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writes: der is dis 14yr old gurl i fancy. she goes to my skul. im 16. usually at lunch everyone leaves skul. on day bk i usually go past her. today i got da courage to make eye contact and smile. she smiled first. i den luked away as i went past. im jus too shy to do anything more! jus in case she doesnt respond happily! i only met wid her on my mates bday for 3hours. i want her numba but its too hard. i can ask her but i want her to give it to me wid no regrets! i dnt want it if she isnt happy! any ideas?
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reader, ***la belle vida***  +, writes (1 November 2006):
 talk to her about something,anything! simple things like saying hi the next time you walk past her. Or find something you have in common like going for a cig (not condoning smoking just its something a lot of people do especially at school if you don't doesn't matter), areas where you hang out, clubs, study groups or the library..anything! or see where she has lessons and hang around outside when the bell goes
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): talk to her, everyone is shy it is the because most people have a fear of rejection. but unless you ask you will never know. go for it, good luck :)
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reader, Alexandra +, writes (1 November 2006):
If you don't take a risk, you will not know. As simple as that. The worse thing that can happen is, she might not be interested, and disapointment is part of life. Go ahead and say hello next time. Honesty is our biggest tool. What do you honestly want to do. Ask her out on a date: coffee, movie, thater, walk in the park? Who knows what you like! Just breathe and gather a little of courage to aproach her. If it doesn't work out, view it as practice, it will work at some point with her or someone else, but you have to do it. People do not read minds!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 Step on her foot and apologise then start to ask her about wher she gets the school bus cos she looks familiar to you, ask her if she's sb's friend/family as you know him/her investigate a bit and gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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