I don't want to invest in something that will hurt me, or waste both of our time. HELP!
Q. I met a guy through some mutual friends. He in only in the city right now for work, for a couple of months, however it was an instant connection, and he asked me out on a date. We have gone on multiple dates now, and have spent a lot of time ...
A. 20 April 2020: If you dont want to invest then DONT lol trust ur intuition - 9/10 youre rite!... (read in full...)
The first guy I loved is moving to another continent
Q. Hey guys. So, something has happened that has me so sad. I met this guy back in 2016, and I haven’t seen him for over a year. The last time we saw each other we had a fight and he unfollowed me on Instagram and I deleted him from Facebook. Haven’t ...
A. 20 April 2020: Either you REAAAAALLY messed up or he didnt really love you im sorry to say. If a guy really loves a girl, he wouldnt up and leave to another part of the world cos that would give another guy an opportunity to shoot their shot. And thats something ... (read in full...)
There's less passion with this relationship and I am wondering what that means
Q. I'm seeing a girl now for the last few months on/off. We met on a dating app and went out a handful of times before I got injured and wasn't able to drive for about 2-3 months. We kept in contact and now things are getting more serious now that I ...
A. 20 April 2020: Girls not into you or your not into her and she can feel it... (read in full...)
How can I survive my toxic relationship with my mother in law and her sister?
Q. My boyfriend's family and this situation has got me drained mentally plus giving me severe anxiety and depression. My mother in law and her sister who I live inside the same residence with, hate me. I live on the second floor apartment. Everyone ...
A. 20 April 2020: Ditch the 2 hippos - they sound negative and draining as hell... (read in full...)
My other half gets angry in his sleep
Q. My other half gets angry in his sleep. He will turn to me, shout and swear. It happens around the time he feels anxious and he has a loss of libido. He cant pin point why he's anxious though. He's suffered from depression in the past a...
A. 20 April 2020: Ive got an idea!!??!! .... how about u dump him and move onto someone more deserving.
He sounds like a headache. My man is the same. Ill wake up and he'll be side punching and elbowing me but doing it in a way that he can get away w saying t... (read in full...)
I need help in moving on, and it’s hard because I’m living alone!
Q. Hi y'all, I am 22 yo, and i lived with my bf (23yo) for 5 months and then 1 month long distance cz of studies.. we loved each other and we always were together hanging out and all.. Lately, he just stopped trying as he was doing before, he used ...
A. 20 April 2020: Oh no no no... you need support darls! Join a church if you dont want a bar of your biological family. You need a tight knit group, like at least 2 or 3 best friends that u can call on whenever you need. These people need to be the type that will ... (read in full...)
Do I reach out to my deceased husband's brother?
Q. My husband died two years ago from cancer. He had an older brother who he stopped talking to for at least fifteen years (we were married for fifteen years and he refused to talk to him). I have no idea what happened between them two, except my ...
A. 20 April 2020: If you have good intentions and you want to connect w your BIL w a pure heart - go for it!... (read in full...)
Does everyone "settle" or do they really believe they've found "the one"?
Q. Hi there, this might sound like quite a broad question but I'm interested to know people's thoughts. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and we're planning on moving in together this year. We've lived together on and off over ...
A. 20 April 2020: I've settled w my man. We have a strong connection but hes not the one. One of the factors that keep us together is that the good outweighs the bad. When it's good, it's awesome but when it's bad, it's toxic. Another major component is that he never ... (read in full...)
My mom is an attention whore on the beach and it botherd me!
Q. My mom likes to wear skimpy bikinis to the beach! Ok so this has been going on my whole life but now that I'm beginning to mature it's starting to matter to me. My mom wear's the smallest bikinis in the world it seems even when we are going as a f...
A. 24 February 2015: Hey cindy:) I'm anonymous. I couldn't log in at first but felt so compelled to post advice that my impatience got the better of me. I am too a mother of 2 and I also receive attention but I don't place and value on that like I do respect. Some ... (read in full...)
Do women really regret their sexual past?
Q. This question goes out to the ladies and girls out there. Do you regret your sexual past especially when you've only dated losers then finally one day meet the man of your dreams and you wished he was your first or that you had met him in the past?...
A. 24 February 2015: If I had dated and slept with a string of losers and then found the one, I would obviously rather that I had met him before wasting my time on everyone else..... (read in full...)
Does the volume of semen a man ejaculates matter to a woman?
Q. I was talking with a female friend of mine and she called herself a "slug girl." I asked her what she meant by that and she said she she gets very wet when she gets turned on. She was quite embarrassed to admit that. However, I think most men thin...
A. 24 February 2015: I personally wouldn't mind either way. What does matter to me is whether he finishes or not. I would rather a job finished with little to show, than nothing at all.... (read in full...)
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