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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Pregnant not in love with my husband should I live like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

31 January 2020 (F) - I am 34 years old... I have a husband and daughter.. Another child is due 3 months from now... In all honesty I don't love my husband but I have decided to stick with him for the sake of my children. I had an affair for 2 years with someone else ...

My husband says he's too special for me and too special to go to counselling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - Hi and thank you I have been married almost 10 years. First 5 were good then it started going downhill, especially this last year. My husband can be very mean to me. Calls me stupid, idiot, dumb, b****, bast***. I think he calls me a ...

No matter how much of an effort I put in, my husband looks at me like I'm am old dish rag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

28 January 2020 (F) - I feel my husband is not attracted to me . He shows very little interest in me . I could walk around naked or in lingerie and he wouldn’t bat an eyelid but with other younger women who he clearly finds attractive he definitely pays attention . If we ...

I had an affair and my parents want me to return to my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - Im guilty of having affair with another man while im still married. My marriage was a wrong choice from the beginning. There is so much red flags that i ignored because of my low self esteem. Im told i cant have better relationship with other man ...

My wife will not take a bath.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1802 days ago

12 January 2020 (M) - wife will not take a bath it has been a month now,I have said in past, time to take a bath, she says leave me alone. I am tired of it, no sex cause of this, she smells leave the room and the sink stays, what to do other then leave....

I feel lost and miserable around my long term partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

11 January 2020 (M) - Ive been trying to make my relationship work for many years and Im tired. I lack the motivation and positive outlook for our future anymore. I am not depressed but my partner has been for many years, up and down, but the last 3-4 years half been ...

My motivations and decisions are based on my ex wife somehow.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1809 days ago

8 January 2020 (M) - Hi, Seeking advice on the following issue ; Having trouble actually letting go of my ex wife. Let me explain further - 14 months ago I found out my ex wife was being disloyal, I found messages of a sexual nature on her accounts as I had susp...

Is my wife developing a violent streak?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

6 January 2020 (M) - My wife threw a glass at my head during a petty argument. I’ve never known her to have a violent streak in her before. Should I be worried? On Saturday I was stripping the kitchen ceiling ready for it to be redecorated in a few weeks and when m...

My family knows of my affair and my lover has distanced herself but I don't think I can return to my sexless marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

5 January 2020 (M) - I'm in my 40s. Been with my partner for 20 years and married for 17. We have a 15 year old daughter. My wife hasn't wanted a physical relationship with me for a long time. It's been around 10 years since we had sex. She has made comments in the ...

My husband acted like he didn't care, so I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

4 January 2020 (F) - I am hurting deeply. My husband of 6 years has a barber and beauty salon on the same compound of his mother's home. I work 12pm-9pm and my parents helps with our three children. My husband usually leaves his place of work at a reasonable time to go ...

I have never put myself first and I'm at a time in life where I'm exhausted

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

3 January 2020 (F) - Is my tactics going to work? I want to stop doing the chores and paying the bills, cooking, feeding the cat, cleaning his litter… because I’m the only one doing that. My husband is lazy and he doesn’t even see it because he’s ADHD and does ONLY wha...