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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should I try to get her into therapy because of her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - There is this girl I know and were not exactly boyfriend girlfriend but we sure have a connection and i love this person very much. Well I read her diary and it said at the ages of 9-10 she was molested every day and practically raped and it ...

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, ...

Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...

Guys:Do you honestly think he has led me on intentionally or unintentionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have known him for a year.I used to see him only as my friend...a few months ago,we were closer and we became good friends,but he started flirting with me,touching me a lot(played with my hair,touched my back,put my hair into his mouth and bit it ...

Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship / a hook up (sex only), or just to be friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship,a hook up (sex only),to befriend with a girl? 1. If a girl is beautiful or sexy,but she has a poor personality or she's a b**ch,would you like to have a relationship with her?or just a hook up?o...

I'm willing to wait 2 years for her! She's almost perfect!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm a college student and I met a girl in class in September. We started getting along really well and in 2 or 3 months we saw each other outside of school almost every day. It could be almost impossible to keep in better touch with someone than how ...

I'm chatting with my friends boyfriend and I think I may love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago, I moved to a new country. Before I moved, I became very good friends with a girl and I met her boyfriend of one year a few days before I left. We clicked instantly, and for the last few weeks we have become great friends, chatting ...

How do I meet someone when I work 13 hours a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hey all Recently I met up with a friend of mine who came to visit for the Xmas holidays. She told me about everything that had happened to her this past year and somewhere in that conversation I found out almost everyone I knew had already lost...

Caught between friendship and relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - This girl had a crush on my for a while, about a month and a half I think. I fell for her, and by the time I told her about it, she said she said I was the closest person to her, and decided we should stay friends because she was really afraid that ...

If he goes back to his ex will he still want a FWB relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - This guy i know wants to be FWB with me, as he still misses his ex girlfriend.They broke up a few months ago. I have only met up with him once, although, we have known each other in person for a few months. He said they started talking again ...

My soon-to-be boyfriend has no friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

Compliments, more compliments. But then he told friend that 'I'm not his type' What's his agenda?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So im 19 and he's 30. My friend set us up to go out and everything. And it was nice. i ended up liking him, but i guess he didn't feel the same, because i am here and he is goodness knows where. So here's the thing, we went out and he told me, ''wow ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

Does he really love me, even though in person he's different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for a while and I really do think I love him and when we text and talk and stuff he tells me he loves me very much. He tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl before in his life. He makes me feel ...

Should I go for this boy, or could he be a womanizer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4876 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in high school. We only have one class together, but we hang out with the same group of people in every break, or almost. He is very nice, funny, handsome, sentimental, smart. And I'm not idealizing him; he really is, all girls agree, ...

Is she attracted to me? What does prolonged, intense deep eye contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i met a girl at college and she seemed to be giving me signals of interest. anyway, we eventually exchanged numbers and began flirting and texting until almost 2am on college night (something i wouldn't expect friends to do on a college night). her ...

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him ...

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. ...

I don't want the relationship with married co-worker to go any further but he's started talking to me about sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been working in this company for some time. I got shifted to a new branch of the company, in another part of the city recently. I'm writing about one of my male colleagues in my new office. He's married, with 3 children. I'm single and i...

When he drinks, my best friend tells me he loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm a 16 year old girl, so there's guy that I've been best friends with since I was 11, never saw him as more than a brother, told him everything... He's helped me through all my relationship problems.... But recently, I've seens him as more, ...

How can I meet his friends and not get all self conscious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I am 18, dating a man that is 34. I am in love, and don't see age as a problem here. Our relationship has almost been two years now. He wants me to meet his friends, yet all of them seem to look at age, rather than at me. I am a shy person as it is, ...

Really confusing mixed signals - driving me mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - We're best friends, we spend a lot of time alone together, we text almost all day and I can trust him with anything! He always says he's my knight and he always takes care of me, and does cute things to make me happy. And when we're together we're ...

Does sex always get in the way of just being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So can a man and woman be friends or does sex always get in the way. I have this guy I chat with a couple times a week when we see each other. Small talk has turned intimate and he asks a lot of questions wanting to know me. He also recently told me ...

I only want to be friends with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have an ex boyfriend and i'm over him, but he's not over me. I still want to be friends with him, but he always seems to bring up our past relationship, and how he wants me back. How do i tell him that i want to be friends but not together ...

Why he acts like we're dating if he doesn't want it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night ...

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M) - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through ...

Finally I've realised how much he liked me. What can I do to re-establish our connection?

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30 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally into someone else at that time, that i never noticed that he liked me. ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Why does my best girl friend need to get jealous of my girl friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I'm 15 and I have a girl friend who's amazing. But I also have a girl bestfriend who I love. And now that I have a girlfriend my girl best friend gets all jealous and says I'm still hers. But she said she doesn't like me. But why would she get ...

Why do I keep dreaming about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my ...

I said I missed him and he blocked me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked tal...

Is there a chance that we could be together in future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - She tells me she has feelings for me, but it's on and off for about 1 year. She is in a relationship with her bf for about 4.5 years. They broke up but patched back many times. He is very possessive and she went through so much of emotional hurt ...

If she snitches on me I'm done for!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just recently broke up with a boyfriend and were still friends. Up until a couple days ago we have been hanging around each other every day all day. Then I stopped it because I still really liked him and he was pretty much using me as a booty ...

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue ...

She's too close to my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a year ago. He and I started dating we broke it off 6 months into the relationship and remained friends. One of my best friends met him around the same time. We both met him through the guy she was dating and interested in at the ...

Could this mean he likes me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So i've caught my guy friend staring at me from a distance about 3 times and he doesn't look away when i catch him. Also he doesn't smile when he's staring. I just stare back at him when he does it. He's very confident but i'm really shy. The other ...

What do you reckon... Friends... or more???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So theres this guy in my english and math class that i really like and i wanted to see what you think he thinks of me. He is usually really outgoing and hes that way around me to but one time when we were laughing about something he was looking at ...

Attracted to friend in a relationship with another friend, but don't want to ruin anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - This is possibly one of the most tangled up problem you might see, and I hope I'm clear with exactly what I am troubled about. Some background info - I'm bi-curious, possibly bi-sexual. But that's not the main issue I'm having, although it does...

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs an...

My best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a birthday party and I liked him immediately! Later I found out that my best friend really likes him as well, eventhough she never really talks to him. Me and him became friends right away and had fun, which made her mad. Later me...

How to talk to a grieving friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I...

I confessed my sexuality to her and haven't heard from her since, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - ok. im 17 year old female virgin, i have been questioning my sexuality from a young age, about 11. i dont want to have these thoughts but i dont think anyone ever does really do they? i have been kinda tryin to tell my friend for the past 6 months ...

Should I really be doing this or am I getting a little ahead of myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 14 years old, and just recently, I've made plans with this guy, a friend, who I've known for years, to lose my virginity...and I know a lot of people might say I'm too young, but I know what I want.. my thing is, I have a fear of ...

I want to tell him that I feel he takes me for granted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I just need some advise for a situation with a friend. im going to be very brief sorry. Tomorrow I'm seeing a friend, who I have not spoken to or seen in quite a while. Both studying away from home, I tried to keep us together but he ...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

This has gone on too long. How can I get him to ask me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us i...

Messy situation with 2 friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - You'd think I would be smarter than this, however, I used to be friends with "Jan" and "Martha". We were known as the 3 Musketeers, but until 5 years ago, Jan decided she no longer wanted to be friends with Martha because of her behavior and just ...