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i know i havent been on this planet that long (20 years to be precise) but i have had a lot of experiences in life good and bad more than most people of my age. im not saying i hold the answer to everything i just think its good to hear a variety of opinions from a wide range of people from different backgrounds and i hope my opinions help, even if they dont its still good to see what other people have to say well thats what this site is all about aint it =D

How and when should I tell my best friend that I am in love with her?

Q.   I am in love with my best friend but I don'tknow how to tell her. We are going to see a movie tomorrow and I was wondering if I should tell her then. If I should tell her what should I say. Should I ask if she would like to be my girlfriend. But ...

A.   19 May 2007: well this is a tough one..... i dont mean to sound cheesy here but you either have to follow your head or your heart, lets just say you do tell her and she freaks out that means youve lost a good friend. try and think of it this way would you ... (read in full...)

I think this guy is just using my friend for sex and people are laughing at her! How do I break this to her?

Q.   ok everyone i need some advice my friend is...or should i say was having a casual relationship with this guy since last year they didnt see each other all the time but she was definetly ok with that but now he doesnt want to see her anymore unless ...

A.   19 May 2007: thank you for all the help guys she has now realised what was goin on i just let her figure it out for herself but now the same things happening to her with other guys i think she just doesnt get the fact that they are letting her think it is a ... (read in full...)

She told a friend she likes me and knows I like her so why does she just want to be friends??

Q.   How do i win the affections of a young lady, that i have known for a while? Last year we flirted, and got really close, she has even told a mutual friend that she likes me, a lot.Yet she says that she only wants to be friends. I have strong feelings ...

A.   19 May 2007: well you know what to do now........ go n find someone else, someone who deserves a nice guy like you =D... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me back or am i just annoying him?

Q.   Hi, Theres this guy i really like but his really shy and it takes a while to get him talking but once he does its ok but i dont c him much and everytime i do c him again its like his too shy to talk to me all over again! He did once invite me to ca...

A.   10 December 2006: He sooooo obviously likes you!!! maybe he is just unsure if u like him or not why dont u ask him to do something fun like ten pin bowling or the cinema and invite a group of friends so there wont be any awkward silences and soon enough he'll find it ... (read in full...)

It never seemed such a big thing when I was younger but now I worry if I will ever get married!

Q.   i am already 35 years old and never been married. before it was simply ok for me to be with a man without getting married. but now in my age im desperately hoping for getting married thinking that at least before i get old or before i die, i will ...

A.   18 October 2006: i wouldnt worry i know lots of people who never got married till later on in life...but does it really matter about a silly peice of paper if your with someone you love then your 200 times luckier than all those people who are stuck in a marriage ... (read in full...)

I like this older girl but her friend is setting her up with another guy. I have no chance, do I?

Q.   hi basicly i like a 15 year old girl and im 13. im not particulary good lookin and iv never had a gf before. i was trying to get to know her better but have just recently found out that her friend is trying to set her up with someone that she like...

A.   18 October 2006: well the thing is your never gonna get a gf if you keep puttin yourself down like that i bet your a little stunner :) and secondly your 13 forget about getting a gf for a few years go out n muck about play football, smash windows you can worry about ... (read in full...)

Ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner?

Q.   ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner? ...

A.   18 October 2006: either way is good for me but its better doing it alone.... i prefer gettin down to the real thing with a male partner... (read in full...)

My boyfriends dad keeps flirting with me!!!

Q.   Im a 19 year old girl, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, basically the problem is that his father(53) flirts with me, well i think he does. The only problem is that my boyfriend always suggests that im the one leading his dad on and ...

A.   17 October 2006: joking or not this guys a creep and hes making you feel uncomfortable i think the next time he does something you dont like no matter whos there you should make it known (as loud as you can) that you dont feel comfortable with his behaviour towards ... (read in full...)

She told a friend she likes me and knows I like her so why does she just want to be friends??

Q.   How do i win the affections of a young lady, that i have known for a while? Last year we flirted, and got really close, she has even told a mutual friend that she likes me, a lot.Yet she says that she only wants to be friends. I have strong feelings ...

A.   17 October 2006: cool it down for a while and then see how she reacts...why not invite her out along with you and a group of friends to do something fun play it cool and try and read the situation dont get too heavy or you'll scare her off....if its definetly just ... (read in full...)

I want another baby, but now my husband says no to that! What should I do?

Q.   My husband and I have been happily married for 10 years. our daughter is 3 and we always talked about having other children, but now my husband is adamant that he does not want another. I am gutted, but love my husband and daughter too much to ...

A.   17 October 2006: you say youve been happilly married for 10 years and you have a beautiful daughter so why the need to change things this might just cause more upset and grief. and if you left you might realise you had just what you wanted and even if he took you ... (read in full...)

Update on falling for my best friend's gf! She's coming on to me..what should I do now?

Q.   Hello, update i asked a quetion about me falling in love with my best friends girlfriend and that it looked like they were never going 2 split up. Well know she is telling me that she thinks he's boring and all they do is argue, she is seriously ...

A.   17 October 2006: just say no!!!!...shes obviously trouble if she can do that to your friend she'll do the same to you. you should be backing your friend up over this poisinous bitch!!! the next thing you need to think about is the steps you can take to letting your ... (read in full...)

What do I say to the boy that pulled down my skirt at school??

Q.   today someone pulled down my school skirt at school and it came right down to my calves so all my thong was showing! i don't no wot to do or say 2 the boy who done it help me !...

A.   17 October 2006: dont be a grass and tell on him just get your own back every body post your ideas for the most embarrasing prank you can think of to teach this little ****er a lesson!!!! make him regret the day he tried to take the mickey out of you!!!!!... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how I feel and get it out in the open??

Q.   okay, so i wrote a question a couple of days ago about what to do about this guy i really liked, n i got some good advice.but now im wondering whether i should just tell him my feelings, because no matter what else i do i just cant get over him.its ...

A.   17 October 2006: go on just tell him, if your so sure he doesnt feel the same whats there to lose? actually u might be surprised he might just be hiding some secret feelings for you, and if he isnt then ..who cares?? at least youll have got it off your chest, theres ... (read in full...)

I want some tips on making our sex life more enjoyable!!

Q.   Hiya! im wonderin if anyone can help me (again) im in a long term relationship and my bf and i have had some problems which are now sorted thankfully but i want to make our sex life more enjoyable i dont think handcuffs, whips or blindfolds are for ...

A.   17 October 2006: i think a good idea is trying to do it in new places like outside but make sure you dont get caught lol!!! or maybe a threesome and if your not into that then just try out some new positions. there are some great websites out there with tons of tips ... (read in full...)

How much does a virgin actually bleed after sex ??

Q.   Hi, I have a question: How much does a girl bleed after having sex? Ok i know some do and some don't and the amount varies but I want to know is it a lot? Am I gonna have to run out of the room and get something afterwards? What is it in compar...

A.   17 October 2006: as you said your self the amount varies so u cant be sure, some people dont bleed at all because they have already broken ther *hymen* it can happen playing sports, inserting a tampon, masturbating or getting fingered theres a whole lot of reasons ... (read in full...)

I'm 21-she's 13. I fallen in love with her and I think she likes me. She's self-harming to get my attention! What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I’m a 21 year old lad who has fallen deeply in love with a 13 year old girl! I asked for advice on here a couple of months ago, read what people said and tried it but with no success and now the situation has got worse! Some people sa...

A.   17 October 2006: there are laws against that sort of thing. people like you should be hung drawn and quartered at the very least, you say you both go to the same places thats a bit seedy seing as your a 21 year old man!! and she is 13 go and get friends your own ... (read in full...)

Shes says there is no spark!!???

Q.   hi everyone what does it mean when a girl g/f says theres no spark...

A.   17 October 2006: it just means you are not best suited to each other and there would be no point in pursuing a relationship when theres no spark, just get out there and find a girl with similar intrests and just put this down to experience. even a stormy ... (read in full...)

She gave birth four years ago and we haven't made love since! My confidence is pretty flat so what should I do?

Q.   I've been in a relationship with my partner for six years. We've never had an overly exciting love-life, and my partner was a virgin when we met. four years ago we had our son, and since then we have never made love. There's been what I'd call a ...

A.   17 October 2006: i think your getting it all wrong here, shes the one who feels unattractive and has lost her confidence. make her feel beautiful do something special for her instead of just trying to initiate sex. bringing up children is exhausting and shes ... (read in full...)

My gf self-harms and I am very concerned! How can I help her?

Q.   Subject - Grave concerns over self harming girlfriend I and my girlfriend are teens and have been together for several months and love each other very much. Everything is working well in the relationships exept that over the time we have been tog...

A.   17 October 2006: the best thing you can do is encourage her to speak to a doctor because without professional help she cant overcome this i know this for a fact because i was a self harmer and have also attempted suicide a couple of times myself i suffer from ... (read in full...)

Met a girl, one year younger than me and I like her. Is it wrong to like because she's younger?

Q.   i went to my mates birthday. i met this really nice girl. i've just turned 16 last month. she is turning 15 next month. she is really pretty. we met first time and she was so sweet. she chose my food for me, she talked to me the whole time, she sat ...

A.   17 October 2006: i think if you like this girl you should start with asking her out to the bowling or cinema or something like that get to know her better and see how it goes from there, a one year age difference isnt bad at all it doesnt make you a perv. but ... (read in full...)

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