love with someone, what are the signs etc. I know i'm only 16 but when u've been friends with the lad virtually all your life ...
A. 27 March 2007: you can fall in love at any age. i fell in love at 15 and and have just got engaged to that same man, know people who been together since they wer 13 and are now celebrating there 12th wedding aniversary so don't believe it cant happen but be aware ... (read in full...)
My ex bf gives me nasty looks and I don't know why he's doing that! Any advice?
Q. Whenever I see my ex, he either gives me weird, nasty looks or whispers to his mates about me. I dont understand why he is doing it, we split up nearly 2 years ago because he left me for someone else, so it should be me that has a problem with ...
A. 27 March 2007: it sounds like he's jealous and he's trying to be the big man around his mates by putting you down, possibly because he feels stupid because he regrets leaving you. men often take it hard when an X goes with a friend, he's proberbly feeling hurt. no ... (read in full...)
My gf left me because 'we don't talk enough!' Is there any way i can win her back?
Q. my girlfriend just left me because she said we dont talk enough. I dont think that is the real reason and i still love her so much. Is there any way i can win her back?...
A. 27 March 2007: if its just an excuse thers another reason she doesnt want2 b with you and is just trying to save your feelings. if shes being honest make an effort to call her, just for a chat. make an effort to be a friend as well as a boyfriend im sure she'll ... (read in full...)
We talk well in person but not so great online! This upsets me..what can I do?
Q. Hmm, i think i might just be paranoid but what do i do? My boyfriend of 2 n alf months doesnt text me half as much anymore, and he never really talks on msn, Hes ok on the fone and in person but its just on msn and through texts etc. When we do talk ...
A. 27 March 2007: the fact that he doesnt txt that much or chat on msn may just be because he prefers to communicate with you on a more personal level, i doubt thats really to much of a problem as long as he's communicating with you in person. you should tell him ... (read in full...)
He has a laptop so I can't check and see what he does online! What should I do?
Q. my b/f has a lap top so therefore i dont really see what he does on it because he may leave it at home or at work etc etc..but i get curious as to if he goes to porn sites or looking up pictures of pretty women or if he is e-mailing someone he ...
A. 27 March 2007: so clearly you dont trust your boyfriend, have you any reason to think he's email and X? why does it concern you that he may be looking at porn? u'l find most men do. its your personal insercurities that r the poblem ther, not what he's viewing on ... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 12 March 2007: does that even matter? if your being judged on the size of your penis your spending time with the wrong people. if the size of your penis really makes you feel insure you should look at the variety of creams pills and machines that can help enlarge ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with life. Please help
Q. Hi there. I need help on how to get through what I'm going through. My wife-to-be is leaving me and I just can't seem to get on with work or life. Please help...
A. 12 March 2007: If she doesn't want to be with you, you need to accept that. its very hard but time truely is a great healer. sooner or later you will find someone who loves you in the same way you love them. if you convinced her to stay with you what sort of ... (read in full...)
My insecurities are affecting my marriage! What can I do?
Q. I am very insucure and it is affecting my marriage. it has affected us so much that he sleeps in our sons room now how can i get this under control and get the trust back? i am so afraid that i am going to lose him that i end up pushing him away ...
A. 12 March 2007: you need to just put yourself out there. you'll feel scared and vunerable but you just have to let go. if he's really the right 1 for you, it'll be worth it. explain to him how you feel and more importantly try to explain why. Its very fustrating ... (read in full...)
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