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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

She's not sure whether she wants a relationship right now... where do I stand now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hi i ahve known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like theis girl and i eventually asked her out. We saw each other all saturday and sunday and we were brilliant together. But on sunday nite i got a call ...

Do I have a chance with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm 14 and so is my ex. we broke up about a year ago, we went through things because we hated each other for about 6-5 months. but since a few months ago we have been talking like twice a week. I always start the conversation [text, mysp...

Is he a jerk and I'm too blond to see or does he need more time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months, he told me he really liked me but needed to focus on school. I felt like I was being used so I said i wasnt going to do it anymore. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and ...

The both rejected my request to be friends on Facebook now I'm getting paranoid people don't like me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Sorry, my question will prob sound a little dumb..... I've got a facebook page and a couple of months ago I requested Adam to be my friend. I knew Adam from years ago, we were really close but there was no romance, we were just good mates. He moved ...

We're not compromising on our personalities - neither one of us is going to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm "talking" to this guy. we're trying to get to know each other before we start an official relationship. One problem. There's basically no compromise. He loves to joke around at the most inappropriate times -- like when I'm mad or trying to tell ...

What can I do to stop my friend getting hurt but without disrupting the friendly atmosphere inthe flat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I recently moved to university hall - about 4 weeks ago to be precise and Im having a bit of a complicated problem. I've been really lucky in the sense that I've got 3 fantastic flatmates - one of which is a girl who I've become best mates with. ...

I am totally stumped as to what to get for my best friend's birthday, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - It's not exactly a question and I guess you guys see this type of question on here often, but I need help. It's my really close friend's birthday soon and I don't know what to get her. I was thinking of doing something based on our friendship t...

She keeps popping into my life all the time, should I ask my mate's girlfriend to tell her I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - hi, I was meeting up with a girl a few months ago that had just broken up with her boyfriend. We really liked eachother but I could tell she wasn't over her boyfriend. Although I could tell she really liked me I could see that she would probab...

Is it friends or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Theres a guy who I work with, he calls me and texts me every day, and we speak on the phone for hours. We went for lunch one day, and were going out again this week and he says he's gonna take me shopping for clothes and stuff. He's asked me thing...

Don't want to lose new boyfriend over racist family and friends.. anyone else had this experience??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - hi ok my problem is I'm Irish and I've started seeing a Polish guy who's living in Ireland. We work together and get along really well and he's the first person I've had real feelings for since I split with my ex 2 years ago.. I've kept it quiet so ...

Please help!! Does he need more time or does he not like me?

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6 October 2008 (F) - We were friends with benefits for months but i couldnt handle just having a sexual relationship. I told him and he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even introduced me to his friends as his gf and we made plans that day. But then he broke them and ...

True Friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I was just responding to a question about friendship and I couldn't help but think of my own friends and how I've grown apart from them but I'm glad of it. I haven't really talked to anyone about how or why it is so this is kinda pretty long ...

Does he have feelings for me that go beyond friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My friend with benefits (that Ive been seeing for the past 9m) and I have become best friends and have told each other we love each other in the context of friends. From the start he said we could never be anything more than friends because ...

My friends use and abuse me! How can I ask new friends to hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Ive come to the realisation lately that I need to make new friends. I have one friend who I would say isa true and great friend...but she lives in my hometown which is across the otherside of the country! My 'friends' that i have made where I ...

How do I come out to my friends without losing them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - hey, I am 15 year old gay boy, and I really want to come 'out' to y close friends. But I am worried that if I do I might loose them. I just not sure what to do. Can anyone help. Like how should I do it. Please!!!! ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend, now I keep thinking about this guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - hi. i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 2 years, and things are just fine, we're kind of really serious, u know, but last month i cheated on him with his best friend : we were all at a party, that my boyfriend had to leave ...

How do I go about asking her out or getting to know her better, or letting her know I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Well I'm a freshman in High school, and I'm kinda shy, when im talking to girls. I have never had a girlfriend before and that's what this question is mostly about. Well lately ive noticed a girl in my photo class. Shes cute, and kinda shy. The prob...

How can I get along better with my girlfriend's friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now and lately a problem has been happening more. I find that whenever my girlfriend would invite me out with her friend's she wouldn't really talk to me, especially when i don't really kno...

How can I be the one in control in this FWB type of relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - It was suggested by a guy that I recently just met and hooked up with that we should continue to just meet casually and hook up. My question is, how can I do this and still have the upper hand on it? I don't want him to think that I'm available any ...

I slept with friend's baby daddy, how wrong was this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I slept with friend's baby daddy - it's been four years since they split and they both seen people since. My girlfriend and I weren't close when it happened, but she had briefly introduced us. Her and I became closer later then she found out. How ...

I'm female and she's a married female. Is she into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

6 October 2008 (?) - I am a middle aged female in love with another middle aged female. I told her my feelings went deeper for her than just friendship. She was very good about it but denied she felt the same way. She is married with no children at home. She tells me ...