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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm only a freshman, what does he see in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I'm a freshman in high school and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. Everytime I pass by he gets red, and when I look at him he gets red too. I have no idea if he likes me or not. Maybe he just wants be be my friend and knowing me I'm not ...

I have this friend with benefits but he's changed lately... what's the matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I have this friend with benefits, he's great, I fell in love with him, but he doesn't want anything serious and neither do I, we have tons of fun and I love everything about the "relationship". It's been a while since we don't sleep together or ...

Hero to zero!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - I met the most amazing woman online. we talked for hours every day via msn , and the more we found out about each other , the more we discovered we had something really special. we shared everything , even that she had been single for 5 years once ...

What do I do about him and why is he like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - How does he see me and how can I get past him? I have this problem that I still talk to this guy who really doesn't care. We had a thing last year where we hung out/went on dates and fooled around. He was also communicating with 2 other girls at...

How can I call him without his partner answering?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Should I just ring him? I am totally besotted with a man who got on great with me but had a partner! Nevertheless - I gave him my number and we were going to meet up but circumstances meant we missed each other on the day! - However, he never ...

He got what he wanted... SEX! So why is he still crazy about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I'm 18 years old. I wanted to stay a virgin until I was 18. I'm not unattractive and I've had a few boyfriends that wanted to have sex but I wanted to wait. Well I had a heart break the day of my 18th birthday, so a little over a month later I ...

Is he being honest or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am in a very difficult situation. It all started 5 months ago when I met a guy and one thing led to another, and i figured it would be a one night stand, but he told me that night he didn't want to sleep around and I was the girl of his ...

Any ways I can clarify to him that I want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - So there's this guy. That I like. A LOT. And is possibly taken by a sort of friend of mine. What the heck do I do? And don't tell me to try to forget about him. I don't get crushes. It's a very rare occurance when I do. The last time I had a big...

People say I have an "angry" face expression when I am just thinking. How can I change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys!! Often times, my friends have asked me "Are you mad or something?" when I am just sitting there and thinking. I guess I always have a serious facial expression but I really cant help it. I also think this is why guys dont usually approach ...

He doesn't want to get in too deep but I can't stop liking him and don't want to get hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

16 October 2008 (?) - Hey, so I'm young, trust me I know I have my life ahead of me, but this on relationship whatever you want to call it seems to refuse to leave my mind. My mother and his father used to play together when they were younger, his father used to fancy ...

My best friend invited me to move in with her until my problem is solved, she knows I'm a lesbian but would she be comfortable with me telling her that I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hi thanks in advance for your help. Ive got myself in a bit of a sticky situation and im not sure how to get out of it with out a) making a fool of myself b) jeopardising a really good friendship. My apartment flooded (burst pipe) and im getting i...

Where can my best friend and I go for a 'girly weekend'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - My best friend and I are really feeling we need to get away from for a girly weekend away somewhere. But have no idea where might be good. Help! We want to go somewhere European, so not too far away - we both like history, trying new foods and a ...

Can you be friends with an ex with whom you have recently split?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Can you still be freinds with an ex who you recently split with ive spoken to him on the phone and get on really well and ive seen him since we split and got on fine then. Do you think t could work like that ...

In her mind she suspects he might actually be gay - and "fighting" his urges.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - A friend of mine is dating this guy - she seems pretty into him but recently told me there were some things that in her eyes were 'deal breakers' - which I took to mean she wouldn't end up with him/marry him. When I asked her about it she told me ...

I don't want to suggest dating her, even although she's told me she's not happy with her current boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hello, I started university two weeks ago. There is a girl on my course who I quite like. We hang around together a fair bit, and I think our friendship is growing. However, I find myself feeling quite attracted to her. She's pretty cute, she...

Should I tell him that the girl is not interested or should I help him to get the girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I have a crush on this guy who I have not met for a few months. He was a colleague of mine and we talked online quite often and we get closer since I quit my job. I wrote in my blog that I like someone but I do not know how to confess. He hasn...

Am I chasing a guy I will never get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hey everyone guess who!!1 it's me lotmoney13!!!! a desperate questioniest at this sight!! LOL!!! if any of my readers read all of my questions (which please read them and help me out) it all really adds up to one question. Am I chasing a guy I will ...

I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else. If I call him he come to me and he behaves like he is my boyfriend. They both love each other, me too love him madly. I need him so much and I want him to be in love with me. What can ...

I think about my best friend's boyfriend more than I do my partner.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - OK THIS IS ALL WIRED I NEED HELP!!! OK so my best friend's boyfriend an I have been having an affair for 5 years now, he's been with her about 7 years, and I been with mine ten years. We both love the sex he tells me he loves it when he's sleeping...

Why did my friend try and keep this from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (?) - My best guy friend, Alex and me were taking a walk together (as friends). We both got hungry and pick a random restaurant. When we're there he seems to be hiding something from me. He kept getting in my way and suggesting we eat somewhere else. I ...

Should I leave him alone or make my case?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Theres this xmas party coming up and I wanted my boyfriend to come with me but he's never liked dancing in public, he won't like the music that's at the party, and I have a feeling that he won't feel like going. I forsaw this and I have a back up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Hoping people can help here. I broke up with my ex about a year ago and we have emailed occasionally. I ran into him in the mall the other day. I suggested we meet for drinks. He said that would be ok but only in a group... what is he implying by ...

I recently discovered a 4 month (daily phone/text) relationship my husband of 11 years has been having with a mutual friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I recently discovered a 4 month (daily phone/text) relationship my husband of 11 years has been having with a mutual friend. My question at this point is how can I see this other person the same when I now know there has been, what I feel, is an ...

My friend has stopped talking to me because I talked to a girl she didn't like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - so i have a problem...i have a friend we been really close friends for bout almost 5 yrs yea we had our ups and downs but its nothng we couldnt overcome....but yea any who this time i have a problem and i dnt know how to slove it... heres the thin...

Why does he flirt with my friends when we've had a fight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Why do guys think that just because him and his girlfriend are in a fight that he can go around flirting with his girlfriend's friends who he just likes as friends????????????????? ...

Is he just using me for pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - Lately I've been having sexual intercourse with someone all the time who happens to be my ex. Me and him were together for about a year, but then he broke up with me because he didn't want to be "tied down", and just wanted to remain friends with ...