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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2019 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be suspicious that my LDR girlfriend hasn't told anyone about us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

13 May 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - I've officially been with my LDR girlfriend for six months now, I'm in the UK and she's in the US. I've been open about our relationship from the beginning but my girlfriend on the other hand hasn't told anyone, other than one of her friends. At first it didn't bother me - a ... (329 words)

Did I lose a friend? I'm feeling sad and hurt

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

13 May 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is long, but I hope someone takes the time, I really need some advise. I am a 48 year old single mom. I work a lot and don’t have much of a social life, but I do have a few good friends and I get out when I can. Since one of my children is an adult and the other is ... (1439 words)

How do I calm down during foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

13 May 2019 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm very new to the world of sex, having never been in a relationship before. I now have a girlfriend who is equally as inexperienced. We've never actually had intercourse but I was wondering what people actually do during sex/foreplay when it comes to all the mess! I've come ... (86 words)

Does my girlfriend deserve a second chance because she didn't 'go all the way'?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2003 days ago

13 May 2019 (M)

age 26-29 - I can’t forgive my girlfriend for cheating on me even though she didn’t ‘go all the way’ with the other guy. I’ve told her what she did was unforgivable but my friends and family all think she deserves a second chance and that I’m being too harsh on her. What do you all ... (1066 words)

Seeking advice for a first time crush on a trans man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

13 May 2019 (F)

- I am a single heterosexual cis female. I've recently started spending a lot of social time with a 24yr old transitioning man (ftm), and have suprised myself by developing a crush. He and I aren't super close, and to be honest if nothing else the age difference would... (338 words)

My boyfriend's live in grandfather is undermining me with my children. I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

13 May 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - We aren't married but we have two children together. A year ago, his grandfather came to stay with us after he became widowed an needs caring for. We didn't think it was right to put him in a home and he can't really live alone. My grandfather lived with my mother and father, ... (397 words)

I'm afraid I will be alone, I've screwed up my life and personality and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

13 May 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - I've lived a life of a quiet, lonely loner. It was an act of convincing myself I was better off alone and could not feel lonely. Eventually, any semblance of loneliness I had was simply masked by complacency. This turned me into believing that I needed to do anything and eve... (240 words)

Does anyone here have any experience in dealing with a gambler?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

13 May 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - I could do with some advice, preferably from people who have experience with gambling issues or with a partner (current or ex) who has or had a gambling problem. A few years ago I reconnected with my first love from high school. We began a relationship, although long di... (691 words)

I have feelings for the old flame who's come back into my life but I have a really great boyfriend now. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

13 May 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been dating a guy for the last 6 months and things have been going reasonably well between us. He is a really great guy and he is really good to me. He is thoughtful, supportive and everyone I know thinks he is really great. I really like him but I don’t feel like I’m in ... (207 words)