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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Male virgin and now in my 20s. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 May 2016 (M) - I'm am writing to get advice and opinions about my virginity and lack of relationship experience. I'm a male who has never had sex or a girlfriend. The reason for this a rather personal and complex.I have always had trouble making friends and rela...

My husband made a joke about me taking our mutual friend's virginity for his birthday. Should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my husband are both in our early 30's and have been married for 10 years. We have a mutual friend who is about the same age as us both and is still a virgin. Recently my husband made a joke about me taking his virginity for hi...

Why do people want strippers at celebration parties just before they marry?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - Hi this is a weird question because its a hypothetical. I think its very strange that before two people get married they are encouraged to have strippers at their bachelor/ bachelorette parties. I've never been to a strip club even though it w...

Uncles who lost your virginity at a later stage, how did you do it? Aunts what will really help me lose my virginity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

21 May 2016 (M) - How do you shake off being a virgin? While I have kissed a couple girls and have been sexual with some, I feel down on myself for not having had intercourse. I've read articles on this site, other sites about not feeling bad about it but it ...

Did he or did he not? I am 16, why did my BF lie about losing his virginity and then change his story?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend who I met at a concert for a month. We are both sixteen. We hadn't discussed sex at all until now. I was curious to know if he had sex before, but I wasn't bold enough to ask outright. So when we were finally talking ...

Do I lose my virginity to the next girl that comes along or wait for someone I like? Should I pay for it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

18 May 2016 (M) - Do I lose my virginity to the next girl that comes along or wait for someone I like? Should I pay for it? It makes me feel really bad about myself. I have a lot going on but the fact I've never had intercourse alone makes me feel like less of a ...

My bf thinks I'm scared of sex because I'm still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - But the truth is...I am nervous about doing it with a real person. But I've also been using sex toys for over a year now. And some are bigger or the same size as my bf (I gave him handjobs so I know his size). To me the toys are really private so I ...

Is this liason weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - I'm 25 and he's 30. We've been dating 5 weeks and are exclusive. I posted earlier about him inviting me to LA with him on business trip (in a month). We plan to go sightseeing together for a few days. Our connection is amazing and we talk about ...

I love him but he doesn't speak English well and the sex is disappointing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

7 May 2016 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, I'm having a difficult time at the moment. I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now - he's so nice, truly loves me and never does me wrong. He's honestly a gentleman and I do love him. However, we don't even speak the sam...

How soon is too soon to go on a trip together? I'm a virgin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

3 May 2016 (F) - I've been seeing someone for 3 weeks, seven dates, and we speak daily. Our connection is amazing and we share everything. However one subject we haven't mentioned is sex. I went to his place once and we didn't do anything physical except kiss. Just ...

If you've already had sex, then which do you think is better - Affection or Sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) - I don't think I want to have sex. I thought I did and I was getting ready to lose my v card soon. But every time I think about sex...I'd say ninety percent of the reason I'd have it is because the guy wants it. I know it sounds stereotypical bu...

Is it wrong to screen out women as potential partners due to their past sexual history and how many partners they have had?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

1 May 2016 (M) - I spent a lot of my teens having low self-esteem and have very little dating experience. I had a girlfriend in high school. Still a virgin even though I have done everything else. I used a lot of that time to make sure I have an amazing future and ...