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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Cheater?? Just your first instinct, not full evaluation!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Ok... Just be straight... Being paranoid, or boyfriend totally cheating on me?? He has a friend contact, saved on his phone as "Wifey S" when questioned, said nothing to worry about, just a female friend.... what are your first thought... backgrou...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2500 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

Should I ask him if he's ever had sex with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - Hi guys! Quick question.. I've been having a sexual relationship with a man for almost a year. We used to work together but we now both moved on to other jobs right after the first time we had sex. So here's the thing- Right before we had se...

Girl I don't want to go out with is messing with the girl I like!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

12 January 2018 (M) - Hi, I think that I need some advice on a confusing matter. I have a friend, who I've known for a few years now. I've fallen for her as, so far, she is the only person who I ever thought liked me, and I liked her back. Everything seemed to go smo...

My boyfriend is travelling with another woman and told me not to call him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

11 January 2018 (F) - My bf told me to stop texting him for 2 weeks. I am on my 8 days of no contact it's really hard specially I am seeing him online all the time. We've been together for 7 years. But recently for the past 2 years we do not see each other in person due ...

Help me find a way to choose

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - I don’t know whom I love, both men have an effect on me and both are way too complicated. I really would love your insight so don’t read and run ?? I’m 30 years old woman, I am at this very moment torn between the love of my life and a man I bare...

I want to ensure my well being through this process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Seeing this guy who is older than I am. Very casual and open at first. It's been about three or four months and we both are kind of surprised we are still seeing each other, and that the relationship is progressing. I stay over a lot, we have the ...

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

I feel too shamed to talk to my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a lot but I need to get it off my chest as its too shameful to tell my family and friends. I met an ex vet on Instagram. We fell in love through each others art. He lives in the US and I live in the UK. There is a 20 year age gap betw...

I caught my partner out in a lie, what is he hiding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I have a partner, we do not live together but have been together for 5 years, we are what I call companions, i stay at his and he stays at mine, we also like time alone. He has female friends not a problem but this one friend he told me was ill, he ...

My best friend and the boy she knows I like ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - Hi,I really need help with this one... Okay so I suppose this issue started about 2 years ago, when I first this friend of mine, over time our friendship developed and he was someone I felt comfortable with. Then at the start of this year, I stupid...

I feel like the third wheel around my boyfriend and my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Hey all, I'm just looking for some advice on how to get a grip of my jealously and paranoia. My boyfriend and I have been official for two months now, when we started to date each other over the summer and at the beginning of our relationship we ...

He ended it after 15 years and I can't move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - hi my name is carol and upto 3 years ago i was havein an afair it lasted 15years but one day he said he couldet see me any more but never realy said why i was deversteted and still am thort after all them years i desevred better i still miss him and ...

I think he's cheating and we had unprotected sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I posted a question few weeks ago about this guy that I’m seeing, a 46 years old physician divorced with no kids. From the beginning I made my dating rules clear and told him that I don’t want to have any physical contact or intimacy if he is seeing ...

He's got a girlfriend, should I wait and see if it works out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Over 3 years ago, I met a guy in college who I began dating. We were both about 20. He is great and is a total sweetheart. We met and began dating in the summer 3 years ago. After our first date, he would always text and call, but was a little slow ...

Did my husband realise that he was wrong or was the grass not really greener on the other side?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I've been married for 8 years and a month or so ago my husband started hiding his phone and staying out all night until the morning. On top of that he was treating me very poorly. I knew there was another girl in the picture. I saw text messages but ...

My ex still loves me but I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

1 January 2018 (?) - I suddenly met my ex in a wedding a month ago. He still loves me the same and love me though he know I'm in a new relationship. He always treated me a way far better than my present one. I don't want to hurt anyone. But I'm stuckedin between two. ...