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writes:Would you take an ex back?If he left you after 6 years together and went off with someone else. A year later his relationship ended, he went back to you for a couple of weeks, then went back with the girl he went off with in the first place. A few months later that didn't work out again and he wanted back to you again.Could you do that and accept him back a second time?Curious on peoples opinions here... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I'm not actually the one he was with 6 yrs. I'm the other one that has turfed him out. Was just wondering why his ex would take him back after he messed her about twice. I certainly wont be giving him another chance, for various reasons. I just find peoples minds fascinating and wonder why people do the things they do. I guess i worded the question wrong.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (2 March 2008):
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he sees you as his "B" plan. Someone he can go back to when the fun dries up.
If you want to be that girl , fine, but if you have an ounce of self respect left you will tell him to take a hike.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): When I went through a similar situation, my first instinct was to jump back to him, thinking that he finally understood I was the best for him. After living through an experience like yours, I wholeheartedly advise you to not take him back. Also, if you are considering this relationship, obviously he means something to you, so I would avoid him. Good luck
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reader, LouLee +, writes (2 March 2008):
 dont take him back, it seems he wants more but will settle for you.
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reader, a shoulder to cry on +, writes (2 March 2008):
simply NO! he clearly doesnt respect you. and if he doesnt do it again with the same girl, im sure he'l do it with another eventually!its hard to say no sometimes, but in the long run, i believe you'll be saving yourself alot of heart ache if your strong enough to tell him where to get off!
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Your his mat on the door step, and you are letting him walk all over you. You are convenience now because you are letting him do this to you....LET HIM GO!
You know the song "Gold" by Beverly Knight? Listen to it..over and over and over! His loss beieve me, not your's!
Good Luck to you!!
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